Revealing Self-Esteem: Let Go Of The Inner Critic, Embrace Your Essence - by Clare Downham

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Revealing Self-Esteem: Let Go Of The Inner Critic, Embrace Your Essence

With Clare Downham

Do you feel like you're forever "building" your self-esteem, brick by insecure brick? Does fixing flaws and chasing external validation feel like an endless climb? If so, let's pause at the summit of expectation and take a different route. This isn't a climb at all, but an invitation to rediscover the radiant essence that's already there, untouched by the shadows of self-doubt. This journey, guided by the wisdom of the 3 Principles (Thought, Mind, and Consciousness), isn't about acquiring tools or techniques. It's about a gentle shift in awareness, a turning inward to the vast space of your true being. Imagine a calm lake reflecting the world, its surface undisturbed by passing clouds. Your Consciousness is like that lake, ever-present and still, while your thoughts are like those clouds, transient and ever-changing. Through simple, non-prescriptive exercises, you'll cultivate the ability to observe your thoughts, including the often-present critic you might call "Niggly Nelly." You won't try to fix or silence these thoughts, but simply watch them arise and pass like clouds across the sky. In this space of witnessing, something remarkable happens. You start to glimpse the stillness beneath, the unruffled surface of your Consciousness. And in that stillness lies a reservoir of self-compassion, confidence, and acceptance. You realize you are not your thoughts, not your anxieties, not the voice of the critic. You are the silent observer, the ever-present awareness. This isn't about building self-esteem from scratch, but about remembering and reconnecting with the inherent worth that already shines within you. This is an invitation to embark on a journey of self-discovery, not self-improvement. It's about stepping off the treadmill of striving and stepping into the stillness of being. Are you ready to shed the layers of self-doubt and reclaim your authentic self? Join me in "Revealing Self-Esteem: Let Go of the Inner Critic, Embrace Your Essence." Let's remember, together, the radiant essence that has always been there, waiting to be rediscovered.


Meet your Teacher

Clare is your guide to reveal your true potential and create a life which is powered by calm. As a certified 3 Principles and ILM Coach, she is dedicated to empowering individuals to transcend stress, anxiety, and overwhelm, guiding them towards a life of fulfilment and authentic self-expression. Clare has a strong belief in the innate mental well-being that resides within every human being. She expertly navigates the intricacies of the human mind, helping individuals to silence the incessant chatter of the inner critic and embrace the whispers of their true selves. Through her deep listening, gentle guidance and insightful reflections, she empowers individuals to: • Uncover the wellspring of joy and contentment that resides within. • Cultivate inner calm, resilience, and unshakeable confidence. • Navigate life’s challenges with intuition and ease. • Dissolve limiting beliefs, self-doubt, and imposter syndrome. • Thrive amongst the demands of modern life. Clare's passion for empowering others stems from her own transformative journey towards calm and self-awareness. She understands that awakening is not a destination but an ongoing journey, one that requires courage, self-compassion, and a willingness to delve into the depths of one's being. Whether you're a seasoned seeker of calm or a curious beginner embarking on this journey for the first time, Clare's expertise and unwavering support will guide you to reveal your true potential and create a life powered by calm.

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7 Days

688 students

4.9 stars

8 min / day

Grounded

English


Lesson 1

Beyond Building To Unveiling

In this lesson we explore the ideas society has about self-esteem. We look at a simple definition, unpick it and look at how the endless seeking of self-esteem in the outside world is perhaps not as helpful as it is made out to be.

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Lesson 2

The Witness Within

In this lesson we explore non-judgemental awareness and begin to recognise ourselves not as the thoughts or the thinker but the observer of the thoughts. We move towards observation and detachment from thought as a direction which will set us free.

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Lesson 3

Unmasking Niggly Nelly

In this lesson we look to identify common negative thought patterns related to low self-esteem. By doing this, we begin to relate differently to these very human types of thoughts which we all have at some time or another.

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Lesson 4

The Gift Of Acceptance

In this lesson we explore acceptance, not from seeing it as something to do but as a consequence of seeing things differently. We look away from trying to ‘fix’ ourselves and towards allowing things to unfold naturally.

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Lesson 5

From Thought To Being

In this lesson we explore the gap between thought and reality. We look at the root of those negative thoughts and also look at experientially being with what is real and how that can move us towards seeing ourselves differently.

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Lesson 6

The Radiance Of Presence

In this lesson, we look to connect deeply with the present moment through being present in the body. In this way, we can move through the lack of action which can come from low self-esteem and reveal our own unique radiant essence.

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Lesson 7

The Dance Of Being And Doing

In this lesson we close with an exploration of how we can integrate the learning from this course into life. How we can experiment with being present to feelings, relate to our thoughts differently and begin to take more action which is aligned with our wisdom and values.

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Ask your teacher

This course includes 14 community questions and 14 audio replies from Clare Downham. The community classroom and teacher audio replies are only available via the app.

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Recent Reviews

Claire

December 20, 2024

Love your calm voice! The main message for me was that I don’t have to give Niggly Nelly any credence, to view her from ‘outside’, as it were. Thank-you for all the helpful impulses!

Diana

Diana

September 24, 2024

Thank you this is really helping me 🙏

Anne

Anne

September 14, 2024

Very empowering course. Lots of good advice and stories to help change your views

Tracy

September 10, 2024

Great explanation and insights on this topic! There are so many voices out there trying to get us to understand why we feel the way we do! This particular course really resignates with me!❤️Thank You for sharing it.

Kaushal

Kaushal

February 7, 2024

Thank you for sharing and creating. It was very helpful.

Nita

Nita

February 4, 2024

💗 Thank you!

Liv

Liv

February 3, 2024

Your courses are beginning to make a real impact. It is subtle but very powerful, thank you.

Timo

Timo

February 1, 2024

Wonderful course, thank you Clare! I really really like the ideas and insights and your kind way of speaking. I think that I learned a lot of things that will help me getting a different view on things and help being more compassionate with myself. Especially in those moments in the night, when your thoughts won't stop and start creating horror scenarios. I now have some ideas how to handle these.

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