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Being Compassionate With Yourself

by Padma Gordon

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It can be so easy to be hard on ourselves, to give ourselves grief instead of recognizing that we are doing our best. And it seems to be part of the human condition to fall into patterns of self-criticism. This meditation is an invitation to change that and to cultivate the practice of self-compassion.

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Transcript

Today's meditation is focusing on compassion and specifically self-compassion.

It can be so easy to be hard on ourselves,

To really give ourselves grief instead of recognizing that we are doing our best.

And it seems to be part of the human condition to fall into patterns of self-criticism.

And this meditation is an invitation to change that and to cultivate the practice of self-compassion,

Of turning toward yourself with love and care,

Kindness,

And a deep heartfelt understanding.

So let us begin.

Let your body get comfortable.

Arrange yourself so that this wonderful body of yours can find ease,

Can feel supported.

Then let your eyes rest,

Allowing the lids to be heavy.

And then follow your breath,

Follow your breath as it rises and falls,

Allowing your breath to be an anchor,

An anchor into the present moment.

And in this present moment,

What if you turn toward yourself,

Turn toward yourself sweet friend,

With a gentle,

Loving,

Compassionate gaze.

Maybe you can imagine that you are looking in the mirror and instead of scrutinizing parts of your face that maybe you wish were different or finding the apparent flaws that come with living and come with aging.

You turn toward yourself with compassion and see yourself as if for the first time.

Gently allowing your heart to soften.

As you see this image of yourself,

Then perhaps you might even sense an opening in your heart and allowing that feeling of love,

Of compassion to flow toward yourself from your deepest heart to yourself.

Realizing what it feels like to make this offering and to receive this offering.

Perhaps you can feel the beating of your own heart.

Like all the time you need,

Stay with yourself,

Stay with yourself,

Dear friend.

This is a pathway,

Pathway to self-compassion so that when and if a moment arises where the old habit of self-criticism rears its head,

You can pause and know that there is another option,

There is another choice.

Self-compassion.

Self-compassion.

So perhaps resting a hand on your heart and let us just be here together,

Marinating in the depths of self-compassion.

And the more you practice this,

The more it will live in you and be readily accessible.

Umb.

Taking a breath and coming back.

Back to your body,

Back to the space where you are sitting.

And as you're ready,

Allow your eyes to open gently,

Seeing through the eyes of self-compassion.

Let your body move gently and close up.

You

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Recent Reviews

Stephanie

April 13, 2025

Wonderful meditation, as all your meditations 🌞thank you dear Padma 🙏

Bettina

March 27, 2024

So grateful thank you so much dear Pamela Yes, you are so right. It is so easy for us to be hard on ourselves.Now I'm going to listen to the meditation again and again I think I want to hear it again just as a reminder.

Katrin

July 13, 2022

Today, this one was hard for me. Realizing that is the gift.

Girija

March 22, 2022

Beautiful, thank you!

Iga

March 3, 2022

Wonderfully compassionate ad warm towards ourselves. Thank you so much, Padma.🤗❤🙏🌻

Laura

February 22, 2022

🙏🏻❤ beautiful, thank you, wish it was longer at the end, so I can stay with myself and my feeling s, in company, quiet. Thank you, A balsam of love ❤💝💜🙏🏻

Thomas

November 21, 2021

Wonderful, the atmosphere, the words , the sounds, your voice, I enjoyed it so much❤️☘️🙏 it tastes for more👍☺️

Frances

May 9, 2021

This was so timely for me today, I really needed to hear this and feel compassion for myself. So much every is going toward others at the moment, I forgot about me... Thank you dear Padma for sharing your wisdom. Love and blessings 💜 x

Sandy

May 8, 2021

Very peaceful and loving 🥰 Thanks❣️🙏✨

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