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When Someone Keeps Almost Choosing You

Name: When Someone Keeps Almost Choosing You
Uploaded: 2026-02-04T12:12:02.211Z
Duration: 8 min 21 s
Channel: Martha Curtis
Description: This talk explores the experience of being repeatedly almost chosen. Invited, promised, or considered, but never fully prioritised. We look at how this pattern affects self-worth, attachment, and the way we learn to interpret mixed signals. This episode offers language for a dynamic that is often confusing, painful, and easy to minimise.

by Martha Curtis

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talks

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Meditation

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Everyone

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This talk explores the experience of being repeatedly almost chosen. Invited, promised, or considered, but never fully prioritised. We look at how this pattern affects self-worth, attachment, and the way we learn to interpret mixed signals. This episode offers language for a dynamic that is often confusing, painful, and easy to minimise.

Relationships Self Worth Emotional Health Boundaries Attachment Emotional Clarity Disappointment Nervous System Emotional Labor Self Respect Emotional Boundaries Relationship Patterns Nervous System Response Emotional Investment Self Erosion Emotional Rejuvenation Emotional Disappointment

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Martha Curtis

London, UK

Meet your Teacher

Martha Curtis

London, UK

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