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Notice Three Things: Grounding Exercise

by Charles Freligh

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This practice can help you cope with strong emotions and panic by grounding you in the experience of various sensations that are occuring right now in this moment. Attending to your experience in this way, even for just a few seconds, can completely change the whole momentum of the original feeling. If you enjoy this, dive deeper into this practice in my Psychotherapy Toolkit course. Thanks for joining me!

GroundingEmotional RegulationPanicBody ScanSensory AwarenessMindfulnessFocusMindful ObservationFocus Concentration

Transcript

And you can settle into a restful position here,

Wherever you are,

Feeling gravity pulling you down into the earth and the ground below you supporting you.

I'm finding yourself in a really stable base here.

Notice if anything feels restless or tense or flexed in particular and see if you can just allow that to soften and come to a really restful position here.

Whatever adjustments your body needs to make to do that.

Your eyes can be open or closed.

Whatever allows you to most feel here,

Just here,

Right now.

And so I call this,

Notice three things.

And so I'll guide you through this now.

You can take stock of how your body feels in this moment.

Notice if anything has tightened back up.

Feel into those core areas of discomfort and see if you can allow your body to soften them in whatever way it knows how.

So in this exercise you're going to notice sequentially three things that you see and then three things that you hear and then three things that you feel.

And then you'll move down to two of each of those and then to one.

And then what we'll do is stop there but you could also go back up to one and then two and then three.

And so in this exercise I think it's important to let the answers,

The things you notice just come to you as opposed to searching for them.

Because that can lead to the left brain trying to exert some sort of control.

But see if you can just sit back and allow the answers to just come to the surface naturally.

Alright,

So I will give you an example first and then I'll guide you through the exercise.

And so first three things that I see.

I see my water bottle,

It's a wood grain pattern.

I see this sort of gray colored wall.

And I see my computer.

Okay,

Now three things that I hear.

I hear this sort of vague humming background noise of this room.

I hear the sound of my own voice,

Which is a little weird.

And I hear,

I just heard my foot move.

So those are three things that I hear.

And now three things that I feel.

I feel my back against this chair.

I feel my feet against the floor.

And I feel my shirt sleeve against my arm.

Okay,

And then I would do two things for each and then one thing for each.

And it's okay if the items repeat themselves.

But see if you can just wait.

Wait for the answer to come up to the surface versus saying,

Well this is the one that I did last time so I'm going to think of it now.

See if you can step back for a moment and allow for whatever it is to just come up organically in your experience in that moment.

Alright,

Now it's your turn.

So I'll go through each step and then give you maybe 15 seconds or so to find the responses for that thing.

And then you can just wait for me to start the next portion of it.

So now go ahead and notice three things that you see.

Okay,

Now you can notice three things that you hear.

Okay,

And now notice three things that you feel.

Okay,

Now let's go back to seeing and notice two things that you see.

Okay,

And you can notice two things that you hear.

And you can notice two things that you feel.

One more time through.

Notice one thing that you see.

And now notice one thing that you hear.

And now notice one thing that you feel.

Okay,

And now just become aware of how your body feels right now.

Notice how your experience might feel different relative to what it was like before we started this exercise.

And I encourage you to try this out.

Try it maybe not only when you feel reactive,

But at any moment in the day when you remember it.

I could try and notice three things right now.

Maybe I'm driving in traffic or I'm walking from one place to the next.

And try it in that context.

And then also try it out when you are starting to feel overwhelmed or a really strong feeling is coming up.

And that might give you the option to pause for a moment and then engage further with the feeling or it can help you to just pause and maybe switch to something else for that time.

And so I wish you luck with that and have a great day.

Meet your Teacher

Charles FrelighMinneapolis, MN, USA

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Recent Reviews

Josh

July 24, 2025

Excellent activity I will use this again thank you πŸ™

Carmen

February 17, 2025

Me encanta esta meditaciΓ³n para anclarme al presente en un pispΓ‘s

Wakes

August 21, 2023

I really enjoyed this moment to be with my senses in an intuitive way. Thank you Charles! πŸ™πŸΌβœ¨

Michal

February 24, 2023

Thank you ❀️ Loved the simplicity and the calmness l felt after such a short practice. Will definitely use this :)

LasherDP

February 7, 2023

I LOVED this exercise!! Simple & cool. Thank You! β™₯οΈπŸ™β™₯️

Bethan

November 13, 2022

A practice to bring yourself in. A practice you can utilise again and again. Thank you.

Diane

October 13, 2022

What a simple and effect practice. Thank you, Charles.

victoria

October 11, 2022

Just what I needed after a very anxious morning, thank you 😊

Maria

August 9, 2022

I forgot about what I was feeling. Thanks for your helpπŸ™

Sarah

July 11, 2022

Perfect for grounding body and mind during a walk. Edit: Why did you change this recording? I thought the original version was perfect. This version feels a little less warm and approachable, if that makes sense.

Lisa

January 3, 2022

Great centering meditation and advice . Thank you Charles! Bookmarked and recommended! I think I can memorize this one ! I was just listening to Eckhart Tolle on how thoughts about situations can be the cause of suffering. This helps me to shut those thought down for a bit . I’m so aware of self talk now .. and in this way I can let go and change. Thanks πŸ™ for the light you share πŸ’«πŸ’«πŸ’«πŸ’«πŸ’«

MysterB

November 27, 2021

Given I suffer from chronic pain everyday; it was amazing when I didn’t say I felt those pains until the last round of noticing a feel. I’m not sure what that means? But it felt good whatever it was :)

Aukje

September 15, 2021

I am having difficulty meditating, I am very impatient with myself. This exercise however worked well for me. I will store this and come back to it 😊. πŸ™

Janette

September 8, 2021

I really enjoyed that. I'll do that often. Thank you πŸ™

Delany

August 12, 2021

I noticed right away a mindset shift after listening to this. It was a great exercise and I really appreciated your calm voice as you guided us through the grounding experience!

Laura

July 22, 2021

Such a helpful exercise. I like this version where are you repeat the senses. It gives the opportunity to sink deeper into the moment. Thank you.

Ellen

June 29, 2021

Very powerful and effective. Great way to focus ones mind in the here and now. Will definitely come back to this! One of my new favorites . Thank youπŸ™

Stacia

June 20, 2021

Wonderful way to ground myself! I was noticeably less tense and felt grounded by the time we noticed one thing! Thank you!!πŸ™πŸΎ

Mitch

May 26, 2021

1st time going through that type of exercise - liked it very much. Thank you.

Thais

March 24, 2021

Excellent exercise for being present. Loved it!

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