Good Love: Self Work To Find Romance - by Julie Peters

COURSE

Good Love: Self Work To Find Romance

With Julie Peters

Wanting romantic love is one of the healthiest and most common longings we have as human beings. Still, many of us find ourselves without the love we really want. Maybe our relationships always end in the same way, or we always get into the same sorts of conflicts, or maybe we've never gotten started in an intimate relationship at all. Of course, there is an element of mystery and luck here, but there are plenty of things we can learn about ourselves and how relationships function for us in our conscious and unconscious minds that can empower us to change these patterns. In this course, we will learn about attachment theory, spiritual and intergenerational perspectives on relationships, communication skills, and practical tips that can go a long way toward helping to cultivate healthy relationships. The meditations will help you get a sense of what's happening in your body and mind around love and how to make the changes that can allow you to move forward toward good, healthy romantic love.


Meet your Teacher

Julie Peters is an intuitive body-based counselor and meditation teacher with a trauma-informed approach. She works with many of her clients on relationship issues, helping them to shift out of unhelpful patterns and towards healthy love. Julie is also a staff writer for Spirituality and Health Magazine and is the author of three books, Secrets of the Eternal Moon Phase Goddesses, Want: 8 Steps to Recovering Desire, Passion, and Pleasure After Sexual Assault, and The Full Moon Yearbook. She sees clients virtually anywhere in the world or in person where she lives on Plains Cree land in Treaty 6 territory, also known as Edmonton, Alberta, Canada.

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11 Days

329 students

4.5 stars

17 min / day

Love

English


Lesson 1

Good Love Lesson One: What's Blocking You From Love?

In this course, we'll talk about the validity of wanting romantic love and some of the common blockages that may be holding you back from good, healthy love. We will look at shame, fear, past trauma, and the model your first family provided for you in thinking about what relationships are supposed to look like. We will also consider your intention when you think about what you want when you move into your next romantic relationship.

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Lesson 2

Meditation For Calling In Good Love

This meditation gives us an opportunity to honor our longing for love and consider our true intentions around it a little more deeply. We will also meet any fears or anxieties that may come up around this intention. We'll get curious about what each inner part of us has to say.

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Lesson 3

Good Love Lesson Two: Spiritual Perspectives

When we think about love, we know there is a little bit of luck or mystery to it. Am I looking for my soul mate or my twin flame? How do I know if I've found them? What if something energetic or spiritual is blocking me from love? How do I shift through that? We will discuss all these questions in a way that returns your choice back to you to allow you to move forward with the spiritual perspective in line as well.

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Lesson 4

Meditation, Ritual, and Prayer For Calling In Good Love

In this ritual meditation, we will release any energetic blockages that are standing in the way of our search for good love and ask for help from a spiritual guide to move us forward in that journey. You may want to have a candle lit for this magic spell and a journal nearby to write down any reflections afterwards.

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Lesson 5

Good Love Lesson Three: Attachment Theory

Attachment theory is a highly useful framework to help us look at our patterns in adult relationships. This applies to all our relationships, but our attachment styles and responses tend to be particularly triggered in romantic relationships. Let's learn what our style might be and how to work with it in a useful way.

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Lesson 6

Bonus Lesson: Disorganized Attachment And Adults Who Have Never Been In Relationships

I wanted to add a little bit more information for those of you who identify with disorganized attachment and/or being an adult who wants a relationship but has never had one. I think these demographics often get glossed over, but they are valid and not uncommon, and there are plenty of things we can do to help ourselves if we relate to these groups.

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Lesson 7

Meditation On Attachment Stress And Style

In this meditation, we will explore what happens in our bodies when we experience stress within our relationships. We may get a little bit more information about our attachment styles and how they have changed (or not) from our first caregivers. This meditation does require some engagement with family relationships and stress, so if that doesn't feel safe for you today, feel free to skip it or do it another time. We also end on a gentle stress relief exercise to let it go.

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Lesson 8

Good Love Lesson Four: Communication Skills

In this lesson, I share the communication skills and patterns I've found most useful when we are preparing for and building our new relationships. We talk about the value of vulnerability, the dangers of people pleasing, and using anger as a tool for intimacy.

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Lesson 9

Meditation: Anger As A Tool For Intimacy

This meditation works with the core emotion of anger and what it might be trying to tell us, especially about our needs and boundaries. We will sit with the experience of anger and listen to it so we can understand its messages and then choose what to do with those messages.

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Lesson 10

Good Love Lesson Five: Practical Aspects

In this lesson, let's put together all the inner work we've done and think about the actions we can take to put ourselves in front of the people who might be a good fit for us. We'll explore "The List" practice and how to approach online dating and otherwise to give ourselves the best chance of finding that good love.

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Lesson 11

Meditation and Reflection: The List Practice

In this meditation we will take some time out to really reflect on what we want in relationship and what our goals and values are. Bring your journal and take the time to think clearly about the practical aspects you want and need in a potential partner. Feel free to take your time with this meditation, pausing as you need to, and come back to it when you want to reflect again. This is our last lesson, so don't forget to post questions and comments in the course page. I'd love to hear what you think! And all the best in your love journey.

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Recent Reviews

Nora

August 19, 2025

There are a lot of hidden gems on this course, and also lots to reflect on. My biggest takeaways were: getting clear on what you desire and why, aiming for an 80% not 100% match, as well hope and strategies exist for those with disorganised attachment and /or who has never been in a relationship before. The exercises are gentle, yet effective. It helped me to embrace more experimentation and lightness in my journey, which is what I wanted. I still feel like I have a way to go, but happy to be waking this path more intentionally. Thank you Julie

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