Money Mindset Vs Money Heartset

The recording from a live webinar event around wealth. I talk about inner richness! Feeling full from the inside first, this can allow for outer wealth to come into your life. I am sure that this session will speak to some of you. If it does, send me a message, i'd love to hear about your money stories. I know i had a lot of challenges with this. It's interesting for me to hear your challenges or desires, so I invite you to write to me.

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So,

Yeah,

So the whole topic I wanted to share today.

And before I start actually,

There's two ways for you to listen right now.

You could listen from a place of listening to validate what you already know.

You know,

Kind of like I say something and you're like,

Oh,

Okay,

Cool,

Yeah,

This adds up to what I was thinking already.

Or you can listen for insight,

Which is,

Ah,

Cool,

Never thought about it that way.

Listening to things like music,

Right,

Just letting the sound move through you,

Letting it move through you before you kind of decide what to do with it.

Or even not do anything with it,

Right.

I say that because it's something I've learned myself.

Like the different ways to listen to stuff and it's made a difference for me.

But it's just an invitation,

Right,

It's just something I think has been useful.

So,

I call this money mindset versus money heart set.

The reason why I call it that is because there's a lot of stuff out there at the moment on money mindset.

And how do you create wealth?

What kind of mindset do you need to create wealth?

Definitely useful.

There's a lot of books out there on this stuff,

Right.

Think and Grow Rich.

That's a famous one.

And there's a ton of like mind challenges that come up when money comes up.

You guys put it in the chat actually,

I'd love to hear what you think about when you think about money mindset.

What does that bring up for you?

Like in general,

What comes up for you?

Your relationship to money,

Your relationship to wealth.

What comes up?

I'd love to just check in with you guys.

Because I always tell everyone I make these things up on the spot.

I don't have anything prepared.

I've never done this workshop before,

But I speak about these topics like with my clients in some way or another,

Right.

I want to speak to you guys.

I want to see what would serve you most right now.

So put it in the chat.

What do you think about when you think about money?

Any kind of like inner blocks come up or any kind of like thoughts about what it means to you?

I'd love to see what you guys say.

So Claire says,

My relationship to myself.

Hmm,

Interesting.

I'd love to hear more about that if you're willing.

Angie says,

Fear of not having enough.

Yeah,

That's a big one.

That comes up a lot of people actually.

Of it not being enough.

Of it running out actually.

That comes up,

Running out.

Nikki says,

It reminds me of my old life as an accountant.

Oh cool.

When I was focused on money more than myself.

Yeah,

That's a good one.

I'm going to talk about that for sure.

Torzi says,

I sometimes feel uncomfortable with my fee if I don't feel a session has gone particularly well.

Okay,

So you're,

I'm guessing you're some kind of person who charges for their services,

Right.

Torzi,

If you want to give me some more context,

That would be great.

And then I know a bit more about you,

If you want to,

Right.

So I'd love to hear more about that.

Alejandra says,

Yeah,

You're not too late.

You're here.

Great thing.

We're just talking about what money means to us.

And a lot of people shared it in the chat.

What kind of challenges are you having when you think about money?

Okay,

Great to hear.

So you're a mindfulness teacher and a coach.

Okay,

Great.

Yeah.

Awesome.

Awesome.

Yeah,

So I'm sure this thing about money comes up a lot for you.

Yeah.

Robbie says,

I sometimes panic when I think about not having money.

Yeah.

Claire says,

I've seen my income decline over the past few years,

But I feel happier.

Okay,

Interesting.

Yeah,

Interesting.

Gee says that I have to overcome a by-loss and that I might be around the missing link.

Oh,

Sorry.

Yeah,

That might be around the missing link.

I would benefit of addressing to deeply find worthiness or else.

Maybe that again.

Yeah,

Okay.

Yeah.

That's interesting.

Yeah.

Okay.

Claire says,

Now my inner self says get some more and worth it.

Torzi says,

Had a client who had 10 sessions and did absolutely,

Sorry,

Did fabulously.

But the week where things didn't go so well made me feel uncomfortable.

Okay,

Interesting.

Interesting.

Yeah.

Okay.

Okay.

Alejandra says,

Going through transition,

I'm having trouble not letting money define me.

Mmm.

Feeling powerless.

Yeah.

My baby is scared of not having enough.

This is a thinking mechanism at time and addiction.

Okay,

Interesting.

Okay.

Yeah,

Thanks for sharing guys.

You see,

Like,

This is money mindset at play.

Money mindset.

It's all the thinking around money.

It's the mind's creations of what it means.

And I've had this a lot.

I've had a ton of things where it's like feeling like there's not enough.

Feeling like I have to like ration it out.

Even if there was enough.

Even if there is enough and I know there's enough and I know there's money coming through.

It just still feels like I've got to really like be careful about it.

I've got to like not do certain things that I want because of money.

Money getting in the way.

And I think it becomes a reflection of who we are.

It's the reflection of like what do I feel inside about myself?

I found as a coach there's a lot of this stuff around like our value as a person is determined by the bank balance.

And you see this all the time.

You see these people who are doing really well so they'll buy all this stuff to feel like,

Oh yes,

I'm somebody.

But time and time again there's unhappiness.

There's not fulfillment.

It doesn't matter how much cash there is.

Sometimes it creates more problems.

So it's sometimes not enough.

It's not enough to fill the gap.

And someone said,

I've always undervalued my services,

Often undercharging.

I see this a lot in the helping professions.

A lot of people are undercharging for the services because they take it personally as this is about me.

I had this for sure.

I wasn't charging for a long time actually.

And even when I did I was like,

Oh okay,

Just a tiny like five dollars or something.

Something crazy like that.

Because I didn't feel enough.

I went through bouts of this.

It was only when I worked on the me inside that I valued like the service I was providing.

Rather than it being about me as a person pricing me.

Instead it's about,

Hey this is what I can deliver through me.

This is what's being channeled into me that I can share with you.

I can help you create this outcome.

When I started charging it based on that it changed everything.

But that's one side of the story.

Let's come back to the money mindset stuff.

So yeah,

You'll see it all the time.

Friendships breaking up or just random little arguments around money.

Friendships,

Relationships.

Because it feels so personal.

Because it's connected to safety.

It's connected to safety and feeling okay.

So as soon as that's threatened,

Us as humans,

When it's to do with safety.

That part of us kicks in.

You know,

Fight or flight response.

We feel like we're under threat.

We feel like the oxygen is running out.

Someone said to me,

They were like,

Raj you know it's not oxygen right?

And it hit me,

It's like,

Yeah you're right.

It feels like that though,

Because our bodies are reacting.

So that's what's going on.

And there's a whole other story behind this as well.

Like how we've been raised.

How our parents have been.

For most of human history,

If there was a danger to money,

It would have been close to like death occurring.

You know,

Resources running out.

That's close to like,

You could die.

So of course we have inherited that.

We've inherited this scarcity.

But we have a choice.

In this day and age we have a choice.

We have so many things that we can have for money now.

But we still inherit the old mindset.

So when I'm working with someone on money mindset.

I sometimes get them to bring out notes in front of me and I say,

Really look at this thing.

Look at it.

Look at what it is.

What can this do for you?

And we get to this thing of like,

Okay this can give me something else.

It's an exchange.

I think the whole thing about currency,

It started with people trading like animals.

Pretty sure that's how it started.

Trading animals.

And then trading other things.

So an exchange.

That's what it really is.

It's an exchange.

It's there for a purpose for it to be exchanged for something.

But then we developed and it started becoming something we hoard.

We hoard and we collect and we count.

And it means like how valuable we are.

So that's what's going on.

So when I'm working with someone I really get them to go down to like what is this?

What's happening here?

What are those money stories you have?

These money stories,

Money scripts.

Imagine you're an actor,

Actress.

There's a script that's in play of,

If I don't have enough money this will happen.

And some people are the opposite.

Some people are like I don't need money at all.

And they completely go the other way.

So then they sometimes get into this place of well,

It doesn't matter.

And that sometimes isn't helpful.

Here's where I'm coming from.

There's these scripts in place of what it means and how it's attached to us.

And where I call this session money mindset versus money heart set,

I've come to realize that wealth and money has a different relationship when you look at it from the heart.

Because then you firstly can say,

Okay,

Let me feel into my heart.

Let me connect to the truth.

Because that's where this lives.

The truth always lives in the heart.

The spirit,

Whatever you want to call it.

The being lives in the heart.

So feel into your heart.

Do that right now actually.

Let's do a mini exercise.

Feel into your heart.

Feel into you.

You that's here.

You can close your eyes if you want.

Start noticing the breath around the heart.

See if you can notice where the body is located in the chair.

Or however you are.

And see where the heart is in relation to the body.

In between the head and the lower body.

See if you can bring some gratefulness to three things in your life that you do have.

See if you can acknowledge yourself.

Wishing yourself to be well.

Abundant.

With love.

And joy.

Knowing that in this moment,

Right here,

You are well.

You are safe.

You are loved.

See if anything comes up for you.

If any thoughts appear,

It's okay.

Stay with your heart.

Start to bring awareness back into your feet.

Hands.

When you're ready,

Open your eyes.

So now,

How do you feel?

Let's now talk about money.

From this place.

What's the difference?

When you are still present,

Connected to your heart,

You realize what's important firstly.

You come back to that.

Even if you're in a moment of panic and worry about money and business and career and life and health,

Whatever.

You come back.

And now you have the ability to be creative with money.

You can find a solution now.

How can you create wealth?

If you're having a challenge at the moment with it,

How can you create it?

You are the creator.

When people are talking to me about money and business and career and health,

Anything,

Really,

Anything.

I'll slow them down,

Get them out of the mind area,

The mind game.

And bring them back into the heart game.

Then we'll talk.

And then I'll say,

What do you want to create?

What's the options?

Forget about this story you have.

What can you do right now?

And you have these creative ideas of how to create wealth now.

And it just flows out of you.

It's coming from the right side of the brain now.

The creative zone.

Instead of the thinking mind.

The thinking mind which is trying to find solutions by using past memories and using the intellect.

Using fear most of the time to drive you.

So that's what I mean by money mindset versus money heart set.

When you go into the heart,

You access your creativeness,

Your creative genius.

Solutions,

Imagination,

Problem solving.

Okay,

How can I create wealth now?

I can do this.

And when I do this with someone,

There's always a quick tendency to switch back to thinking.

So I'll catch them and I'll say,

Hold on,

Let's stay here for now.

Stay here for now.

If you were creating wealth,

It was a creative process.

What would you do?

And these amazing ideas start coming out.

Because it's not about believing if it's possible and believing if it's tangible based off logic,

It's about a creative thing.

Like when a kid gets crayons and starts painting,

Starts like rubbing it all over the paper.

It's a creative thing.

They're not thinking about,

Oh what shall I draw?

Let me be a great,

Be good at this.

We have access to that.

This is not about like kids can do that and we can't as adults.

So when you go into the heart set,

Firstly,

Like I said,

You realize what's important.

You realize what you have in this moment.

You realize like things aren't as bad as they seem because they're only that bad when it's thinking,

Overthinking,

When it's stress and projecting into the future.

By using the past.

Come to prison and you realize,

Okay I have these few things that are okay.

Now it's just a case of finding a way to be okay with my money challenges or find a way to like move past it.

And you realize you're not,

You are not a result of your cash.

You can create it.

It's a game.

But it doesn't,

It's not like outside in.

The outside doesn't determine the in.

It's really switching that whole thing to inside out.

Here,

I'm good here.

And then looking outwards.

So tell me what comes up for you guys.

What's coming up?

Alejandro says,

It's so much to do with inner self worth for me.

Exactly.

It's so much to do with inner self worth.

This whole money thing.

It really is.

Like I met this guy,

I was coaching him for a while and I said to him,

Why are you rushing so much?

Like why are you frantically doing all this stuff?

And he said,

Because if I don't,

Then something might go wrong or I might not be able to do enough.

And I said,

Well,

What does that reinforce?

And he said,

I don't know.

He didn't know what I was talking about.

I said,

What are you scared of?

What would happen if you slowed down?

He said,

Yeah,

If I don't do enough,

Then there's a risk that something's going to mess up.

And he was just thinking about all the problems.

Ultimately,

There was this whole story of him not feeling safe.

That's why he was being busy all the time.

To feel like he's doing stuff to move forward.

And I feel this too,

Right?

Sometimes I get stuck in this mode of I've got to do stuff to make stuff happen.

I've got to rush around.

But when we slow down and we come back to presence and to that well-being that we have,

The important things,

Then we can work on the outside world after that.

Because we're full.

We're already full and whole.

If you can be already full and whole and work from that place of full and wholeness,

Oh my God,

Do you know how much is possible from that place?

Instead of like,

Hey,

I've got to get stuff from the outside to feel full and whole.

Because then it's like a message to yourself to say,

I'm not full and whole.

I've got to do stuff to bring it in to feel full and whole.

It's a complete,

Like,

It doesn't make sense.

But this is just unfortunately how most of us have grown up,

Right?

I think everyone I've met,

This is the human experience.

So it's up to us to become aware of that.

And then money becomes a thing that you can be involved in versus being attached to.

So involvement is great.

It's like if you were playing a sport and you're really into the sport and you're going all in and having fun and doing it,

Great.

But if you get attached to the sport,

You might turn into one of those aggressive players who are like taking things so personally.

They're in the sport but they're like,

It's getting to them.

So actually playing the sport very well,

They become one of those aggressive players who mess everything up.

And their life starts to get affected by that.

So involvement versus attachment,

That's a great distinction.

With everything,

With your relationships,

With your career,

With your health.

If you can do that and become very involved but not attached,

Like,

That's been one of the biggest lessons for me in life.

So I can create money.

I can tell people this is how much it costs to work with me.

But if they say no,

I don't take that personally.

I just see what's happening in reality rather than adding these layers of lenses,

These layers of beliefs and thoughts and what could happen and what that means about me as a person.

Imagine if that's how you can navigate through.

People were talking about their fees and their services earlier.

Imagine that's how you can navigate through that.

You have your fees,

You have your services,

You have this.

Or you have your career,

You have your salary.

Great,

It's a part of you.

But if it becomes you,

Then it starts becoming an attachment.

And it affects the emotions and brings the energy levels down,

Right?

So it's even harder to have more money now.

Because there's this relationship with it now.

There's like spiritual science around this,

I think.

That's what I've come to realize now.

And I'm not going to talk about the law of attraction because I've got my thoughts about that.

But there is some of that in play around.

.

.

I'd rather use the law of creation.

Because creation is more of a you're involved in that process.

I think attraction is like,

Hey,

I'm a magnet,

Come to me,

Everything,

Come to me,

Come to me.

It's like expectations,

Oh,

This force around the universe will bring everything to me.

I think creation is better because that means you're still working with the force of the universe.

But you're involved as well.

You're doing stuff to make it happen.

I think that's what the book The Secret missed out completely.

I wonder what your thoughts are,

Guys.

Or what's coming up for you so far?

I've been talking about a lot of stuff.

So tell me,

What's coming up?

What's been useful?

Are you having any insight moments yet?

Alejandra says,

Thank you so much.

Yeah,

I'm glad it's useful.

You tell me,

What's been useful for you so far?

What are you going to practice?

Yeah,

Jisay is getting.

.

.

No,

Jisay's creation being open and in flow.

What other questions do you have?

Post some questions in the chat.

Any questions you have,

Post it and I'll answer.

And yeah,

This is a big topic.

This can be like a whole course in itself.

There's tons of people who've made courses on this.

It's a huge topic.

But I'm just going to leave it as that for now.

And see what questions you have and we can go forward from there.

When did you develop this mindset?

You know what?

I developed this mindset around life in general.

So it was a transformation around how I started seeing life.

Seeing things from the inside out.

Really seeing it from the inside.

But then I spent too much time on the inside only.

I see this a lot actually.

I see a lot of people going into spiritual stuff and I get spiritual teachers or whatever.

People that are very spiritual telling me that they've gone so inwards that they find the outside world challenging.

And they start getting this resistance against it.

What happened for me was,

Yeah,

I did that.

I went very much in.

But then eventually I came out and I said,

Wow,

I'm past that phase.

Just inwardness.

Now I was in this phase of seeing everything holistically as one.

Inside world,

Outside world.

How does everything connect together?

It's not separate anymore.

That's when this stuff really started.

I started seeing things differently around like what does money mean?

What does my body,

My health,

How do societies work better?

Seeing it all from an inside out perspective.

So from being in a place of presence.

That's what I really mean.

A place of presence,

A place of higher consciousness,

Wisdom,

Seeing everything like that.

Instead of before where I was just in autopilot.

Just seeing things how I thought they were.

So that's my answer,

Nikki.

I hope that helps.

But yeah,

I guess since I've got into business more.

And again,

Creativity is one of the things that I focus on.

When I'm working with anyone,

I'm not working at the level of mind.

I'm working at the level of creativity.

Of like getting into that creative zone.

Not logical,

More of the getting into the creative zone,

The heart,

Intuition.

And then using the mind,

Using the logical mind as a tool afterwards.

To help put this vision into reality,

If that makes sense.

And it comes up a lot with like people who have a business or leaders or anything actually.

Not even like business.

Anyone.

Anyone who's becoming aware and becoming into this stage of life.

Where they're seeing things differently.

So any suggestions about emotional blockages?

What type?

Okay,

So I've seen your next note.

It says,

Beyond watching inherited negative values.

Hmm.

Yeah,

I'm not sure if I can help you on those emotional blocks.

I don't think I'm clear on what exactly,

What specifically you want some support with.

And creation does sound arty.

Yeah,

It does sound arty.

Because it is art.

It's the art of life.

It's the art of creating life.

Just like a man and a woman can create a human,

Right?

That's the way I see this now.

I see that this is what this is.

Yeah,

Making can also work.

If that's what you prefer,

You can use making.

But for me that word creation really hits me.

Because it's using the creative force of,

You know,

Nature is a creative force.

Money can be a creative force.

You can exchange it.

That's what it is,

Right?

It's an exchange.

You can exchange it for something else.

You can create something out of it.

So yeah,

Whatever works for you.

Yeah,

Jay says,

I like the law of creation versus attraction.

We take more of an active process.

Yes,

I think it's better.

I think,

You know,

Like,

Waiting for things to come.

There's a lot of people who get stuck in this.

I speak to people a lot about this actually.

So it's this thing of like,

You will manifest this stuff if you just get your energy aligned.

And you align with the moon and all of this stuff like astrology.

It can get deep,

Right?

And it will come to you.

I think it's partially correct.

Because I work with a woman who really taught me a lot of stuff about that.

I think it is correct.

It's the potential you can access.

The potential of it.

But then you have to actually wield it like a sword.

You have to wield it.

You have to use it.

I don't believe you can just sit back.

You have to really embody that energy.

And the creation happens powerfully.

So I don't know what you guys think.

Let me know.

And the other thing is like stepping into the role of an owner.

An owner.

A creator.

Owning your life.

Owning it.

Owning the things you want with money.

Owning the challenges you have with money.

Owning it.

You get to decide you have a story in your head that you might have inherited off your parents and your parents' parents' parents' parents' parents.

Yeah,

That's there.

Of course.

It's swirling around.

I'm not saying you try and stomp this out like a fire.

I'm saying there's another mode to operate from.

The ownership mode.

OK,

This is a challenge.

What do I do about this?

I'm not a victim to my own life.

I'm not a victim.

I'm not going to decide to just lay back and just say,

Oh,

Everything is horrible.

I'm just going to give up.

Yeah,

Maybe you can give up for a little while,

But you'll know that you're not feeling alive if you do.

When you step into the owner's thing,

It's like,

I'm going to own these problems I have with cash.

I'm going to own it.

I'm going to own that it doesn't feel nice.

I'm going to own that it doesn't feel good.

I'm going to own the emotions that are coming up.

I'm going to own that I need maybe to talk to someone about this.

I'm going to own,

Like,

What could I do about this?

I'm just going to own this.

This is my challenge.

I'm not a victim to this.

I can do something about this.

Something tiny.

Something tiny.

And it's just like a shift in being when you go into the owner's mindset.

It's a shift.

I've seen people,

Like,

This is what I'm doing in sessions with people.

I see them in this,

Like,

Story mode.

And I say something and then I see them shift and their whole energy starts vibrating in a different way.

I've got this weird ability where I can somehow sense when someone's shifted energy levels.

They've opened up.

I see it just open and beam.

And then from there all of this creative ideas come up.

Like,

Oh,

I could do this,

I could do that,

I could do that.

Shift.

Complete shift.

With the money stuff you start owning it.

Complete shift.

Instead of living in fear.

OK,

I'm glad guys.

Nikki says,

Yes,

You're getting into the helping space.

And it's been a challenge for you.

Yeah,

For sure,

Nikki.

That was where I was for a long time.

I was in the inside mode of like everything's going to work out,

Everything's going to be fine.

I'm aligned.

And,

You know,

It becomes this illusion that we tell ourselves.

It becomes the illusion that we've created for ourselves of.

Yeah,

Yeah.

If something's going to turn up,

Everything's going to be fine.

And like things do turn up.

I'm not questioning that.

Right.

Amazing things happen from nowhere.

Amazing miracles that we could not have done ourselves.

But also we still made.

We have to like do our best with what we have.

So,

Yeah,

Nikki,

Feel free to send me a message.

I'd love to hear more about your journey,

What you're doing and what you're bringing to the world.

I'm sure it's something amazing.

So,

Yeah,

Let's have a chat.

I've got something that I think might help you.

I might send you to it.

I could send you it.

Sorry.

So send me a message and connect.

And any one of you here that are having some kind of challenges,

Send me a DM on Insight Timer or on Instagram,

Facebook even.

It's just Raj Gossia.

You can just connect with me.

If you're having something where you want to work on your inner wealth or your outer wealth,

Whatever's going on for you,

Your health,

Just drop me a message.

Because it's all the same mode.

It's all the same transformation that has to occur.

Going into owner's mode,

Creating some actions,

Doing something,

Changing the way you see things.

So,

Yeah,

Happy to help.

I got this article that I created a while back called Five Ways to Challenge Overthinking.

And it's quite good apparently because I talk about being chased by a bear in there.

So if you want me to send you that,

Drop me a message and I'll send you that.

I think it's like six pages long or something like that.

So,

Yeah,

Happy to share.

And I've got like a bunch of resources.

I went through this phase where I was just sitting going like going crazy with creativity.

And I just started writing things.

I started writing about compassion.

I started writing about this.

I started making videos,

Recording myself about this,

About that.

And you can find a ton of those on my YouTube page if you want to check it out.

But,

Yeah,

If you're challenged with something,

Just send me a message and I'll directly send you one of these resources to help.

Maybe from my YouTube page,

Whatever.

And,

You know,

That's almost what I call the law of creation.

Hey,

I've got something that might help you.

Let me send it out into the world.

And then maybe that helps you.

Maybe you help someone else with something else.

You know,

It just moves around.

This energy moves around.

And stuff happens.

So even that is a small action,

Right?

I've had people message me saying,

Hey,

I really feel aligned to you.

I don't know what it is.

I don't know why.

And we start talking and I start feeling it too.

And just that,

Just these one,

These little actions of like,

Hey,

How's it going?

Complete shift has happened in the universe,

In someone's life.

Shift.

Just from saying,

Hey,

How's it going?

Sending a message.

So,

That's my invitation.

Even though that sounds like one of those manifestation things,

I think it's true.

All right.

What else is coming up for you guys?

Any other questions?

Yeah,

Being active and being obsessive is important.

Oh,

Obsessive.

Okay,

Yeah,

Interesting.

Yeah,

I'd probably say like the word I like to use is being enthused.

And being enthused is,

I think I looked it up in the dictionary and it kind of says being taken over by a higher source of power.

Some people will say God,

But let's just use higher source of power.

Being enthused about something.

So,

That's when you can create whatever you want when you're enthused with that energy.

You're not taking a passive seat in your life.

You're just,

You know,

Your mind will say you can't do this,

You can't do that.

But really embodying that ownership,

You're enthused and you just go for stuff.

You go and do stuff.

You make stuff happen.

Don't just sit around,

You know.

And I say this,

I'm really digging on this point because I spent most of my life being passive,

Being one of those watchers who just watched time go by.

And I'd look at the end of the year at this kind of time and I'll be like,

Oh my God,

Another year has gone by.

And every birthday I'll be like,

Oh my God,

Another birthday?

I'm getting older.

And complain to other people about,

Oh,

Time passes by so quickly,

Doesn't it?

I can't believe how quickly time passes by.

And be like secretly holding a grudge against time and myself for not fully living.

So that's what's going on.

That's what's going on when there's anxiety,

Stress,

Worry,

Fear,

Tension.

It's not fully living.

That's why it hurts.

Yeah,

I spent a lot of time there so I know in this self prison basically.

So if that's how you're feeling,

I feel you.

I feel how you're feeling.

So that's why I'm here and I'm being very strong in my words to hopefully wake something up,

Hopefully spark something.

Maybe not.

Maybe you're like,

Well,

I'm good,

Raj.

I'm fine.

And that's OK,

Too.

Alejandro says,

I can relate to the inside mode and my business is the outside world,

So it's been hard to integrate.

But I just need to create like a child.

Yeah,

Create like a child.

Exactly.

Create like a child.

That's,

You know,

I don't think I can say anything more about that.

And then,

Yeah.

Yeah,

So then there's this follow up sometimes of negative thoughts that come up of like blockages and you can't do this,

You can't do that.

Of course,

That comes up for me as well,

By the way.

They come up all this stuff like,

Yeah,

You can't do this.

That's crazy.

You know,

It's like sometimes I'll say to people,

What would you do if you knew it was it was 100 percent possible it was going to happen?

And they'll say this like idea,

Like almost giggle to themselves and say,

Oh,

Ha ha.

Yeah,

I know.

I know.

But it's not possible.

Right.

And I'd be like,

Wait,

You just destroyed your own idea.

We have these solutions and then we destroy them.

So here's the thing.

You don't have to stop your thoughts.

They're going to be there whizzing around every time you do something that feels scary.

They're going to be there.

If you spend all your life trying to stop your thoughts and saying,

I've got to be in a place of I don't have these thoughts before I can do what I want.

You're going to spend a lot of time being miserable and never doing anything because the thoughts are there.

It's OK for them to be there.

But if you follow through with what you want to go and do,

Then you're going to prove your thoughts wrong.

So there's nothing there's no way around this.

There's no like comfortable feeling ready.

A lot of people say,

I don't feel ready.

Well,

You're not going to feel ready.

I'm sorry.

You're waiting for something that's not going to happen.

It's an illusion.

The heart will lead you instead.

If you listen to the heart,

Then you can move forward despite the thoughts.

You can see I'm getting passionate about this.

Because,

Like I said,

I was stuck for a long time and I don't want to see anyone else stuck.

OK.

I'm going to I'm going to ask you for any more questions before we close.

Probably going to close soon.

Any more questions,

Guys?

Money around mindset around like blocks that come up when trying to create things.

Tell me.

Yes,

G said.

Oh,

Yeah,

Money equals evil is not real.

Yeah.

And the unworthiness is from childhood.

Exactly.

Yeah,

It is.

It's all coming from this place of limitation.

Of we don't deserve this or this is bad.

We can't have too much.

You know,

We have these these upper limits that block us of like I can only get to this point and then above that is no,

That's not possible.

Glass ceilings,

I like to call them.

And these thoughts about,

Oh,

If I have more money,

What would that do to me?

What will people think?

And all sorts of things come up when I'm having these like conversations with people about what money means.

All sorts of things that sometimes we don't even know about.

It can only be evil if you are if your ego is involved.

You're desperate for more money if you're like,

I need to do this and I'll do whatever it takes.

I'll screw people over for it.

But if you're operating from inside out.

The inside out mode,

Then it's a different game altogether.

OK,

Any other questions,

Guys?

I'll take maybe one more.

Or just comments or whatever is coming up.

I'm not saying I'm I'm like an expert or I'm right about this stuff.

Instead,

I come on to these sessions just to express like what I feel like,

What what have been my experience?

What have I been challenged with?

What have I seen from working with clients?

What have I learned through just like my life experience?

Maybe it doesn't resonate with you.

Maybe,

You know,

You see a different way.

But if you've got something from today,

Then great.

I'd love to hear what that is.

I'd love to hear maybe what insight might occur after this session.

What like shifts might be occurring.

Yeah.

Feel free to share that with me whenever.

Right.

OK,

I think I'm going to leave it as that,

Guys.

Yeah,

Let's leave it as that.

So.

My invitation is to.

After this session,

Spend two minutes,

Get a piece of paper.

And write down.

Money means.

This to me.

And see if you can.

Just describe what money means to you.

In like twenty five words.

Or less.

It's my invitation for you,

This little exercise,

Little game.

Write it down,

Get a piece of paper,

Just write down what does money mean for you?

And you can play this game however you want.

So see what comes up.

See if anything exciting comes up.

And I say to do it now.

Because you're fresh.

So,

Yeah,

Invitation.

If you wish.

All right,

Guys,

I'm gonna leave it as that for today.

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Thank you. Recognising that my heart stopped being involved in my creation process was exactly what I needed to hear. 🙏🏼