Stop Anxiety Through Acceptance And Letting Go - by Charles Freligh

COURSE

Stop Anxiety Through Acceptance And Letting Go

With Charles Freligh

Alan Watts once said, “Allowed anxiety is no longer anxiety.” I believe this to be deeply true, but to put this saying into practice is much easier said than done. It may even be one of the hardest things to do, to actually, genuinely, allow my anxiety to be here. I may attempt to accept it in order to get rid of it, but then, I am not truly accepting it. This five-session course is meant to help you realize the true meaning of Allowing, of Openness, and thus move into a new relationship with “anxiety" in which the word may not even make sense anymore, or find a whole new definition. You may already know the path through anxiety lies in its acceptance, but your body may not believe it yet. I’ll share my training and experience in the worlds of psychology, philosophy, and spirituality, and my own personal experience with crippling social anxiety, to help your body believe and feel, that Allowing is the way. In the first three sessions, you will receive a core message, an experiential practice based on that message, and a takeaway lesson to play with in your life. And in the final two sessions, we will focus on practices to help you extend this course to daily living. I hope you join me and please feel free to share any and all of your thoughts and questions in the course comments. Thank you for being here.


Meet your Teacher

Charles Freligh has a PhD in Clinical Psychology and years of experience as a psychotherapist, college professor, and teacher of meditation and mindfulness. His goal is to combine understanding from the worlds of psychology, philosophy, and spirituality, in order to provide you with a unique training to customize to your own life. Each year, he travels to a Zen Buddhist monastery to train in meditation, not because he considers himself “Buddhist," but simply because this provides an optimal setting for deep, focused contemplative practice. Charles is here to help you become what you already are, mostly deeply, under the surface. He views you as the expert and stands beside you on an exploration into who you really are.

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5 Days

16.3k students

4.8 stars

19 min / day

Anxiety

English


Lesson 1

New Snow

Let’s begin the course through the use of a visual metaphor that illustrates both how we get stuck in certain ruts of thinking and behavior, as well as how we can become liberated from them. This metaphor will serve as a theme for the remainder of the course.

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Lesson 2

Come To Your Senses

In each moment, it is possible to notice the filtering of life into My Story, and subsequently to drop beneath Story into pure Sense. In the realm of pure Sense, nothing is wrong (or right), it just Is. Let’s practice dropping through Story into Sense through each of the sensory doors by practicing a technique inspired by Daniel Siegel's "Wheel of Awareness."

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Lesson 3

Knowing Vs. Believing

“Allowed anxiety is no longer anxiety.” There is a fundamental difference between instrumentally “allowing” a feeling in order to get rid of it, and actually allowing that feeling to be here. And since the feeling lives inside of you, “it” knows if you are being genuine in your acceptance or if you have an ulterior motive, and it responds accordingly. Let’s apply this understanding to your life and change the fundamental meaning of the words "anxiety" and "discomfort."

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Lesson 4

Just Practice: Come To Your Senses

Here's a chance to just practice the "Come to Your Senses" method. It may be helpful to repeat this session to develop the muscle of psychological openness.

Lesson 5

Extend to Daily Life: Resetting the Scale

In the final session, I will walk you through an easy-to-remember five-step technique for extending this course to your daily life. I call it "zeroing," and this will help you flex the muscle of psychological openness again and again throughout the day.

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Ask your teacher

This course includes 154 community questions and 44 audio replies from Charles Freligh. The community classroom and teacher audio replies are only available via the app.

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Recent Reviews

Jing

January 23, 2026

Loved it! Love the analogies, the approaches. Will take again.

Emily

December 11, 2025

I found everything about this practice grounding and useful.

Deirdre

December 4, 2025

This course was kind of confusing to me. The last day was the most confusing of all.

Mary-Lou

November 30, 2025

Great course. One that I will return to. Charles has a way of explaining things in a simple manner.

Hannah

November 1, 2025

So illuminating. Insightful AND practical. A new way of being.

Dylan

October 24, 2025

Phenomenal course. The last lesson was especially helpful. I wish I had a way to save that specific one along with a visual to print out to go with it.

Sarah

September 27, 2025

Absolutely love the snow metaphor.

Kelli

September 26, 2025

Incredible course. I will come back and review the tools regularly.

Lisa

August 29, 2025

Thank you Charles for this course 🙏Each lessons has valuable insights on approaching anxiety with practical non judgmental practices to help us observe, recognise, avc

Maurya

July 20, 2025

I really like the pictures he created to help the learning. Using the snow and skiing , and the quotes.

Gabriela

July 9, 2025

This was exactly what I needed! Loved to learn all the new techniques and ways of actually honoring and understanding my anxiety. Love the falling snow ❄️ visual and it has definitely made an impact on my mental state and health. Thank you 🙏🏼

Jeff

July 3, 2025

Fantastic course. Life-changing for someone with crippling anxiety.

Golnaz

May 3, 2025

Great amazing course , learned so much and will repeated over and over

Lisa

April 28, 2025

Awesome course with relatable material and metaphors!

Jim

April 27, 2025

Accepting my sensations of anxiety as a caring protective mechanism is much easier than the pursuit of ridding myself of these uncomfortable thoughts and feelings. And so my journey continues. Thank you for your insight and reframing techniques of the feelings and thoughts around anxiety.

Ondřej

April 22, 2025

It really helped me to on the most elememtary level of dealing with anxiety. Thank you Charles.

Robin

April 22, 2025

☮️💟

Greg

April 8, 2025

Beautiful ! Very helpful and kind. A bit of a scientists and engineers feel to it – very practical and effective. I really like his style of teaching.

Rhenton

April 4, 2025

You’re the man Charles, I’ve done 3 of your courses and each one of them has helped me tremendously. The tools you provide are intuitive and are relatively easy to implement

Steve

March 15, 2025

This was the 2nd course I’ve done, really helpful and informative!

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