What More Can You Do To Support A Troubled Relationship: Compassion & Connection

In this lesson, Ed discusses why arguing with your partner using reason or threats can never, in the long run, prevent one from being influenced by a lifetime of beliefs, anxieties, wounds, and triggers. He explains how beliefs and anxieties always triumph over notions of right and wrong when two people who love each other try to justify their cruelty toward one another.

In this lesson, Ed introduces the first stage of reconnection, which is 'preparing yourself.' In this stage, you will learn how to become aware of your beliefs, wounds, and triggers that form the foundation for why you get triggered by your beloved, leading to differences, arguments, and the need to insist that one person must be right and the other must be wrong.

In this lesson, Ed describes how you would create an open, safe, and heartfelt space where you would invite your partner to willingly enter and engage with you in a compassionate exchange meant to heal, rebalance, and energetically reconnect with you.

In this lesson, Ed continues describing the nuances of directly and indirectly Inviting your partner to share their feelings. The invitation is a sensitive request to share and can be seen as inviting or threatening depending on the intensity of the content that is being asked to share. He skillfully guides you in how to word and phrase the invitation so that it has the greatest chance of being responded to.

In this lesson, Ed introduces the two levels of working with your partner when they respond to your invitations to create a connection and re-ignite your heartfelt connection. He will outline the do's and don't to creating emotional resilience that will bring you closer in all aspects of your life together.

In this lesson, Ed discusses the common problems, difficulties, and possible setbacks that can occur while doing the practice stage of this reconnection work. You will learn what difficulties you should expect to show up and how to rise above them so that you and your partner reconnect successfully and completely.

In this lesson, Ed shines some light on what you can do when your partner does not want to cooperate with your desire to reconnect or do the work. While it seems that nothing can be done, he explains how you can still accomplish your goals of being emotionally resilient and offer your partner a new way to communicate and share a life.

In this final "Don't Miss Lesson", Ed summarizes and emphasizes the most important points that will keep your practice effective, powerful, and long-lasting. These points are the most essential and effective protocols that he feels have been most successful in working with himself and with hundreds of his clients.