7 dias

The End Of People Pleasing - Live According To Dharma, Not Approval

Por Ananya Iyer

O que você irá aprender

Why do so many of us seek approval even when it costs us our peace? In this 7-day course inspired by the timeless wisdom of the Bhagavad Gita, you'll explore the deeper roots of people pleasing and discover a more authentic way of living through Dharma—the path of right action, inner alignment, and personal truth. Over seven days, we'll journey alongside Arjuna as he faces fear, self-doubt, attachment, and difficult choices. Through Krishna's teachings, you'll learn why approval can never provide lasting peace, how attachment to praise and fear of criticism shape our lives, and what it means to live according to Dharma rather than other people's expectations. Each lesson combines practical wisdom, self-reflection, real-world application, and guided inquiry to help you move from approval-seeking toward greater clarity, courage, and inner freedom. Throughout this course, you'll learn how to: • Understand the hidden roots of people pleasing • Recognise the difference between Dharma and approval • Respond to fear without abandoning yourself • Set boundaries with compassion and integrity • Become less dependent on praise and less affected by criticism • Cultivate equanimity and steady wisdom • Make Dharma - not approval - your compass for living This course is not about becoming selfish, detached, or indifferent to others. It is about learning how to remain compassionate and connected while staying true to yourself. By the end of these seven days, you'll have a practical framework for making decisions with greater confidence, acting from inner alignment rather than external validation, and living with the clarity and courage that Krishna invites Arjuna to embody. If you're ready to stop organising your life around approval and begin living according to Dharma, this journey is for you. Namaskaram.

Ananya Iyer

Mumbai, Maharashtra, India

Ananya Iyer is a yoga teacher and meditation guide from India whose work integrates yogic wisdom, mindfulness, and nervous system awareness. Trained in traditional yoga practices in Kerala, she specialises in helping people cultivate greater calm, self-awareness, emotional resilience, and inner balance through practical, accessible...

Lição 1

Why We Become People Pleasers

Why do we become so attached to the approval of others? In this lesson, you'll explore a foundational teaching from the Bhagavad Gita: suffering begins when we become attached to outcomes we cannot control. Through the story of Arjuna, you'll discover how the need for approval can pull us away from Dharma, and learn how to shift your focus from seeking validation to taking aligned action. By the end of the lesson, you'll begin recognising where approval may be influencing your choices and how to return to what feels true.

Lição 2

Praise, Criticism And The Steady Mind

Why can praise make us feel powerful and criticism make us question ourselves? In this lesson, you'll explore one of the Bhagavad Gita's most practical teachings: the qualities of a person with steady wisdom. Through Krishna's description of the Sthita Prajna, you'll learn why dependence on validation creates emotional instability and how inner steadiness becomes possible when we stop allowing praise and blame to define us.

Lição 3

Dharma, Svadharma And The Courage To Live Your Own Life

Dharma, Svadharma, and the Difference Between Alignment and Approval. If approval cannot guide your life, what can? In this lesson, you'll explore the Bhagavad Gita's teachings on Dharma and Svadharma - the difference between living according to truth and living according to expectation. You'll discover why many people already know the right action but hesitate to take it, and why Krishna teaches that it is better to imperfectly live your own path than perfectly live someone else's. By the end of this lesson, you'll begin recognising where fear, approval, and borrowed expectations may be pulling you away from your deepest alignment.

Lição 4

Fear, Courage And Acting Without Guarantees

Fear, Attachment, and Karma Yoga Why do we hesitate to act even when we know what is right? In this lesson, you'll explore the Bhagavad Gita's teachings on fear, attachment, and courageous action. You'll discover why fear is often a symptom of attachment rather than the true problem, and learn one of Krishna's most liberating teachings: you are responsible for your actions, but not for controlling their results. By the end of this lesson, you'll understand how to move forward without waiting for certainty.

Lição 5

Dharma, Harmony And The Courage To Disappoint Others

Many people believe that being loving means keeping everyone happy. In this lesson, you'll explore one of the Bhagavad Gita's most challenging teachings: Dharma and harmony are not always the same thing. Through Arjuna's struggle, you'll discover why peace built on self-abandonment is not true peace, why people pleasing often prioritises harmony over truth, and how boundaries become a natural expression of Dharma. By the end of this lesson, you'll begin recognising where you may be sacrificing alignment to avoid discomfort and learn how to honour your truth with greater courage and compassion.

Lição 6

Samatvam: Freedom From Praise And Blame

What happens when your peace no longer depends on what others think of you? In this lesson, you'll explore one of the Bhagavad Gita's most powerful teachings: Samatvam, or equanimity. Through Krishna's description of the Sthita-Prajna - a person of steady wisdom - you'll discover why true freedom is not found in gaining approval or avoiding criticism, but in remaining anchored in Dharma amidst life's changing opinions and circumstances. By the end of this lesson, you'll begin cultivating the inner steadiness that allows you to receive praise without becoming dependent on it, hear criticism without being defined by it, and live with greater freedom, clarity, and peace.

Lição 7

Living According To Dharma, Not Approval

Throughout this course, you've explored attachment, approval, Dharma, fear, boundaries, and equanimity through the teachings of the Bhagavad Gita. In this final lesson, you'll bring these teachings together into a practical way of living. Inspired by Krishna's guidance to Arjuna, you'll discover what it means to make Dharma your compass rather than approval, and how to continue choosing alignment, courage, and inner freedom long after the course has ended.

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