Mending From A Broken Heart - by Samantha Touchais

COURSE

Mending From A Broken Heart

With Samantha Touchais

If you are navigating the end of a significant relationship — whether that loss is fresh and raw or has been sitting heavily with you for longer than you feel it should — this course meets you exactly where you are, without judgment and without rushing you anywhere you are not ready to go. Mending is a ten-day journey through heartbreak in its fullest, most honest sense — covering the grief, the self-blame, the loss of identity, the deeper beliefs that loss can surface, and the gradual, tender process of coming back to yourself. Each session weaves accessible science with compassionate reflection and practical tools — giving you not just understanding but real support for the real moments — the triggers, the 3 am wakings, the waves that arrive without warning. By Day 10 you will not be over it — but you will be mending. Genuinely, beautifully, one day at a time. By the end of this ten-day course, students will: - Understand the science of heartbreak — why it hurts as much as it does, what it does to the brain and body, and why everything they are feeling makes complete and human sense - Build a personal toolkit for navigating the hardest moments — the triggers, the waves, the sleepless nights — with practical, immediately usable tools that genuinely help - Begin to untangle their sense of self from the relationship that has ended — rediscovering who they are, what they value, and what they bring, independent of this loss - Identify and compassionately challenge the deeper beliefs about love, worth, and belonging that heartbreak has surfaced — and begin gently rewriting them - Practice genuine self-compassion and self-forgiveness — releasing the self-blame and the replaying that keeps so many people stuck long after a relationship has ended - Begin to reclaim their story — shifting the narrative from one of loss and failure to one of courage, growth, and becoming - Establish a daily Healing Moment — a personal, sustainable practice of self-care and self-restoration that continues long after the course is complete WHAT STUDENTS CAN EXPECT - Ten audio sessions of approximately 10 to 15 minutes each — carefully crafted to allow enough depth for each stage of the healing journey without ever feeling overwhelming - A warm, honest, and completely non-judgmental space — this course meets you exactly where you are, in whatever stage of grief or recovery you are in - Real tools for real moments — every session offers something immediately practical and usable, not just ideas to think about - Accessible science — brief, clear explanations of what heartbreak does to the brain and body, woven naturally into each session to help you understand and have compassion for your own experience - A progressive emotional arc — from honouring the grief in the early days, through the deep inner work of the middle sessions, to the gentle emergence of hope and possibility toward the end - A daily Healing Moment practice — a small, personal, nourishing daily ritual that builds gradually through the course and becomes something you can sustain long after Day 10 - An invitation to return — this course is yours to keep and come back to whenever you need it. Certain sessions will call to you again at different moments in your healing journey — and the door is always open - A course classroom — a warm, safe, completely non-judgmental space to share your experience, ask questions and know that others are walking this path alongside you WHO THIS COURSE IS FOR - Anyone navigating the end of a romantic relationship or a deeply significant friendship — whether that ending is recent or has been present for a long time - Anyone who is struggling to move forward and wants to understand why — and what to do about it - Anyone who has been carrying self-blame, guilt, or the feeling that they should be over this by now - Anyone who wants to do more than just survive this experience — who wants to genuinely heal, grow, and discover who they are becoming on the other side of it


Meet your Teacher

Samantha is a certified Mindset Coach, NLP Practitioner, and meditation teacher with over ten years of experience guiding people through some of life's most challenging and most transformative experiences — including the profound and often disorienting pain of relationship loss. Having navigated profound relationship loss herself, Samantha brings to this course something that no amount of professional training alone can provide — a genuine, deeply human understanding of what it feels like to have the ground shift beneath you. Combined with her extensive background in mindset, emotional healing and the science of how the brain and body process loss, this makes her uniquely placed to guide listeners through the full, honest landscape of heartbreak — with both authority and compassion in equal measure. *** A published author of both fiction and non-fiction for adults and children, and a professional coach, writer, and voice-over artist, Samantha has spent her career translating complex emotional and psychological concepts into warm, accessible, and immediately useful guidance. Mending from a Broken Heart is the distillation of everything she knows — professionally and personally — about what genuine healing from relationship loss requires, and what becomes possible on the other side of it.

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10 Days

1 students

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12 min / day

Healing

English


Lesson 1

I See You

This opening session asks nothing of you except that you arrive — exactly as you are, carrying exactly what you are carrying, without needing to be anywhere further along than you already are. Before anything else, we simply acknowledge the reality of what you are going through — because being truly seen and truly understood is itself one of the most healing things a human being can experience. Drawing on the science of why heartbreak hurts as much as it does — and why everything you are feeling makes complete neurological and human sense — this session lays the foundation of safety, compassion and permission that everything else in this course will be built upon. You are not too much. You are not behind. And you are not alone.

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Lesson 2

The Grief Is Real

One of the most isolating aspects of heartbreak is the feeling that what you are experiencing is somehow too much — too intense, too complicated, too contradictory to be normal. In today's session we dismantle that feeling completely, exploring the fascinating and deeply validating science of what heartbreak actually does to the brain and body — including the research that shows relationship loss activates the same regions of the brain as physical pain. We also explore the full spectrum of emotions that heartbreak produces — grief, anger, relief, shame, loneliness, disbelief — and why feeling several of them simultaneously, or in no particular order, is not only normal but entirely to be expected. Understanding your own experience from the inside out is one of the most compassionate things you can do for yourself right now — and today's session gives you exactly that.

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Lesson 3

Surviving The Hard Moments

Understanding the grief is one thing — but navigating its most overwhelming moments is another entirely. Today's session is the most practically focused of the course, dedicated entirely to giving you real, immediately usable tools for the hardest moments — the unexpected triggers, the waves of emotion that arrive without warning, the 3 am wakings when the darkness feels absolute, and the mind will not be still. Drawing on the science of the nervous system and the psychology of emotional regulation, we build your personal Heartbreak Toolkit — a small but powerful set of practices that you can reach for in the moments when you most need something to hold onto. Because knowing what to do when the wave hits — before it hits — is one of the most compassionate and most practical things you can do for yourself right now.

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Lesson 4

Untangling

One of the least talked about but most significant aspects of losing a significant relationship is the loss of identity that so often accompanies it — the disorienting question of who you are now, outside of this relationship and this person. Today's session explores the psychology of why relationship loss can feel like a loss of self, and begins the gentle but profoundly important work of separating your sense of who you are from the relationship that has ended. Drawing on research into narrative identity and the self concept, we begin to recover the threads of yourself that existed before this relationship — and to recognise what you brought to it, what you learned from it, and what it has revealed about your extraordinary capacity for love, commitment and growth. This is where the journey back to yourself truly begins.

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Lesson 5

What Your Heart Is Carrying

Very often, the end of a significant relationship does not just bring its own grief — it surfaces something older and deeper too. Beliefs formed long ago about love, worth, and belonging that have been quietly shaping our choices, our relationships, and our sense of what we deserve, often without us even realising it. Today's session explores these deeper subconscious beliefs with honesty and compassion — naming the most common ones that heartbreak tends to bring to the surface, examining where they come from, and beginning the gentle but profoundly liberating work of meeting them with curiosity rather than judgment. Because a belief that is seen clearly loses some of its power, and a belief that is met with compassion becomes something that can, gradually and gently, be changed.

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Lesson 6

Coming Home To Yourself

Of all the things that heartbreak takes from us, perhaps the most quietly devastating is the way it turns us against ourselves — the replaying, the self-blame, the relentless catalogue of what we should have done differently. Today's session addresses this directly and compassionately, exploring the research on why self-criticism is not the path to healing and growth that so many of us believe it to be — and why self-compassion and self-forgiveness are not acts of weakness or excuse-making, but the most neurologically sound and genuinely effective foundations of real and lasting change. Drawing on the work of leading researchers in self-compassion and forgiveness, today we begin the profound and liberating work of releasing the weight of self-blame — and coming home, gently and completely, to ourselves.

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Lesson 7

Reclaiming Your Story

The story we tell ourselves about what has happened to us is one of the most powerful forces in our lives — more powerful, in many ways, than the events themselves. Today's session explores the psychology of narrative identity and the profound impact that the stories we construct about our own experiences have on our emotional well-being, our sense of possibility, and our capacity to move forward. Drawing on research into post-traumatic growth — the well-documented phenomenon of meaningful positive change emerging from significant life challenges — we begin the conscious, deliberate work of expanding the story of this experience beyond loss and failure into something larger, truer, and more worthy of who you actually are. Your relationship ending is not the end of your story. Today, we begin to write the next chapter.

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Lesson 8

Gentle Openings

There comes a moment in every healing journey — subtle, tentative, easily missed — when something begins to shift. When the grief, which has been the dominant weather of your inner landscape, begins to make just a little more room. When a moment of genuine pleasure or unexpected laughter or quiet beauty arrives without guilt. Today's session is dedicated to that moment — to noticing it, honouring it and allowing it, gently and without rushing, to exist alongside the grief rather than feeling like a betrayal of it. Drawing on research into human resilience and the brain's extraordinary capacity for recovery, we explore what it means to begin letting life back in — not by leaving the loss behind, but by gradually, courageously, allowing the possibility of something good to exist alongside it.

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Lesson 9

Who You Are Becoming

After everything this experience has asked of you — the grief, the self examination, the courageous inner work of these nine days — today we turn toward something that deserves to be fully seen and genuinely celebrated. The person you are becoming. Today's session explores the research on post traumatic growth in depth — the five specific areas in which people who move through significant loss with honesty and compassion most commonly discover meaningful and lasting positive change. We look at the strength that has been revealed, the self knowledge that has been gained, the deeper understanding of what you need and what you deserve that only this kind of experience can produce. This is not toxic positivity — it is the honest, documented, deeply human truth of what becomes possible when pain is moved through rather than avoided.

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Lesson 10

Mending

On our final day together, we arrive at the word that has held this entire journey from the very beginning — mending. Not fixed, not finished, not over it — but genuinely, beautifully, goldenly mending. Through the Japanese art of Kintsugi — the ancient practice of repairing broken pottery with gold, making the repaired piece more beautiful than it was before — today's session offers a completely different understanding of what healing from heartbreak truly means. Not the erasure of what happened, not a return to who you were before, but the becoming of someone who carries the history of this experience — the love, the loss, the grief, the growth — as part of what makes them whole. Today we integrate everything, anchor the healing and send you forward — not with pressure to be over it, but with the quiet, grounded, entirely earned knowledge that you are already, in the most important sense, on your way.

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