This course is for women who feel exhausted, disconnected, or like they’ve slowly disappeared inside their own life. Maybe you keep the peace, overthink your decisions, ignore your gut feeling, or adjust yourself so everyone else stays comfortable. On the outside, things may look fine. On the inside, something feels off.
In this 4-part course, you’ll learn why so many women end up feeling like they’ve lost themselves, how weak or missing boundaries play a role, why self-trust is the missing piece, and how to start rebuilding the connection to yourself again. Using my proven 3-R process (Recognise, Reconnect, Rebuild) plus a simple emotional regulation exercise, you’ll begin to understand your patterns, listen to your inner signals, and respond differently.
By the end of this course, you’ll have more clarity, more self-trust, and a practical way to stop abandoning yourself and start coming back to you.
Anna Thellmann is a Conscious Relationship Designer and emotional health consultant with over a decade of experience supporting individuals and couples in understanding their patterns, rebuilding self-trust, and creating healthier relationships. She has worked with more than 500 clients internationally and collaborates with private clinics in China, providing emotional and psychological support to expat and local communities.
Her work focuses on the connection between thoughts, emotions, behaviour, and relationships, combining insights from neuroscience, behavioural psychology, and practical coaching methods. Drawing from both her professional experience and her own personal journey of rebuilding herself after loss and major life transitions, she specialises in helping women who feel disconnected from themselves find clarity, stability, and a renewed sense of identity.
Anna is also a bestselling co-author of the book Beyond Dependence, where she shares her experience of breaking free from a dependent relationship and redefining her relationship with herself. Her approach is grounded, direct, and focused on real-life application, helping people reconnect with themselves in a way that is both practical and sustainable....
Les 1
“I Don’t Know Who I Am Anymore” — What That Actually Means
In this lesson, you’ll explore what people really mean when they say they’ve “lost themselves.” Through relatable examples, you’ll begin to recognise how identity loss develops slowly over time and how it can show up in your daily life, even when everything looks fine on the outside.
Les 2
The Truth About Boundaries
This lesson breaks down what boundaries actually are (and what they are not), including the key difference between standards and boundaries. You’ll learn how missing boundaries contribute to losing yourself and how this pattern shows up in common, everyday situations.
Les 3
Reconnecting With Yourself
Here, you’ll be introduced to self-trust and why it is essential for holding boundaries and staying connected to yourself. You’ll also practise a simple emotional regulation exercise that helps you reconnect with your body and learn to sit with uncomfortable feelings instead of overriding them.
Les 4
Rebuilding Yourself - Living in Alignment Again
In this final lesson, you’ll learn how to start rebuilding your connection to yourself through small, practical changes. You’ll explore how to express what you want, hold boundaries, and respond differently in real-life situations so you can begin living in alignment again.