Everything You Need To Know For Calming Anger - by Michelle Farris

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Everything You Need To Know For Calming Anger

With Michelle Farris

Get practical tools to control your anger, communicate without blame, and become a better listener so you can create healthier relationships that work. You’ll learn four simple ways to catch the early signs of anger and stress before they turn into an outburst. You’ll also learn how to use time-outs to calm yourself and build trust, work with emotional triggers, and express anger without blaming, shutting down, or saying things you regret. These practical tools will help you stay calmer, communicate more effectively, and feel more in control of your emotions—even during difficult conversations.


Meet your Teacher

Michelle Farris, MA, LMFT, is a licensed psychotherapist with over 25 years of experience helping people create healthier relationships. She previously taught a 52-week court-ordered anger management program and has spent decades helping clients understand their triggers, manage strong emotions, and communicate without blame. Her practical, compassionate approach gives people real-life tools they can use to manage anger, build trust, and improve their relationships.

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6 Days

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8 min / day

Anger

English


Lesson 1

Recognizing The Early Signs Of Anger And Stress

In this lesson, you’ll learn how to recognize the early signs of anger and stress. You will also learn the four early warning signs of anger so you can calm your nervous system, respond more intentionally, and avoid saying or doing things you may later regret.

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Lesson 2

How Negative Thoughts Fuel Anger

In this lesson, you’ll learn how negative thoughts can quickly intensify anger and stress. You’ll begin recognizing the thoughts that trigger strong emotional reactions and discover how to challenge them so you can stay calmer, communicate more clearly, and respond in healthier ways.

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Lesson 3

Understanding Your Anger Style And its Strength

In this lesson, you’ll explore three common anger styles: the Exploder, the Stuffer, and the Jabber. You’ll learn how each style affects your relationships, identify which one describes you best, and discover healthier ways to express your feelings. You’ll also begin changing the negative stories and self-talk that can keep anger, resentment, and painful patterns alive.

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Lesson 4

How To Use Time-outs Effectively

In this lesson, you’ll learn how to use a time-out to prevent conflict from escalating and regain control of your emotions. You’ll create a clear time-out plan, practice healthy ways to calm yourself, and learn how to share it with your partner in a way that builds trust instead of creating more distance.

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Lesson 5

Calm Your Triggers Before They Take Over

In this lesson, you’ll learn how to recognize emotional triggers and understand why your reaction may feel more intense. You’ll discover four practical steps to calm yourself, identify the past experiences behind your triggers, and respond in healthier ways that protect both you and your relationships.

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Lesson 6

How To Speak Calmly And Listen Better

In this lesson, you’ll learn practical ways to express anger without blaming, become a more effective listener, and prevent difficult conversations from turning into arguments. These tools will help you feel heard while creating more trust, respect, and connection in your relationships.

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