If your gut feels tight,
Knotted,
Unsettled or nauseous or you've noticed those sensations get worse when stress or anxiety ramps up,
You're not alone and this session is for you.
Now if you've listened to this meditation before,
Feel free to skip past the introduction.
If this is your first time,
I'd suggest staying with me for this first few minutes so you know what we're doing and why it can help and towards the end I'll share a quick 30-second gut reset you can use any time.
I'm Chibzo Karakay and welcome to today's meditation and what we're working with today is that gut-brain loop when the belly feels unsettled and the body starts to shift into protection mode.
For some of us,
Anxiety is part of the picture.
For others,
It starts with something physical,
Digestion,
Reflux,
Sensitivity,
All sorts of reasons.
Whatever the source,
These sensations are real and you're not making them up.
Now one common pattern is that the breath changes without us noticing.
Maybe we hold our breath or the breath gets so small it feels like it disappears.
When that happens,
Nausea,
Cramping and that tight,
Alarmed feeling in the belly can follow.
And then there's that fear of the sensation and that can make everything louder and the body can tighten up even more.
If that's you,
Nothing has gone wrong.
It's a protective response and we're going to work gently with it,
One small exhale at a time.
For the next little while we'll be gently soothing the gut,
Stimulating the vagus nerve and giving the nervous system a chance to settle.
We don't have to fix anything.
We don't have to do this perfectly.
We don't even have to relax on purpose.
All we're doing is giving our body a chance to move a little closer to safety and ease.
In this practice we'll be using gentle breathing and soft attention around the belly so that we can send a calm message along the vagus nerve,
Between our brain and our gut.
Now if your body feels buzzy,
Panicky or crampy,
You're welcome to take 30 seconds of very gentle movement before we begin.
A slow walk around the room,
A few shoulder rolls,
Gentle swaying or slowly arching and rounding the back.
Or if movement doesn't feel good today,
Feel free to settle in and we'll start right here.
We might want to be doing this lying in bed,
Resting on the sofa or sitting in a chair.
Wherever we are right now,
See if we can make ourselves just a little bit more comfortable.
If you deal with reflux,
Heartburn or that burning tight feeling in the chest,
You might prefer to be slightly propped up or resting on your side or even sitting upright.
You're always in control here,
So if anything I suggest doesn't feel right for your body,
You can change it,
Skip it or stop at any time.
During the session we can have our eyes open or closed,
Whatever feels safer and more comfortable.
Now before we settle in more deeply,
I want to share a simple picture of what we're doing here and why it can help.
The vagus nerve is one of the main communication lines between our brain and our gut.
When stress levels are high,
The body shifts into a kind of survival mode.
Blood flow and energy move away from digestion and towards fighting or running or bracing.
For many of us that shows up as tightness,
Cramping,
Nausea,
Changes in bowel habits.
This is our nervous system doing its best to protect us,
Even though the way it shows up is uncomfortable.
The good news is we can gently send different messages through that same system.
Slower,
Softer breathing,
A feeling of being supported and kind attention around the belly all tell the vagus nerve it's a little safer now.
Now this doesn't replace medical care and if your symptoms are new or severe or persistent,
It's worth checking in with a clinician.
But it can give our body more chances to come out of emergency mode and into a state that's kinder to our gut.
So for the next while we're just experimenting.
We're giving our nervous system small signals of safety and seeing what happens breath by breath.
Let's begin.
Seeing if we can get one or two percent more comfortable.
If it helps,
We can bring one hand to rest somewhere around the belly area,
But only if that feels okay.
And if your belly feels tender,
Bloated or painful,
There's no need to press or prod or massage.
You might keep the hands completely off the abdomen or rest a hand higher on the chest instead.
If none of that feels right,
Simply allowing our hands to rest wherever they feel most at ease.
Remember,
We can always move,
Scratch an itch,
Change position or pause this meditation if we need to.
There's no rush here.
So whenever we're ready,
Let's begin by feeling the weight of our body being held and supported wherever we're resting right now.
We don't have to search for any special feeling,
We can just notice the simple facts.
Noticing the places where our body's touching the surface beneath us,
The back of the head or the side of the head,
The shoulders,
The length of the spine,
The hips,
The legs,
The feet.
Allowing the ground or the bed or the sofa to do a little more of the work of holding us up.
If the mind drifts off,
That's completely normal.
As soon as we notice the mind is somewhere else,
We can gently bring it back just by feeling one point of contact.
Maybe the weight of our hips or the softness under our back or the breath in our nostrils.
For now,
Bringing our attention back to the simple feeling of the body resting.
And let's begin to notice one or two places that feel even slightly comfortable or even neutral.
If nothing feels good,
Seeing if we can find what feels least bad and letting our awareness rest there for a moment.
And whenever we're ready,
We'll start to bring awareness to the breath and to the gentle movements of the belly.
There's nothing we have to change straight away.
We're simply noticing that we're breathing.
Noticing the simple rise and fall of the breath.
Wherever we feel it most clearly.
Perhaps at the nostrils,
In the chest or already down in the belly.
And if our breathing feels tight today or we feel like we can't get in enough air,
We don't have to force belly breathing.
We're welcome to keep the breath higher up,
In the chest or simply at the nostrils.
Letting the breath be small and real.
Even a tiny breath counts.
We'll work with what's here,
Not what we think it should be.
If it feels okay,
We might let one or two hands rest over the belly again.
If that doesn't feel comfortable,
Leaving the hands where they are and simply sensing the movement from the inside.
As we breathe in,
Maybe allowing the belly to gently expand like a soft balloon,
Filling with air.
And as we breathe out,
Perhaps letting the belly fall or soften or simply stop trying to hold everything in.
We're not forcing.
We're not pushing the breath to be deeper than it wants to be.
If the breathing feels tight or shallow,
That's okay.
We're not doing anything wrong.
We're just staying with the movement that's already there,
Even if the movement is very small.
Now,
If it feels comfortable,
We might begin to let the out-breath become just a little longer than the in-breath.
I invite you to breathe in gently for a count of three and breathing out for a count of four or five.
Only if that feels easy and natural.
If counting feels stressful,
We can drop the numbers completely and simply feel the out-breath stretching a little,
Like a slow,
Gentle sigh.
Longer,
Softer exhalations like this can gently stimulate the vagus nerve,
Letting the body know that it might be a bit safer to move towards rest and digest.
As we continue to breathe,
We might notice tiny shifts,
A little more warmth in the belly,
Slightly slower thoughts or simply the sense that we're more in our body and less stuck in our head.
If at any point this feels like too much or we feel light-headed,
We can return to our normal,
Natural breathing.
We can always pause the practice or open our eyes and come back later.
Otherwise,
We can stay with this gentle rhythm for a few more breaths.
Breathing in softly and breathing out just a little longer.
In a moment,
We'll bring more of our attention to the sensations in and around the belly itself.
For now,
Simply continue to ride the wave of each breath,
Letting the body know,
Little by little,
That it's allowed to soften.
And now,
If it feels okay,
Beginning to allow more of your attention to gather around the belly area.
We don't have to move straight into the most uncomfortable spot.
We might start with the whole space of the belly,
The front of the abdomen,
The sides,
The lower ribs,
Noticing whatever's here right now.
Tightness,
Fluttering,
Heaviness,
Churning,
Or maybe almost nothing at all.
Seeing if we can be curious instead of critical.
We're not here to judge these sensations.
We're simply noticing them,
Like watching waves on the surface of the ocean.
If there's a part of the gut that feels especially tense or sore,
We can decide how close we want to be with it today.
If it feels safe enough,
We might let our attention rest gently around that area,
As if we're sitting next to a friend who's having a hard time just keeping them company.
And if that feels like too much,
We can take a step back.
We can widen our attention to include the whole belly again,
Or the whole body,
Or shifting our focus to a more neutral place,
Like the hands,
The feet,
Or the contact with the bed or chair.
We're always allowed to move our attention away from anything that feels overwhelming.
This practice is about support,
Not forcing.
If it helps,
We might imagine the breath moving in and out of the belly area,
Noticing how each in-breath makes just a little more space.
And each out-breath offering a tiny invitation to soften,
Or loosen,
Or simply hold on a little less tightly.
Some people find it soothing to imagine a warm hand resting over the gut,
Or a gentle,
Steady light,
Like the glow of a candle,
Or the last light of the day,
Resting gently over this part of the body.
If visualizing isn't your thing,
You can ignore those images completely.
Just staying with the sensations,
And staying with the rhythm of our breathing,
Is enough.
And as we stay here for a few more breaths,
We might gently say to this part of us,
In our own way,
I see you.
I know you're trying to protect me.
Thank you for working so hard.
Now,
We don't have to believe these words fully.
We're simply offering a kinder tone to a part of the body that's used to bracing.
If at any time the sensations in the belly spike,
Or become too intense,
We can widen our attention straight away.
We can move our attention to feeling into the feet,
Or into the hands,
Or into the weight of our body being held.
And when things feel a little steadier,
We can choose whether to come back to the belly,
Or whether to stay with the wider,
More grounded view of the whole body.
For the next short while,
We can continue in our own way.
Breathing,
Noticing,
And offering as much gentleness as we can,
To this hard working,
Often misunderstood part of us.
I'll give you some silence now,
To explore this quietly for yourself.
Just you,
Your breath,
And this simple,
Soft awareness around the gut.
Now,
If our attention has wandered a little during that quiet time,
That's completely okay.
Minds wander,
Bodies change,
Nothing has gone wrong.
Gently bringing our awareness back to the belly area now,
Or to the feeling of the breath,
Whatever's easiest to notice right now.
And if it feels helpful,
Let's add one simple phrase.
A short sentence we can repeat again and again,
To give the nervous system a steady,
Reassuring message.
If it feels okay,
On each out-breath,
We might silently say to ourselves,
Right now,
My body is doing its best to protect me.
We might use that exact phrase.
But if it doesn't quite fit for us today,
We could gently swap it for something like,
Right now,
My gut is allowed to soften,
Even a little.
Or,
In this moment,
I don't have to fix anything.
Just let the in-breath arrive naturally.
And let each out-breath carry whichever words feel kindest right now.
Right now,
My body is doing its best to protect me.
For now,
I invite you to stay with that gentle rhythm for a few more breaths.
Feeling the support beneath us,
The movement of the belly,
And the possibility of just a little more ease.
And now,
Allowing our attention to widen again.
From the belly,
To the whole of our body,
Resting here.
Maybe noticing the shape of the body in space.
The outline where we're meeting the air around us.
Maybe noticing the support beneath us.
Perhaps sensing the temperature of the air on our skin.
Maybe we can notice sounds in the room,
Or sounds in the distance.
There's nothing we need to change about any of this.
We're just letting the nervous system know,
That right now,
In this moment,
We are here.
And we're being held.
Taking a moment to quietly check in with the belly area again.
Not to test whether we've done it right.
But just to notice what's true right now.
Maybe there's a little more space.
Maybe things feel just as intense as before.
Maybe some sensations have moved somewhere else in the body.
Whatever we notice,
Seeing if we can meet it with the same gentle attitude we've been practicing.
This is what is here right now.
And I'm bringing as much kindness to it as I can.
If nothing feels different at all,
That's okay too.
Some days,
The nervous system just needs more time.
The fact that we've shown up and stayed with ourselves for this long really matters.
And as we come to the end of this meditation,
Knowing that we can come back for the full session,
Or even just for a minute or two.
Our gut is not our enemy.
It's a sensitive messenger.
It's doing its best to keep us safe.
Each time we breathe with it like this,
We're teaching the body that it doesn't have to brace quite so hard.
And that there can be moments of safety,
Even inside stress.
We can begin to wiggle our fingers and toes,
Maybe rolling the shoulders,
Or softly rocking the head from side to side.
If the eyes have been closed,
Perhaps letting a little more light in,
Bit by bit.
And we can blink them open whenever it feels right.
And taking a look around this space that you're in.
Letting your eyes land on one or two familiar objects.
Reminding yourself where you are,
And that you're here now.
Now before you move on,
Here's a simple gut reset you can use anytime,
Even in the middle of a busy day.
Anytime the stomach tightens,
Or anxiety shows up in the gut,
You can come back to this,
Even for 30 seconds.
It has three steps.
Step one,
Feel one clear point of support.
Your feet on the floor,
The weight of your body in the chair,
Or the bed beneath you.
Step two,
Take three soft breaths.
Let the inhale be natural,
And let the exhale be a little longer,
Like a slow,
Gentle sigh.
And step three,
Add one kind sentence to yourself.
Right now,
My body is doing its best to protect me.
That's it.
Support beneath you,
Three soft breaths,
One kind sentence.
You can do this anytime the gut feels tight,
Or overwhelmed.
Each time you practice it,
You're giving your nervous system a reference point,
Like leaving a small trail of footprints the body can find again later.
Thank you for taking this time to care for your nervous system and your gut.
Have a peaceful rest of your day,
And if you're listening to this before bed,
Sweet dreams.