Lesson 1
Eros: Passionate And Romantic Love
Eros love is passionate, romantic, and driven by desire. It’s the kind of love that ignites physical attraction and emotional intensity. Rooted in the Greek god of love and desire, Eros is often associated with chemistry, seduction, and the longing to merge with another person both emotionally and physically. While Eros can be intoxicating and deeply fulfilling, it’s often spontaneous and can fade if not nurtured with emotional depth and mutual understanding.
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Lesson 2
Storge: Unconditional Familial Love
Storge is the natural, unconditional love that develops over time which is found most often between parents and children, siblings, or lifelong companions. It’s steady, dependable, and rooted in familiarity and deep emotional bonds. Unlike the intensity of romantic love, Storge is quiet and enduring, growing from shared experiences and mutual care. It’s the kind of love that shows up every day, even when words aren’t spoken—a comforting presence that feels like home.
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Lesson 3
Agape: Selfless, Universal Love
Agape is selfless, unconditional love—the kind that gives without expecting anything in return. It’s the love shown through compassion, empathy, and kindness to others, whether they’re family, strangers, or even those who are difficult to love. Often described as the highest form of love, Agape is like a light that shines on everyone equally. It’s found in acts of service, forgiveness, and sacrifice, reflecting a deep sense of care for humanity as a whole.
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Lesson 4
Philia: Deep Friendship And Loyal Companionship
Philia is the love of deep friendship—built on trust, loyalty, and shared values. It’s the strong bond between close friends who support each other through life’s ups and downs. Unlike romantic love, Philia isn’t about passion but about connection, respect, and companionship. It’s the love you feel when someone truly understands you and stands by you, not out of obligation, but out of genuine care.
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Lesson 5
Ludus: Playful And Flirtatious Love
Ludus is playful, flirtatious love—the lighthearted affection found in teasing, joking, and the thrill of early romance. It’s the fun, carefree side of love that doesn’t take itself too seriously, often seen in the beginning stages of a relationship or even in friendly banter. Ludus is like a dance of charm and spontaneity, where joy and connection matter more than deep commitment. It reminds us that love can be fun, and sometimes laughter is its own kind of intimacy.
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Lesson 6
Mania: Obsessive and Possessive Love
Mania is obsessive, possessive love—an intense emotional state driven by insecurity, dependence, or fear of loss. Unlike healthy attachment, Mania can feel overwhelming and unstable, often marked by jealousy, anxiety, or controlling behavior. It’s the kind of love that clings tightly, not out of trust, but out of a desperate need to feel wanted or secure. While it may begin with passion, unchecked Mania can lead to emotional exhaustion and imbalance in relationships.
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Lesson 7
Pragma: Enduring And Practical Love
Pragma is enduring, practical love—the kind that grows over time through commitment, compromise, and shared goals. It’s found in long-term relationships where both people choose each other every day, not just because of emotion, but through mutual respect and life partnership. Pragma isn’t about grand gestures, but about showing up, supporting each other, and building a lasting bond. It’s love that matures with time, like a well-rooted tree—steady, resilient, and deeply grounded.
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Lesson 8
Philautia: Self-Love And Inner Compassion
Philautia is self-love—the healthy regard and compassion you show toward yourself. It’s not about vanity or ego, but about recognizing your own worth and treating yourself with kindness and care. Just as you would support and encourage a close friend, Philautia is the inner voice that says you are enough. It forms the foundation for all other types of love, because when you respect and value yourself, you’re better able to give and receive love from others in a balanced way.
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