Window Of Tolerance

What is the window of tolerance and why do you suddenly feel anxious, overwhelmed, or numb?

In this short talk, I explain the window of tolerance in simple, accessible language and explore how your nervous system moves between regulation, fight-or-flight, and shutdown.

You’ll learn how stress, lack of sleep, trauma history, ADHD sensitivity, and emotional overwhelm can narrow your window and how gentle tools like longer exhales can help guide you back toward steadiness.

This is supportive to understand anxiety, emotional regulation, nervous system, and overwhelm.
A calm explanation designed to help you understand your body and not judge it.

Transcript

Window of tolerance.

What is it exactly?

Imagine a window frame and inside that window frame is the range where your nervous system works best.

When you're inside your window you can think clearly,

You can feel emotions without being overwhelmed and you can stay present.

Your thinking brain and your emotional brain are communicating well to one another.

When you move outside the window the body shifts into protection.

Your sympathetic nervous system takes over.

So that means you might be feeling anxiety,

Thoughts might be racing,

You might feel irritable,

Your heart paining or have trouble sleeping.

And this would be fight or flight.

However you might go more into freeze which might feel like numbness,

Disconnected,

Exhaustion or wanting to hide away.

Neither state means that you're broken.

It means your nervous system is doing its job.

Stress,

Lack of sleep,

Hormone,

Sensory overload and ADHD sensitivity can all make that window feel narrower.

So it takes less to tip you out of your window.

One way that we can allow ourselves to remain more in our window is to connect with the breath.

So I invite you to join me now.

Take a deep breath in through your nose and a long slow breath out through your mouth.

In through your nose and a long slow breath right through your mouth.

See if you can allow the exhale to be a little longer than your inhale.

And this signals to your nervous system that you are in a place of safety.

It helps you be more present,

To think more clearly,

And once more breathing in and out.

Thank you for listening.

My name is Sandhya.

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