Love Language

We humans want to belong to someone, to love and be loved, to attain inner power, to be free and feel free, and yes, we also want to have fun. All of these needs are deeply embedded in our DNA as guidelines for living fulfilling lives, and all are equally vital and must be met in a precise proportion to fulfill our purpose in this life. As an illustration, when we are thirsty, we have a strong desire to find water because we require water to survive. During our process of growing up, we quickly learn what hunger, thirst, lack of sleep, cold, and sexual frustration are, and we rapidly discover what kind of suffering or discomfort is linked with a given need that is not satisfied. We all know from an early age what it feels like to be hungry or thirsty and how to quench those feelings. However, we encounter many challenges when trying to fulfill our needs that are purely psychological, emotional, and spiritual in character and unrelated to pure survival, because these needs and the ways of satisfying them are not clearly defined. Finding a partner who matches our need for love and acceptance is significantly more challenging than finding water to relieve our thirst. Our reality, and how we see ourselves and those around us are significantly shaped by the convictions, beliefs, and attitudes we acquire during the growing up process, and these are our biggest obstacles on the way to a happy and fulfilled life, in this case to true love and a quality romantic relationship. Through this course, we will overcome these challenges together and learn more about our partner and ourselves that may have previously been hidden or completely unexpected.