What Is Love?

Love is a four-letter word for some people, yet it is the foundation of our existence. We all exist in relationship to something, yet don't factor in love as the foundation of those relationships. In this lecture, Virginia talks about love. What is it? How do you get it? And why don't our systems recognise it? An insight into love at a 5D level.

Transcript

Hello everyone,

Virginia Warren here,

Lawyer in conflict alchemist and co-founder of the organisation called Lawyers for Love.

Today I want to talk about love.

Love,

That fall at a word that most people can't even say because they don't know what it means.

In fact,

It terrifies some people.

Some people like to hate the word love.

Have we ever wondered why that is?

Have we ever wondered why,

For example,

Our legal system,

Which governs relationships with people,

Doesn't talk about love?

There are two states of being on the planet for humanity and that is fear or love.

Every emotion we have is based in either fear or love.

You can't be in both places at once.

The funny thing about the legal system is that everything it does operates from a place of fear.

Well,

Some people think it's there to protect us.

In a way,

That's what it's pretending to do,

But this is conditional love.

It says if you do this,

Then you won't be punished.

If you do this,

You will be punished.

It's a conditional love.

I'll take care of you if you follow my rules.

Sounds a little bit like a parent,

Doesn't it?

With Valentine's Day just having come and gone,

A lot of people say they don't understand love.

Love means falling in love with somebody else and I haven't got that person to fall in love with,

They say,

So therefore I'm lonely.

I miss out on love.

But that's not true.

There are various kinds of love and to describe love is very difficult.

I remember when I did some research back in 2012,

It was when they thought the world was going to end.

The most Googled question was,

What is love?

It's that elusive question.

Now my belief is we are here on this planet earth to experience living on this planet and to also find out what love is.

We are born into love.

We are born perfectly delicious little loving beings.

We trust in absolutely everything.

We look to everyone to nourish us and take care of us with that unconditional love.

And then soon enough we go along in life and discover,

Well,

There are rules to get that love.

You have to follow certain rules like boys don't cry,

Girls don't get angry.

Then our parents will love us when we follow the rules.

And of course when we leave the tribe,

Leave the family,

Leave the friends and go out into the big wide world,

Guess what?

There's the legal system out there too.

It'll love you as well if you follow the rules.

So all these kinds of love are not true love.

What is true love then?

Well,

Seeing love and fear cannot exist in the same place.

Love is a state of being.

It's just simply a state of existence,

Being without fear.

That's one component.

That's what it is.

And then what love does is operates for the highest good of all in every moment if love is doing something.

Cause love is momentary.

All we have is now.

So if we go back to the idea of a state of being without fear,

How does that work?

How can we get there?

Well,

Drop all our fears.

Now even that idea is terrifying for people.

How do I do that?

How do I drop fear?

Well,

Fears are just created.

Fears are simply,

They are manufactured.

And I read somewhere the other day that we're born in this world with only a couple of innate fears.

And I think it was something like loud noises,

Bright light and falling.

I think those were the three.

That was the Monroe Institute that said that.

The researchers there told us that.

The rest of the fears we have are learned.

But the trouble is most of those fears are unconscious.

You don't even know you have them.

So to drop all those fears,

You get back to love.

It's like being the sun.

It's like you are the sun.

You are all this bright,

Delicious light and the clouds come in front of you and they block your light.

They are dimming your light a little bit and they are saying you can only shine over there and only shine over there but you can't shine through there.

So what we need to do is move those clouds along.

There is nothing wrong with fears.

Nothing wrong with them.

If you recognise them and see them for what they are but most of the fears we are holding are unconscious.

So where can you locate them?

They are reflecting back at you in your world.

Everything you are anxious about or depressed about.

All those things are showing you where your fears are.

This is the test.

This is what we do.

We say I have asked myself all this time.

This is my mantra.

How do I feel?

In every moment.

How do I feel?

How do I feel?

How do I feel?

How do I feel?

When I am saying how do I feel,

If I get any negative energy,

Any negative emotion,

It means I have a little rule present or a fear.

So I have to stop and examine what would need to be true for me to feel this way.

So if someone say insulted me,

Called me an idiot and I feel insulted,

I need to believe them.

I need to believe about myself that I am an idiot for that to be true.

Now how can that be true?

That means I am not loving myself.

Self love is not conceited.

That is a different.

.

.

Conceit has a negative energy.

Self love is 100% positive,

Pure,

Being yourself.

Yourself that is pure love.

So if you have any negative emotions about anything,

You are effectively carrying a fear that needs to be dropped.

Now sometimes those fears are a little bit harder to find but there are ways of doing all that.

But it is just being aware,

Absolutely aware every moment that when you are not feeling good,

You are not in love and that is in the state of love.

So your ultimate goal in this life,

I believe,

Is to find that feel good place all the time and that is a feel good place without the alcohol,

Drugs,

Shoe shopping,

Chocolate,

All those other things.

Now they can feel good temporarily but that is it,

They are a temporary fix.

Even the drugs that take you to another dimension.

Now I am talking 5th dimensionality here.

When you can see life as absolutely hilarious for the game that it is.

When you can see life as absolutely fun and hilarious because it is a game and you are also never insulted by anything,

Anytime,

Anywhere,

Anyhow,

You are in love.

You are in a state of love.

Now I don't know many humans that are probably will ever reach that state because there are things that,

You know,

They come at you and they move you this way and that way but it is about how fast you can move back to that centre point.

About how fast you can get to laugh at a situation.

We have all had these really negative experiences in our lives and sometimes we have been able to look back and have a laugh.

What if we could just look back and have a laugh at it right now and just say,

Oh wow,

Wasn't that funny?

What did I learn there?

Because all of those things are just teaching you where your fears are.

This is your reality.

All of this is your reality only.

Life is your reaction to it.

Your life,

Your whole life is your reaction to it.

So if you are reacting negatively all the time,

You get a negative life,

An unhappy life.

Why would you do that?

Your choice.

But then again,

Some of those choices are unconscious.

So you are choosing unconsciously to feel bad about something because you have a rule present.

For example,

I might say anger is no good.

That person is angry and I don't like it.

You shouldn't be angry.

Well shouldn't is a rule for a start.

Shouldn't is an obligation.

And why shouldn't someone be angry?

It's got nothing to do with me,

How someone else is reacting to life.

So if I'm reacting to that,

There's something about me.

I'm rejecting anger.

I need to have a look at that.

So why am I rejecting that?

That's about me.

Everything is about oneself at all times.

Love.

Love is the state of being without fear.

It's not outside of you.

No one can give it to you.

Yeah,

You can feel great being around somebody.

But what you're doing is recognizing the love in them that is also the love in you.

That is why you love being around them.

But then when they don't live up to your expectation anymore,

You get disappointed.

You want them to be the way they were.

That beautiful high vibe love that they were in the beginning.

However,

It's not up to them.

It's not up to anybody else on this planet to make you happy.

That's your job.

You are there to make yourself happy.

And when you start feeling that,

Finding that how do I feel,

How do I feel,

How do I feel,

How do I feel in every moment,

Checking in,

Checking in with yourself,

You're able to find it a lot more quickly and bring it into consciousness,

Then you're able to effectively dissolve those fears.

And the more you dissolve the fears,

You don't get any pull this way or that way in the negative energies.

Nothing can draw you in for the fight.

That's what love is.

Love is just a state of being.

You can love things.

Yes,

You can love people.

Yes.

But true love,

True love is your authentic self.

It's you without all the fears,

Without all the rules.

That's what love is.

So next time you're feeling lonely,

Find out why.

Ask yourself the question,

What would need to be true about me for me to feel this loneliness?

What is missing?

The need for someone to tell me I'm beautiful,

The need for someone to tell me I'm worthy or valid.

You are all those things.

Yes,

I know it's hard.

I know it's hard when people say these things like,

Oh,

Just be positive.

It's not that easy.

We have to find the rule that we created that prevents us from getting to that place.

Now we can show you how to do all that too.

But then there are many techniques,

But that's what you're looking for is you've created a rule to say,

I need this and that to be happy.

I need this and that to feel love.

Or I'm feeling rejected.

I'm feeling bad,

Unhappy,

Sad.

There are various processes you can go through,

But love itself is that state of being without the fears.

How do I feel?

How do I feel?

How do I feel?

If I'm feeling good and pretty well close,

I'm in love.

Being in love with yourself,

Being in love,

Just in the state of love attracts love to you because like attracts like.

It's a beautiful place to be.

You don't need anything else when you're in that place.

It's beautiful.

Have a loving and beautiful day.

Reviews

I am feeling a bit more ease after listening to this. Thank you! It’s the beginning of my journey.

🙏🏼🌈🤗 Thank you Virginia for your lovely interpretation of Love ❤️

What you’re explaining makes perfect sense to me and I will try my best to incorporate your mantra into my everyday life also, for the good of not only myself and my life, but for my family, friends and the lives of everyone around me….🥰

I wish that this sort of education could be taught in our schools to everyone… imagine if everyone were to be taught the right way from birth, imagine how wonderful every interaction with every single person we encountered throughout our lives would be
🌈😍🥰❤️

It’s a wonderful thought
😊🫶

Very moving, enlightening

A brilliant talk and fascinating concept. Many thanks 🙏

Wow 🤩

Stunning talk. Thank you 🙏

GREAT!

Thank you Virginia for bringing forth Love's presence and the deep value of this investigation and invitation. Sending good wishes.

I will listen to this over and over and over. My mantra has been elusive for long enough. How Do I Feel? How Do I Feel? This will help my awareness practice; I want to live life this way. ♡ the happy place is only so often now, but as I heal I know they will grow.

Perfect 👍🏻

Excellent reminder of our purpose here on earth. Thanks and stay blessed.

Interesting presentation of a very simple idea. The repetition is helpful, especially if new to the concept. Thank you 🙏🏻💞

This was so very good, eye opening. Every word is true. Thank you.🙏🏽

Love is living without fear. Thank you for offering this talk.

Thank you 🙏

Hello Beautiful 🌺🌺🌺 Thank you so much for the wonderful and magical words 🌈 like walking on a rainbow 🗺 stay safe and happy 🙏 Namaste

Profound and relatable. Thank you. Namaste🙏🏾