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Burnout Is Not Your Fault: A New Path To Self-Trust And Calm
4.7
10 jours de cours

Burnout Is Not Your Fault: A New Path To Self-Trust And Calm

Par Clare Downham

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Burnout doesn’t mean you’re broken. Especially for high achievers, it often means you’ve been living with invisible pressure for too long. Pushing, proving, and pleasing to feel worthy. This course offers a powerful shift: burnout isn’t a failure to manage your life. It’s a wake-up call to remember who you really are. Over 10 insight-rich lessons, you’ll explore the deeper patterns behind your exhaustion like perfectionism, people-pleasing, emotional suppression, and control. You’ll learn why burnout is more than overwhelm, and how reclaiming ease starts not by doing more, but by seeing differently. Drawing from the Three Principles and nonduality, this course invites you to reconnect with your natural clarity, self-worth, and calm without guilt, without fixing, and without losing your ambition. Whether you're struggling to rest, constantly in your head, or tired of trying to hold everything together, these lessons offer not just relief but a return to your true self. You’ll walk away with: • A deeper understanding of burnout as a pattern of thought, not personal failure • Relief from guilt, internal pressure, and over-functioning • Tools to release perfectionism and control in favour of self-trust • Practical shifts for creating more space, clarity and balance without efforting You don’t need to become someone new. You just need to remember the version of you who doesn’t burn out.

Clare Downham

West Yorkshire, United Kingdom

Clare guides high-achieving professionals and business owners to release stress, perfectionism, and emotional overwhelm, not by doing more, but by seeing differently. Her courses and coaching offer a transformational shift: from burnout to clarity, from inner critic to inner knowing, from over-functioning to sustainable ease. Drawing from the...

Leçon 1
The Truth About Burnout
Burnout isn’t just about doing too much. It’s about believing you are what you do. In this first lesson, we explore how the entanglement between worth and productivity quietly fuels chronic stress and exhaustion. We begin to see that burnout is not a personal failure, but the inevitable result of believing that your value depends on how much you can manage, fix, or hold together. Burnout begins not in your schedule but in your thinking.
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You Can Do Anything But Not Everything
You were told you could do anything. But somewhere along the way, that empowering message became a heavy burden: you must do everything, perfectly, all the time. In this lesson, we look at the cultural messaging that shaped a generation of high-achieving women into over-functioning, overwhelmed professionals. Burnout isn’t laziness. It’s loyalty to a standard that was never yours to carry. You don’t have to prove anything to anyone. Not even yourself.
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Thoughts! The Invisible Driver Of Burnout
It’s easy to believe burnout is caused by work, deadlines, or demands. But the real driver often hides in plain sight: our thinking. In this lesson, we explore how the stories we tell ourselves, about worth, urgency, and responsibility, create pressure even when things are calm on the outside. When thought looks real, burnout feels inevitable. The mind can burn you out faster than your calendar ever will.
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Suppressing The Body’s Wisdom
We’ve been taught to “push through” tiredness, ignore discomfort, and override the body in favour of productivity. But burnout accelerates when we disconnect from the quiet wisdom of our physical selves. In this lesson, we explore how ignoring the body’s signals feeds chronic exhaustion and how listening again can begin to restore balance. Your body isn’t a machine. It’s a messenger.
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Perfectionism! The Silent Burnout Trigger
Perfectionism often hides in plain sight, disguised as high standards, ambition, or “just doing your best.” But behind it is a deep fear of not being good enough—and that fear creates burnout faster than any task list. In this lesson, we look at how perfectionism fuels constant self-correction, drains energy, and disconnects us from the rest we deeply need. The need to be perfect is often a fear of being judged… by your own inner critic.
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People-Pleasing And The Burnout Trap
People-pleasing can look like kindness, empathy, or being dependable but often, it’s fear in disguise. In this lesson, we explore how the drive to please others leads to self-abandonment and burnout. When we say yes to avoid conflict or seek approval, we exhaust ourselves. True care doesn’t come from sacrifice. It comes from clarity. If being “nice” costs you your peace, it’s not kindness. It’s conditioning.
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Letting Go Of Control
The need to control everything, our schedules, emotions, outcomes, and others’ responses, keeps us locked in exhaustion. In this lesson, we explore how burnout is often fuelled by the illusion that peace comes from perfect management. You’ll learn how softening control invites spaciousness, flow, and an unexpected return of energy. The more you try to hold everything together, the more you lose connection to yourself.
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Burnout As A Wake-Up Call
Burnout is not a sign of weakness. It’s an invitation. In this lesson, we reframe burnout not as a breakdown to fear, but as a signal to pause, reflect, and realign. When we stop fighting it and start listening, burnout can become a powerful pivot point back to truth, balance, and inner freedom. Burnout isn’t the end. It’s the beginning of something deeper calling you home.
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The Power Of Self-Compassion
Self-compassion is not a luxury. It’s essential. When we meet ourselves with gentleness instead of judgment, something profound shifts. In this lesson, we explore how self-compassion dissolves the inner critic, allows us to rest without guilt, and creates the conditions for true healing, not just from burnout, but from the beliefs that caused it. You don’t need to become someone better. You need to remember who you already are.
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Sustaining Ease And Preventing Burnout
In this closing lesson, we reflect on the journey you’ve taken. Burnout loses its grip when you live from clarity, not pressure. When you rest in your true nature, balance isn’t something you manage. It’s something that naturally emerges. You’ll leave with practical ways to stay connected to ease, and a reminder: the version of you who doesn’t burn out already exists. You’re not broken. You’re remembering.

Avis récents

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Hayley-Rose
October 20, 2025
Easy to listen to and understand , just like a wise kind friend imparting advice. Very insightful & helpful. Thank you so much for this. 🙏
José
July 20, 2025
Powerful check in. It helps to know I’m not alone. Thank you!
Shannon
May 5, 2025
I will definitely be listening to this one again to help remind myself of all your thoughtful advice. Thank you for creating this for everyone ❤️
Steve
April 15, 2025
Quietly transformative. Calm seas have strong tides.
Jim
April 12, 2025
Wonderful course!! Going to repeat it!! Thank you!!🙏

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