Developing Patience & Calming Irritability (For Parents) - by Jennifer Prokhorov

COURSE

Developing Patience & Calming Irritability (For Parents)

With Jennifer Prokhorov

Parenting is perhaps the hardest job in the world. At least as a parent of four children, it feels that way to me. No matter how much we love and adore and would do anything for our children, no matter their age, they still have a way of uncovering parts of us we never knew we had (parts we were ok without!). It’s so easy to feel frustration, impatience, and exasperation. But these challenging emotions don’t have to be so common. When we cultivate a mindfulness practice and learn to employ these new skills in our family relationships, we can see things change in incredible and wonderfully connecting ways. In this 10-day course, we will focus on developing our empathy and acceptance, fostering a calm presence, being a model of flexibility and equanimity, and easing up and letting go of little irritants and tiny bumps in the road of parenting. We’ll find new perspectives and new freedoms that will allow us to smile more and enjoy our families perhaps more than we ever have before. I’d love for you to join me on this amazing journey!


Meet your Teacher

Jen Prokhorov is the founder of Stillpoint - a platform designed for mothers. She believes wholeheartedly that well-being is a skill, and a skill that can be developed first and foremost in the mind. Her passion is to support and empower parents, and in turn, entire families with the skills of mindfulness to improve relationships, develop emotional intelligence, and increase connection and empathy.

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10 Days

2.5k students

4.9 stars

11 min / day

Love

English


Lesson 1

Patience Is A Process

Parenting stretches us in so many ways. Often, it feels like it’s our patience that is stretched the most, as we learn to navigate a new life with little ones dependent on us at nearly every moment, or grow into the role of being parents to older children. Sometimes, it feels like there’s just not enough of us to go around! Know that you’re in good company if you ever feel irritated or impatient. If you do, you’re in the right place. Your cultivation of a mindfulness practice is inherently a cultivation of patience - learning to slow it down, and be present.

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Lesson 2

Managing Expectations

Each of us entered parenthood with a suitcase of expectations; they’re natural and inevitable! But I don’t have to tell you that children and parenting also come with a whole lot of surprises - some that elate us, and others that really challenge us. Learning to recognize and be mindful of our expectations helps us to gracefully roll with whatever comes our way. Things will not always be smooth sailing - our mindfulness practice helps us to accept and move with our challenges.

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Lesson 3

Struggling Against What Is

Impatience and irritability are most often auto-pilot reactions to what is happening around us. We’re wishing things were different, that everything was happening just like we want it to. We’re fighting against what is. Today, we explore our consciousness around these natural reactions, and discover that there is more freedom where we may not have seen it before. We always have a choice in how we respond to situations.

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Lesson 4

Blaming Vs. Empathy

Feelings of frustration often lead to spirals of thought through blame. Blaming a child, a co-parent, or anyone else for problems distracts us from finding solutions and sows negativity between two people. Mindfulness allows us to recognize these destructive thought patterns and instead introduce empathy into a situation. Empathy connects people and softens our emotions.

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Lesson 5

Recognizing Opportunities

Strength of character is not built when things are easy. These little (or big!) human beings that we are raising are providing us ample opportunity to hone all the skills we ever hoped to. Love, understanding, acceptance, patience, and empathy - are all developed as we allow difficult situations to teach us rather than frustrate and anger us. Today, we learn to reframe irritants into opportunities!

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Lesson 6

Slowing It Down

What can we observe when we learn to slow it down and follow our children’s lead? The mindfulness practice we are cultivating helps us to see our children differently - and maybe even see things from their point of view. Taking the time to watch and even mirror them can teach us to be more present, to ease up, to notice the little joys we often miss, and be less rigid and fast-paced.

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Lesson 7

Models Of Contentment & Ease

Today, we imagine how our child sees us. What they see when we’re irritated or annoyed, and what they see when we are calm and patient. When we’re mindful, we’re able to better show up for our children, recognizing that they are learning from our behaviors. When we handle our big emotions or their big emotions with equanimity, they feel secure and confident that challenges can be met in stride, and they begin to act more rationally and peacefully as well.

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Lesson 8

The Power Of The Pause

Our meditation practice can be such a game-changer in parenting. If nothing else, it can help us to develop that critical skill of learning to pause. To find a space between stimulus and reaction, in which we stop, recognize what we’re feeling, decide what is most important, and then respond in a thoughtful and deliberate way. This simple (yet very difficult!) skill can revolutionize the way we interact with anyone, but especially with our family.

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Lesson 9

Learn To Let Go

Irritability and impatience are often rooted in an inherent and deep-seated subconscious desire to want to control everything, to have everything go our way. When we’re rational, we understand that this lofty desire is not realistic. Let your mindfulness practice (and your children) guide you to more ease and acceptance. In it, we can learn to smile more, breathe more, laugh more, and relax more.

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Lesson 10

Patience Is The Way Of Wisdom & Grace

Grounding into the present moment is what keeps us from ruminating on the past or stressing about what is next. When we can clearly connect to the here and now, we can tap into the calm that disallows impatience or frustration. Every time you show up to practice or take a mindful breath, you are becoming a more wise, graceful, and calm parent. You are amazing!

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4.9 (75)

Recent Reviews

Bastian

October 31, 2025

I have been a lot more calm and patient with my kids for the past 10days

Gen

September 16, 2025

What a lovely course that has made me look forward to my train ride every morning. Thank will definitely try to keep up my practice now and I will try to find a mantra that works well for me. I highly recommend this course to any parent- to anyone else too for that matter, as we all struggle with impatience and frustration at times 😊

Sasha

July 7, 2025

Thank you so much for the course! I’m a mom of 4 little kids and I really needed this inspiration, lots of practical advice and awesome mindfulness practice during each lesson.

Cheri

February 3, 2025

Jennifer is so calming and practical. I always feel so much better when I listen to her sessions

Karl

January 1, 2025

This was great. Thank you.

Alison

May 9, 2024

Gentle, informative and kind. Full of good wisdom.

Sarasana

March 18, 2024

What a wonderful course for parents, thank you for your wisdom, insight and guidance through this course. I felt your compassion through your guidance and I am inspired to be more compassionate with myself, thank you 🙏🏽

Amanda

February 15, 2024

This course is amazing. I am a mom of 3 littles, I have been on a journey of healing, calm and patience. I have past trauma I’m working through in therapy from my childhood and this course was perfect to align with all the work I’m doing to be the cycle breaker for my kids, to release control and old ways I learned to self protect as a child. I highly recommend it for any parents, especially those who what to deepen their patience, presence and release holding onto control. I will be doing it again, thank you. Is there a way to add these to your page to listen individually? For example day 3 really resonated, I would love to bookmark it.

Tara

December 31, 2023

This is a hidden gem of a course. It is quiet, gentle, patient, calming and considered - itself modelling the traits that it is teaching. I found it profoundly helpful and inspiring and would recommend investigating your time in it without hesitation. I know I will revisit it repeatedly to reinforce the central ideas.

Jeneep

October 1, 2023

Lovely course that was very grounded and focused on the present, the breath to calm the body, and mantras. This will help me to be a calmer parent in times of stress, to be less rigid and more present with my kiddo and to embrace every moment to the best I can, whatever it may entail. Thank you 🙏

Monique

September 10, 2023

It’s like the course was holding up a mirror allowing to see myself from a different perspective. Will definitely be repeating!

Ghada

August 4, 2023

Excellent course. I’ll be re-doing it - maybe more than once. Very helpful - thank you!

Shani

July 22, 2023

Really wondeful!! I definitely felt the messages and practices sinking in and felt like an overall calmer parent.

Rebekah

June 24, 2023

I needed this practice so very much. I will be repeating it as needed. Thank you. 🙏🏻

KatieG

April 9, 2023

As not just a parent but a grandparent, these practices may be more readily accessible, as I’ve had years to know how true the principles are! Patience, acceptance of self and others, compassion and letting go of attachment to particular outcomes are practices I’ve been honing for a long time. Now the payoff comes for myself but also with and for my adult children and grandkids. Thank you so much for the course. I opted to take the class to enhance my skills AND to appreciate and to send loving vibes out to all those listening who are in the earlier throes of parenting! ❤️

Nima

November 13, 2022

One of the best practices of meditation I've done. It's been so helpful as a parent of two toddlers. I felt so understood and validated with all of my emotions, with the added bonus of a mindful meditation to help guide me to a better place.

Juliette

November 8, 2022

Fabulous course, one of the best on insight timer. Remembering the question "what is important here? " such a helpful grounding mantra for staying present. I am sure this will course will make me a better parent & person. I will be repeating this course many times. Thank you for such a calming and wonderful course.

Dee

November 1, 2022

Us parents need more courses like this! Thank you!

joey

October 1, 2022

Loved this course. Thank you.

Melissa

August 2, 2022

I definitely recommend this course and found it very useful. I'll relisten often because there is so much to gain from it. Very grateful thank you so much

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