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Relaxing Into Awareness - Lesson 1

by David Gandelman

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Beginning a new meditation practice is an opportunity to learn how to journey into the deeper parts of your consciousness, find stillness, release anxiety, and awake to the truth of who you are. Just like embarking on an outer-journey, it’s important to have a strategy, tools, and a map. But most importantly, you have to have an attitude of openness, receptivity, and a bit of amusement.

RelaxationAwarenessMeditationConsciousnessStillnessAnxietyMindfulnessBody ScanNon Judgmental ObservationOpennessReceptivityAmusementConnected AwarenessAnxiety ReductionPresent MomentBreathing Awareness

Transcript

Hello and welcome to the first day of the Fundamentals of Meditation.

Thank you so much for coming to sit with me and I can't wait to meditate with you.

And I want to start with my definition of meditation.

Meditation is the cultivation of awareness.

And I'll say it again,

It is the cultivation of awareness.

And throughout these seven days,

We're going to be learning different techniques to cultivate our awareness.

But before we get into that,

I want to take a moment to discuss what keeps us from cultivating awareness.

Many of us suffer from stress and anxiety.

We find ourselves being constantly pulled into the future and back into the past.

We ruminate in thought around a topic,

Around a problem,

Over and over,

Thinking that if we think about it enough,

That we'll solve it.

We get lost in the storms of emotion.

And we feel sometimes though we can't release the invalidation or the pain that we've accumulated through life.

It doesn't sound so fun now,

Does it?

But as we start to meditate,

We start to almost allow those layers to peel off of us.

We allow the stress and the anxiety and the noise and the excess emotion that we no longer need to hold on to,

To dissipate,

To melt off of us.

And then we find beautiful moments of clarity,

Of stillness,

Of inner peace.

We find out more about who we are and we start to recognize that there's a depth inside of us that's always present,

That gets covered up by the rest of the world.

So if meditation is anything,

It is the recognition of who you are underneath all of the energy that you've accumulated from the world that doesn't represent who you truly are.

So as we step into our first meditation,

I know that's a tall order to start to remove all of that or let it go or recognize it.

But all I'm asking from you today is to sit calmly,

Cultivate awareness,

And actually enjoy being in this moment here with me.

So let's go ahead and get started.

And I would prefer if you had your back up straight sitting in a chair or on a cushion.

If you absolutely have to lay down,

It's okay.

But find your position and if you are sitting up,

Allow your waist,

Allow your hips to be just a bit higher than your knees so that you're comfortable.

And if you need a back rest of some kind,

That's totally acceptable too.

And many of us get very intimidated because we see these statues of the Buddha or of someone in lotus position and we think,

Oh,

I can't sit that way.

But you're not a statue.

You're a person.

So just be comfortable and don't worry about it too much.

And as you sit,

I want you to just roll your shoulders up to your ears and then back and down.

And then let's sit in that spine a little bit more.

And take a nice big deep breath all the way down into your belly.

Just let it expand.

Loosen up those nerve endings and release.

Allow yourself to slow your breath down and draw your attention in.

Almost surf your breath into your body.

And as you start to bring yourself more and more into this moment with me,

Just by being aware of your breath,

Just by having your spine straight,

I want you to come back to that definition of meditation,

Which is the cultivation of awareness.

Everything you experience while you sit here is the cultivation of awareness as long as you pay attention.

So notice your thoughts as they pass on the screen of your mind.

Notice the sounds in the room.

Notice the sensations in your body.

Allow yourself to feel the gravity of the planet.

And just allow yourself to generally be aware of all of these sensations that come with being awake in the world without any judgment.

There's not a good sound or a bad sound,

A right thought or a wrong thought,

A good sensation in the body or a bad one.

Allow yourself to remove the labels and just notice whatever you experience.

Release any tension in the body and recognize that you can truly relax into your own awareness.

You may start to find that it actually feels good just to be present.

And there's nothing here that you need to accomplish.

Take a nice big deep breath into your body,

A nice sigh out.

And we're already coming to the end of our meditation.

You've done great work.

You became aware of your sensations.

You became aware of the moment you brought your attention in.

And now as you open your eyes,

You're going to bring your attention back out.

I hope you stand up,

Go into the rest of your day or evening with some relaxation,

Some awareness.

And I will see you in the next meditation.

Thank you for sitting with me.

Meet your Teacher

David GandelmanBoulder, CO, USA

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Recent Reviews

Sophie

July 19, 2025

Wonderful! πŸ’–

Art

April 9, 2025

A great intro to sitting meditation. David's approach always leaves me feeling good.

Chris

January 4, 2023

Thank you for this quick and effective connection to awareness.

Ditte

October 10, 2022

Thank you πŸ™ So simple, yet you always bring your own gentle and humerous flavor to your meditations. Thanks for sharing πŸ™

Caroline

April 12, 2022

As always a very helpful meditation especially when feeling discombobulated. Not just for beginners as helpful to return to beginners mind when life gets difficult. Thank you πŸ™

Rusty

March 6, 2022

I've been meditating regularly for a few years, but decided to begin again with you today. Thank you!

Lisbeth

January 18, 2022

I loved this! Really made me connect to the present moment. Thsnk you David! πŸ™

Liz

January 11, 2022

I love any of David's meditations. This was good and calming. Its also good if you only have a short time to do a meditation.

Rick

December 25, 2021

Calming and a welcoming entry into cultivating awareness. Thank you.

Tracy

November 22, 2021

Perfect. Thank you!

Christi

April 27, 2021

Cultivating awareness moment by moment! Thank you! πŸ’•πŸ™πŸΌβœ¨πŸ§˜β€β™‚οΈ

Dominic

April 14, 2020

David I can get relaxed sitting in a Lounge Chair, is that OK or will I not get the most from my practice if I relax in that manner. Thanks for your help.

Jessi

January 7, 2020

Simply amazing 😊

Liliana

November 27, 2019

You hace me calm, thank you!

Frances

September 29, 2019

Thank you for bringing me back to the beginning. Sweet meditation, much love to you David πŸ’œx

Scott

September 28, 2019

An excellent practice with clear guidance to just be present. Good music too.

Lisa

September 27, 2019

Thank you for this guided practice. Even though not a beginner to meditation, this practice reminds you of the purpose and benefits. Lovely calm voice. Most grateful πŸ™

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