Lektion 1
Learning To Say No (Without Feeling Guilty)
Today’s objective is to see why saying no feels so hard and how you can start doing it without drowning in guilt.
The theory for this section states that our brains are wired to fear letting people down, but with practice, it becomes a healthy habit that keeps you in control.
Lektion 2
The Trap Of People Pleasing
In the last session, we talked about why saying no feels so uncomfortable and how practicing short, clear noes helps you protect your energy.
Today’s objective is to understand people pleasing, the fears that drive it, and how to stop sacrificing yourself just to keep others happy.
The theory for this section states that people pleasing drains you over time. The habit is usually fueled by fear; fear of conflict, fear of rejection, or fear of being left behind. Breaking the cycle requires noticing those fears and responding in healthier ways.
Lektion 3
Basics Of Saying No: Part 1
In the last session, we explored people pleasing: how fear of conflict, rejection, or abandonment makes us overcommit.
Today’s objective is to learn basic, practical tools that make saying no easier in everyday situations.
The theory for this section states that simple, direct noes are often the strongest. Excuses, stalling, or over-explaining weaken your boundaries. Practicing no in low-stakes situations builds the skill for tougher ones.
Lektion 4
Basics Of Saying No: Part 2
In the last session, we covered the basics of saying no: pausing before answering, avoiding excuses, creating personal rules, reframing “plans,” and using prevention.
Today’s objective is to expand your toolkit with more advanced techniques that help you say no clearly, respectfully, and consistently.
The theory for this session is that by pairing warmth with firmness, protecting your mental bandwidth, and creating category-based rules, you make your "no" easier to deliver and harder to argue against.
Lektion 5
Preparing To Say No
In the last session, we learned practical techniques for saying no, such as describing your workload, pairing warmth with firmness, staying consistent, and protecting your decision bandwidth.
Today’s objective is to prepare yourself mentally and emotionally so you can say no without guilt or hesitation.
The theory for this section states that preparation reduces fear. By practicing, rehearsing, and changing your mindset, you increase the likelihood of following through on your boundaries.
Lektion 6
Saying No At Work Part 1
In the last session, we focused on preparing yourself to say no. We looked at how to reflect on past refusals, practice delivery, and use tools like inspiration files to reduce fear and guilt.
Today’s objective is to learn how to say no at work in a professional, respectful way that protects your time without damaging your credibility.
The theory for this section states that healthy boundaries at work improve performance and prevent burnout. Respectful refusal strengthens long-term trust and sustainability.
Lektion 7
Saying No At Work Part 2
In the last session, we practiced saying no at work with scripts, rehearsals, micro-refusals, and deadline negotiations to protect your time and focus.
Today’s objective is to handle requests that go too far: out-of-scope asks, personal favors, bad ideas, and pressure from above, without burning bridges.
The theory for this section states that clear role boundaries, factual explanations, and consistent follow-through stop repeat impositions and protect your credibility.
Lektion 8
Saying No To Friends & Family
In the last session, we learned how to handle work requests that go too far.
Today’s objective is to set and hold boundaries with friends and family so you protect your energy without burning bridges.
The theory for this section states that family dynamics and habit make blurred no’s common; clear rules, consistent action, and measured communication rebuild respect and stop repeated demands.
Lektion 9
Upholding Your No
In the last session, we practiced setting boundaries with friends and family.
Today’s objective is to learn how to hold your no when people push, how to enforce consequences, and how to refresh or restate limits without collapsing into guilt.
The theory for this section states that a person not only has power if they back it up with consistent action, clear communication, and measurable follow-through.
Lektion 10
Being Resolute & Courteous
In the last session, we practiced upholding your no: repeating refusals, using if–then plans, calming your body, and documenting boundaries so they stick.
Today’s objective is to learn how to stay firm when people push and stay polite so your relationships and reputation survive the boundary.
The theory for this section states that firmness plus courtesy is the most effective combo: clarity stops repeat pressure, and courtesy prevents escalation and protects your standing.
