Hi there.
I wanted to pop on live,
I haven't done it in a while,
And just talk to you about relationship purpose.
Do you know your relationship purposes?
Do you know your purpose in relationships,
Different relationships that are important to you?
You know,
We tend to think of purpose-driven business,
Or what our purpose is in life.
We don't think about it so much in our relationships,
But of course we have things that we want,
And we have deeply important values that are important for us to achieve that are related to relationships.
So here are some examples that people have shared with me recently.
To celebrate life together.
That they'll know I love them.
To truly see each other.
You know,
The purpose we have in relationship is important and deep and beautiful.
And it's good to know what it is.
What's interesting,
And what may be surprising to you,
Is that conflict can actually help us achieve our purpose in relationship.
Now there's one thing about conflict that completely gets in the way,
And that's when we lose it.
When we lose it in conflict,
We are moving further away from achieving our purpose,
And from living how we want to live in that relationship.
But learning how to handle conflict,
How to bring our best self to conflict,
So that we can be calm and clear and choose our behavior and feel good about ourselves,
That supports your purpose in relationship.
And that's actually the most powerful and effective way,
One of the most powerful and effective paths towards having what you want,
And giving what you want in your relationship,
And even in your life.
Because when you build the ability to be calm and clear,
And live the way you want,
During these difficult,
Challenging moments in important relationships,
You're also building the ability to do this in your entire life.
Knowing your purpose helps you handle it when things get rough.
It's particularly important in difficult relationships to know what your purpose is.
So take some time today and write about your purpose in different relationships,
Maybe with your spouse,
Maybe with your kid,
With your special needs kid,
With your toddler,
With your teen,
With your mom or your boss,
Whoever.
Whoever is feeling challenging to you today.
And if you want to get more information about being calm and clear during conflict,
And other interesting stuff related to this,
Please join my mailing list.
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Thanks for staying with me.
Bye.
