Many meditations recommend that you start out by getting yourself comfortable,
Whether sitting or lying.
For this one,
No comfort is required.
In fact,
The most helpful thing you could do right now,
If you want to work effectively with morning anxiety,
Is to get out of bed and move.
Why?
Because,
If you habitually wake up and start worrying in bed,
Your brain has learned to link the two.
Being in bed has become the thing that triggers anxiety.
And the longer you stay there,
The more the anxiety ramps up.
So you can listen to this in bed if you want,
But it may work best if you get up and listen as you move around.
Even if you still feel shaky or full of dread.
Getting up removes you from the triggering place.
It interrupts the cycle that leads from waking up,
To worry,
Through to anxiety.
Moving lets your nervous system know that you can function despite the feelings.
So,
Stay where you are for a moment if you need to.
Or if you're ready,
Get up,
Raise the blinds or open the curtains,
Wander out into the bathroom or kitchen,
Or simply stretch.
Now that morning anxiety is probably still present.
You might feel that familiar tightness in the chest,
A knot in the stomach,
A racing mind,
A sense of dread that arrived even before any thoughts fully formed.
If that's happening,
Nothing has gone wrong.
This is simply your nervous system waking up faster than your mind.
Morning anxiety often feels instantaneous,
Like it hits the moment your eyes open.
That's because your brain has paired waking up with worry,
And worry with anxiety.
It's a fast,
Automatic,
Learned behaviour.
And that's good news,
Because anything learned can be unlearned.
So,
Instead of fighting the feelings,
We're going to give your body a different experience this morning.
Take a slow breath in through your nose,
And let it fall out naturally.
Through the nose,
Or through the mouth if that feels better.
And repeat that a couple of times.
It doesn't really matter how you breathe,
Deep or shallow,
Chest or belly,
Long or short,
All are okay.
Just notice the breath as something steady and real.
If it's coming in,
And going out,
That's enough.
And you might cross your arms over your chest,
Feeling the slight warmth and comfort that brings.
Almost like a soft hug you give yourself.
And feel the movement in the torso,
Letting your breath move however it wants.
And even as you breathe,
You might find your mind racing.
Perhaps trying to predict the future.
Perhaps it asks,
What if today goes badly?
Or,
Why do I wake up like this?
Maybe it declares,
I can't do this again.
And you might be feeling jittery,
Or wired,
Exhausted,
Or demoralized.
You might want to stop all that from happening.
But consider for a moment,
All those thoughts and feelings are probably trying to keep you safe.
They're not trying to make things difficult.
So simply say to them,
I see you,
Little ones.
I see that you're worried and scared.
But I'm here now.
I'm with you.
I won't abandon you.
We can get through this together.
We can handle this.
I know it feels like you need to do something.
But we can just let the nervous system relax by itself.
We don't have to believe all those racing thoughts.
They think there's an emergency going on.
But it's just another day.
We can let those thoughts run around without believing them.
And we can choose how to act,
Even with those thoughts and feelings present.
Now,
Widen your attention a little.
If there's a plant in your room,
Or some artwork,
Take it in.
Or notice the particular blue or grey of the sky outside.
Listen to the sounds of the morning.
And see if you can notice some sound that you didn't expect to hear.
If you're standing,
Feel your feet on the floor.
Or if you're sitting or lying,
Feel the weight of your body.
And let those sensations be simple,
Physical anchors.
Now,
You might still feel anxious.
And if you do,
See if you can let that be okay.
Tell all those thoughts and feelings that they're welcome here.
Instead of trying to push them away,
Give them some reassurance.
Today,
We're allowing them to settle through acceptance.
And now,
Let's bring in something that can really help.
A sense of direction.
Morning anxiety can leave you feeling powerless or frozen.
But even one tiny action can start to move the morning in a different direction.
So think of one tiny thing you can do,
Either now or when you finish listening.
Something that gives you a hint of pride or pleasure.
Maybe it's just drinking a glass of water,
Opening a window.
Stepping outside for a few breaths of fresh air.
Feeding a pet with a bit of extra attention.
Putting on music you enjoy.
Or doing one small thing that moves your morning forward.
Choose something that feels doable,
Even with anxiety present.
Hold that action in mind for a moment and let it be your next step.
Not a test,
Just one step.
Now,
Come back to the breath.
Feel the inhalation.
And let the exhalation be just a fraction longer.
Nothing dramatic,
Just a gentle softening.
Breathe in.
And breathe out.
Let your shoulders drop a little.
Let your jaw loosen.
Let your belly have a bit more room.
Not trying to feel calm.
Not trying to feel ready.
Just cultivating the willingness to take that small next step.
And remember,
While morning anxiety can be loud,
It doesn't have to shape your whole day.
It's just a pattern.
And patterns change through small,
Repeated shifts.
Every time you get up,
Move,
And take one small step,
You're teaching your brain something new.
So when you're ready,
You can begin that next action.
And as you move,
You might say,
Morning anxiety is here,
And I can still take one step.
And remember,
Nervous systems learn fast.
But they also have long memories.
It takes repetition for your brain to trust these new patterns.
So come back and repeat this meditation as often as you can.
Each time you do,
You help train your brain to wake up without those old associations.