Unlocking Sleep: Exploring Insomnia Through Attachment Styles - by Sherry Boxall

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Unlocking Sleep: Exploring Insomnia Through Attachment Styles

With Sherry Boxall

This 10-day course delves into the connection between attachment styles and sleep, offering insights into how early relational patterns impact your ability to relax and rest. Through engaging lessons and practical exercises, you’ll explore how attachment styles—secure, anxious, avoidant, or disorganized—affect your nervous system and sleep cycles. By the end of this course, you’ll: - Understand how attachment styles influence sleep and emotional regulation. - Learn somatic techniques, breathwork, and visualization practices to calm your mind and body. - Build emotional security and rewire patterns to promote deeper, restorative sleep. Each day, you’ll gain knowledge and experience unique 5-minute exercises to help you create lasting change. This course offers a compassionate and practical approach to improving sleep and emotional well-being.


Meet your Teacher

Sherry is a somatic coach specializing in attachment theory, emotional health, and the mind-body connection. With expertise in somatic practices and trauma-informed approaches, Sherry helps individuals explore how early relational patterns impact their nervous system and overall well-being, including sleep. Through compassionate and science-based guidance, Sherry supports clients in building emotional security and cultivating deep, restorative rest.

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10 Days

247 students

5.0 stars

17 min / day

Anxiety

English


Lesson 1

Understanding Attachment Styles And Sleep

In this session, we’ll introduce the connection between attachment styles and sleep, exploring how early relational patterns shape our ability to rest. You’ll learn the basics of attachment theory—secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized styles—and discover how these patterns influence your nervous system and impact sleep. To end, we’ll guide you through a grounding exercise to tune into how your body responds to a good night’s sleep versus a restless one.

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Lesson 2

The Neurobiology Of Attachment And Sleep

Today, we explore the fascinating interplay between attachment styles and the brain. Learn how key parts of the brain—the amygdala, HPA axis, and prefrontal cortex—shape your stress responses, emotional regulation, and sleep patterns. By understanding the neurobiology behind attachment, you’ll gain insight into how your body and mind work together to create rest—or restlessness. We’ll end with a calming somatic awareness exercise using visualization and sensory grounding.

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Lesson 3

Secure Attachment And Sleep

In this session, we explore what secure attachment looks like and how it supports deep, restorative sleep. Secure attachment creates a foundation of emotional safety, allowing the nervous system to relax and the body to enter restful states. You’ll learn how to cultivate this inner sense of security and practice a guided visualization to connect with feelings of safety and grounding.

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Lesson 4

Calming The Anxious Mind For Better Sleep

Today, we focus on anxious attachment and its impact on sleep. Anxious attachment can lead to hypervigilance, overthinking, and difficulty winding down—all of which disrupt rest. We’ll explore how this attachment style develops, keeps the nervous system on high alert, and how to begin calming the anxious mind. The session ends with a soothing box breathing exercise, enhanced by a visualization of loving, kind eyes.

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Lesson 5

Navigating Emotional Distance: Avoidant Attachment And Sleep

This session examines how avoidant attachment impacts sleep by creating emotional and physical tension. People with avoidant attachment often suppress emotions and keep their distance to feel safe, which can lead to stress and an inability to relax fully. You’ll learn how to begin softening this protective response and practice a grounding exercise focused on reconnecting with safety and ease in the body.

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Lesson 6

Disorganized Attachment: Navigating Confusion And Sleep

Today, we explore disorganized attachment and its unique impact on sleep. This attachment style often stems from early experiences of fear or inconsistency, leading to a nervous system stuck between hypervigilance and shutdown. We’ll discuss how these patterns disrupt rest and focus on creating a sense of safety through a guided somatic exercise to reconnect with the body and calm the mind.

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Lesson 7

The Role Of Trauma In Attachment And Sleep

In this session, we dive into how trauma shapes attachment patterns and its lasting effects on sleep. Trauma, whether big or small, often leaves the body in a heightened state of alert, disrupting the ability to fully relax and rest. You’ll learn how trauma impacts the brain and nervous system and practice a somatic breathwork exercise to help release tension and create a sense of safety in the body.

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Lesson 8

Repairing Attachment And Restoring Sleep

Today, we focus on healing attachment wounds and the powerful impact this has on sleep. Repairing attachment is about creating emotional safety, both within yourself and in your relationships, to help your nervous system relax. You’ll learn how to begin rebuilding secure attachment patterns and practice a visualization exercise to cultivate feelings of safety, supported by kind and loving connections.

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Lesson 9

Cultivating Inner Security: Tools For Lasting Rest

In this session, we focus on building inner security as a foundation for restful sleep. By cultivating trust and safety within ourselves, we can begin to rewire attachment patterns and calm the nervous system. You’ll explore practical tools for fostering self-soothing and practice a guided visualization to strengthen your inner sense of safety and emotional resilience.

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Lesson 10

Integrating What We’ve Learned: Your Path To Restful Sleep

In our final session, we reflect on everything we’ve learned about attachment styles, trauma, and the nervous system’s role in sleep. You’ll explore how to integrate these practices into your daily life to continue cultivating safety, calm, and emotional resilience. We’ll end with a guided exercise to bring together all the tools and insights from the course, helping you solidify your path to lasting, restorative sleep.

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