Healing Trauma: The Stillpoint Method 10-Day Course - by Lynn Fraser

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Healing Trauma: The Stillpoint Method 10-Day Course

With Lynn Fraser

Throughout this clear simple course, you will see how childhood experiences affect the development of the brain and nervous system, and the lasting effects throughout our adult life. Each of the ten sections covers a specific area, like troubling thoughts, relationships, kindness, and compassion. You will learn simple, powerful practices to build long-term strength and resilience and to emotionally self-regulate when you are stressed. “Trauma is not what happens to us. Trauma is what happens inside of us as a result of what happens to us. The effect of trauma is that we disconnect from ourselves, our sense of value, and the present moment.” Gabor Maté, MD


Meet your Teacher

Lynn Fraser is a senior teacher in the Himalayan Yoga Meditation tradition; a Certified Facilitator of the Kiloby Inquiries, a somatic mindfulness method of healing; and founder of the Stillpoint Method of Healing Trauma. Lynn's pronouns are she/they. She is a cis-gender woman, lesbian, large bodied, able bodied, white, middle-class, mother of one and grandmother of three, and elder (70 years old). Her healing journey that informs her work with others is an integration of her experience and practice as a meditator of 30 years, meditation and yoga teacher, social justice activist, and a PTSD and CPTSD trauma survivor. Lynn began facilitating Stillpoint as an anchor to support your journey in living from your own innate wisdom and basic goodness, and to know it is possible to heal from experiences of feeling disconnected and unworthy. She is passionate in helping others to heal trauma and feel love and compassion for themselves. She has been interviewed on major podcasts and summits in her field. Lynn is the founder of the Radical Recovery Summit, innovation in healing trauma and addiction through a social justice lens.

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10 Days

9.7k students

4.9 stars

15 min / day

Healing

English


Lesson 1

Basic Understanding of Trauma

People are stressed and suffering. Anxiety and depression are rising. Many people have lost the juiciness and joy of life. It is clear that our defensive strategies of fight/flight/freeze from childhood are no longer working. As adults, we have the capacity and skill to change. The Stillpoint Method of healing trauma is rooted in neuroscience and yoga meditation. The effect of abuse, hurt and emotional neglect on children is called Developmental Trauma because it affects our developing brain and nervous system. This limits our ability to make and sustain healthy connections and relationships. We finish this session with a 2 minute practice of relaxing the forehead to release worry.

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Lesson 2

Emergency Practices for Grounding and Orienting

The health and resilience of our nervous system impacts every moment of our life. It determines our level of trust and feelings of physical and emotional safety. We all get unsettled and disturbed at times. We feel anxious, enraged, or like we're going to have a panic attack. Catastrophic thinking holds us in a trance. To heal from trauma, we need to strengthen our ability to come out of the past or future, and be grounded in the safety of this present moment. This session blends yoga meditation with neuroscience. Learn and practice several powerful tools for emotional self-regulation: 5 4 3 2 1 senses; box breathing; holding your own hand, and talking in longer sentences in a meeting; Qi Gong practice of shaking the tree, etc.

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Lesson 3

How To Stop Torturing Yourself With Your Thoughts

Thoughts are words we hear or see, and images we see (colors and shapes). The content is based on our life experiences. We relax and enjoy memories of a beautiful sunset or being with someone we love. Compelling and catastrophic thoughts generated by a hypervigilant nervous system cause distress. We learn about 3 main types of thoughts and how to witness our thoughts. This session is packed with tools like trance tapping, tracing, focus shifting to break the trance of ruminating and worse-case scenario thinking.

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Lesson 4

Feelings, Sensations and Energy in Our Body

We store trauma in our body along with associated memories. We heal trauma somatically, in and through our body. This session is an opportunity to become familiar with sensations in your body and listen to know why this feeling is here. Energy is not here to hurt us. It is here to protect or warn us. We reach a tipping point where we are no longer afraid of the energy in our body. We are able to welcome everything that is here.

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Lesson 5

Protective Mechanism: Anger and Lashing Out

This is a guided somatic inquiry into feeling anger. Feel free to pause the recording and spend more time with some parts of the inquiry. One of the ways we defend ourselves is through the fight response. We lash out verbally with cutting remarks or sometimes are also physically violent. People whose primary trauma response is anger or rage understandably have more trouble with relationships. When we are emotionally flooded we feel like we are fighting for our life. Feeling powerless is often what triggers a threat response. Feeling anger is biologically preferable to feeling shame or helplessness. Anger and mobilizing into fight is one of our normal responses to situations where we perceive a threat. There is a difference between an uncontrolled fight response, feeling anger, and expressing anger.

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Lesson 6

Protective Mechanism: Denial, Numbing Out, Addiction

Developmental trauma is the impact of our childhood experiences on the development of our brain and nervous system. One of the major mechanisms to protect ourselves is disconnection. When we are not taken care of and attuned with emotionally, we feel invisible and develop core deficiency beliefs that we are unlovable or bad. We are able to be open and authentic only when we feel emotionally and physically safe and we are not worried about being judged. Isolation to protect ourselves emotionally doesn’t really work. We finish with a guided practice of "What Does the Heart Know?" to reconnect with ourselves with kindness.

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Lesson 7

Shame and Turning Against Ourselves

Shame is meant to create an immediate bad feeling to arrest an action quickly. Ideally, shaming of a behavior is followed quickly by a repair and connection, but often we feel shamed for who we are, and not for a behavior that we can change. We pressure ourselves through a mean inner critic who never lets up. We try to be perfect to be included and accepted. Is the shaming appropriate to the situation? Would you shame a good friend the way you turn against yourself? Awareness is the first step to heal this pattern of suffering and cultivate a kinder connection.

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Lesson 8

Compassion and Kindness

Why are we not kind to ourselves? We can be compassionate with strangers, but we can’t give ourselves a break. The reasons for this stem back to childhood and our strategies for survival. If we were the one who was broken or defective, we had hope for change. We could keep trying to fix ourselves and finally be safe. This guided somatic practice explores cultivating kindness and compassion as we more deeply know and accept who we are.

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Lesson 9

Relationships

Connecting with ourselves is the prerequisite to authentic and vulnerable connection with others. Without it, we are almost untouched by someone’s love and affection. One barrier is our false core deficiency beliefs of being unlovable. Another is a nervous system response of fight/flight/freeze. We are not available. Each section of this ten day course has been nurturing a connection with ourselves. We understand what caused the disconnection and how the inner critic developed. As we heal and release trauma, our inner experience changes. We become more patient and kind internally, and it is safer to connect more easily and authentically with others.

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Lesson 10

Resilience and Strength

Bring to mind one of your strengths, like curiosity, optimism, steadfastness, loyalty, or love of learning. Remember a time you used that strength and imagine it vividly using all your senses. Who was there? What was going on? What existing strengths could you bring to the situation you are in now? Bring that scenario vividly to life. In the past we may have made it through by dissociating, shutting down, or getting angry. This time we are practicing mindfulness. We cultivate curiosity and kindness towards ourselves.

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Ask your teacher

This course includes 93 community questions and 7 audio replies from Lynn Fraser. The community classroom and teacher audio replies are only available via the app.

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Recent Reviews

Katya

November 21, 2025

Very helpful and informative, thank you

Amy

Amy

September 24, 2025

Hi Lynn, I just finished the last day of the course. Your recent reply was so incredibly soothing, reaffirming, validating and (also just on a pragmatic level) helpful. I used the framing and tapping technique today. I've been getting flooded with emotional flashbacks pretty much around the clock since returing from a 7 month stay with my sister and her family. My God... I do not know how I thought that could ever have turned out any differently. I wake up many days with my phone by my bedside and listen to your 'emotional flashbacks' audio before I am able to put my feet on the ground. I didn't even know that was a 'thing.' It's been so helpful in being able to face the day. It's been a guide for me as well in communicating with my fiance about on what's going on and why I can't cognitively put things in perspective and move on with my day. Also, your information on trauma has been a lighthouse in our relationship. My default mechanism is to go into fight or flight - his is shut down or freeze. We NEVER knew this is what was happening. I am incredibly blessed to be with him. It's been almost 11 years now and we are constantly growing. The love was never in question. If anything it's only deepended over the years. I'm sure, knowing a bit of my history and what I've been going through, it has been full of challenges. The difficulties we have faced throughout my illness and into recovery were monumental and still are. Where your work comes in is this: I have no question that the root cause and perpetuation of the debilitating symptoms have their roots in trauma and nervous system dysregulation. After almost of decade of taking a deep dive into eastern and western medicine in all of its modalities, the real work was and still is in the types of practices you teach (many more as well, but the main concepts all align). Leaving the medical model and shifting the paradigm dramatically is what brought me from wheelchair and slurred speech to walking and hiking and being out in the world again. Now the symptoms have shifted and in some ways are equally debilitating, but I know the root cause. Your work has kept me focused and on track. This knowledge and all of the practices give me a kind of ladder or structure to keep going. It actually feels more like a tightrope than a ladder most days, but still, the instruction you offer (and honestly your work out in the world) helps me 'buy in' to the legitamacy of what you teach. Anyway, this is a long drawn out way of saying thank you for all that you do. The compassion, empathy and support has been a sort of lifeline for me, especially on the very difficult days. Thank you for all that you do. Amy

Gretchen

Gretchen

April 30, 2025

This was concise and relatable with solid practices. I recommend completing a lesson a week to allow for practice and integration. Thank you for taking the time to create it.

Adrian

Adrian

March 16, 2025

Wonderfully presented and concise

Annemiek

Annemiek

March 1, 2025

So much valuable information ❤️ Thank you 🙏🙏🙏 it’s much appreciated

Lori

Lori

December 11, 2024

This was very informative & validating. I appreciate your guidance & tips toward healing trauma. Thank you. 🙏🏻

Alisha

November 27, 2024

I really enjoyed exploring this course and continuing on my journey of trying to move past/heal my trauma!

Imre

Imre

November 23, 2024

By explaining what happens in the body - how a mechanism takes over and how distorted core beliefs have beeñ 'created', I can look at myself with more understanding and softness. That softness offers space to participate in the exercises. I wish I had delved into this psycho-education earlier, but I have always 'avoided' it. A word that often came up in this course. It is sad. But there is 'hope' and 'a way'! Those are the most important words to focus on. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.

Paul

Paul

November 20, 2024

This was so helpful.

Bradlee

Bradlee

November 18, 2024

This course has been so illuminating for me. At 44 years old, I am understanding so much more about myself thanks to Lynn's teachings. I feel so fortunate to have come across this course and will definitely listen to it again to help myself.

Sheila

October 25, 2024

Informed, compassionate and really helpful.

Peter

Peter

September 22, 2024

A very eye opening series on one’s reactions to trauma . I am grateful to have found this…..

Alison

September 15, 2024

This is a fabulous course. Thoughtfully organized, beautifully presented, rich in both theoretical information and practical guidance. Lynn combines expertise, intelligence, and a deep substantive understanding with clarity, compassion, warmth, genuine encouragement, a beautiful prosodic speaking voice, a soothing measured pace, and an obviously regulated nervous system. What a find! And what remarkable generosity to offer this caliber of teaching for free. I envision returning often — for the wealth of information I’d still like to absorb, the many helpful practices I canely. 🙏

Amy

Amy

August 29, 2024

These were nice lessons, but what I really need is to learn how to be self-aware when I am switching to fight-flight-freeze, so I can use the tools and be present. So far that’s been hard to figure out.

Krysia

August 2, 2024

Wonderful. I’m going to go through the course again. Thank you so much, Lynn, for your generosity.

Helene

June 28, 2024

Wow, I didn’t want this course to end! I loved your methods, words, rationale adding to my constant thirst for more understanding and knowledge into my trauma. Resilient and calm equips me daily as I walk further into my life, myself and be brave as I be game to explore my talents in unknown areas and never look back on the traumatic hold over me, inside and out! I’m at this stage and so excited to venture into the untapped me, beginning with expressive art workshops.. preparing and paving my entrance into becoming an Art Theapist. I will listen to your course many times, reassuring any doubts and soldiering forward into this beautifully healing platform that I relish in as it excites and comforts art. I am a mature woman, 66, embarking in a Diploma in Art Therapy and loving every module scoring 100% after 30 years of abuse and telling you your dumb! I’m an artist and have never realised I’ve painted my way through these years, healing and comforting me, whilst building resilience by losing everything and rebuilding myself, my world. This course gave me a tool kit to further repair and equip myself to steer forward! Thankyou Thankyou!☺️

Jen

June 18, 2024

Excellent way of getting to know oneself. Thank you for helping me with my awareness

Char

Char

June 12, 2024

Thank you! I think I will need to do the couree a few more times as I found I had alot of resistance.

Aaron

Aaron

May 2, 2024

Incredibly difficult however this course has helped. Thank goodness

Sal

Sal

April 30, 2024

Really empowering and constructive thank you

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