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Timeful Task : Do Something Different

by Tom Evans

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This next in the series of Timeful Tasks tells the story of a man who has done the same thing on each weekday for 25 years. When we make a small change in our habits, we open the door for something new to come our way. You can follow this series on my Timeful Tasks playlist https://insig.ht/iTjbmflIyMb

ChangeRoutineNew ExperiencesMindfulnessDisruptionHabitual BehaviorUnexpected EventsMindful Observation

Transcript

The man never failed to catch the 737 train in the morning.

He always sat in the second carriage from the back,

In the first window seat on the left next to the front door of the carriage.

This way he didn't get blinded by the sun on the way to work.

He was always first out of the door and straight down the stairs that would take him to the bus stop for his next leg of the journey.

On the way home,

He sat in the fourth carriage,

In the first window seat on the right next to the rear door.

He was always first out of the car park and back home in time to watch the next episode of his favourite soap.

He'd been doing this for 25 years.

He was single but not unhappy.

He'd been in love once,

But it never worked out.

He didn't want to get hurt that way again.

One evening,

On a day when he'd heard some sad news about a beloved aunt passing away,

He'd had two extra glasses of whiskey.

His alarm didn't wake him and he overslept.

When his eyes did open,

His digital clock said 7.

37.

He knew he was going to be late for work for the first time in 25 years.

He also knew his boss wouldn't mind,

But he did.

He emailed them to say he'd be on the 8.

37 and that there'd been a death in the family.

He got on the 8.

37 easily and was dismayed to see his usual seat was taken.

He had to sit on the right side of the carriage.

As he sat down,

A very demure and attractive lady said to him,

I've not seen you on this train before.

So breathe in and breathe down.

Each day when we do the same things and think the same thoughts,

It is likely that the same outcomes will ensue.

This is a good thing if you're driving on a familiar route from A to B and you want to get there on time and safely.

However,

If you want something new to occur in your life,

Its chance of turning up is reduced by this strategy.

So for the coming day,

Take some time out to do something different.

Go on a different route to work or change your planned schedule.

Take more time over something than you were planning to do.

Then sit back and notice how a different outcome is reached,

Which counter-intuitively has saved you time,

By taking more time.

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Recent Reviews

Nancy

February 6, 2025

Good story. It was a little fast paced, but thank you ๐Ÿ™

Violet

January 9, 2025

Thank you Tom. Always enjoy your meditations, lessons, short stories. Youโ€™re one my โ€œgo-toโ€ people. โ˜ฎ๏ธ

JayneAnn

December 10, 2024

Such an interesting and inspiring little parable. Something any one of us can try. I am willing to give it a go. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป๐Ÿ’ž

Annie

December 9, 2024

Excellent short talk, Tom. Great way to start my Monday.

Darlene

December 8, 2024

You are so right and shared a very good lesson. Thank you!

Cyndie

December 8, 2024

What a great message wrapped up in a only a few minutes . Thank you Tom.

Elaine

November 11, 2024

I love this! When I went back to the UK as an adult from NZ I commuted from Enfield into Nottinghill daily for work. Those on the first route had travelled it for years reading their papers, sitting in silence. NZ is a country where strangers talk to one another so I instigated conversation with some regulars. ( i had bought a bight red coat from a market so stood out amongst the grey and black lol) Weird they had not spoken to one another. I hope I started a trend when I came HOME to NZ, I was born in Barnet, I came home to the local Post office in NZ and queuing in line to send a postcard back to a good friend someone spoke to me line....;) :) ๐Ÿ˜€ I MUST START DOING MORE OF THIS HERE..Thank you. AROHA from NZ...

Karen

October 5, 2024

Great message for those like me who are creatures of habit, thank you โ˜บ๏ธ

Tony

October 5, 2024

An utterly brilliant two minutes Tom. Thanks. Hope life is going well for you (which of course we both know it is). Tony

Wakes

October 4, 2024

Took a new running route today. ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธYesterday I did a familiar route backwards for the first time. It has been nourishing for my mind and spirit to mix it up (and get outside and move) during a stressful time. Thanks friend for your timeful wisdom. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผโœจ

Paula

October 4, 2024

Yes. Yes. Yes. I always try to take a different route.๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿ˜Ž

Barb

October 3, 2024

Oh I love this! Change is so good for the soul. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป๐Ÿ’•

Tonia

October 3, 2024

That was so perfect for me! I am always on a schedule and in a rush and have been so burned out lately! This totally made my heart smile! Thank you!โ˜บ๏ธ

Stacey

October 2, 2024

That was helpful! Thanks for the simple reminderโ€ฆ ๐Ÿ™

Susan

October 2, 2024

Thank you Tom. Still learning to change things up in my life. What comes to me is that doing the samething we feel safe that everything will work out. The unknown can makes us worry about the possiable outcome, like will this work out. Something in our body, and mind wants to feel comfort knowing that the way we do things is going to turn out.. Time for me to turn up the heat in changing the way I do things.. โค๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ•Š

Carol

October 2, 2024

So true! I believe that little bit of change does improve my day. Thank you ๐Ÿ˜Š

Donna

October 2, 2024

I heartily agree! Thereโ€™s nothing more interesting than shaking up your day now and again. Even small changes can refresh your experience. Thanks for that guidance, Tom! Donna

Richard

October 2, 2024

Short and impactful. Last year I made a pact with myself to say YES to new things that came my way. It is wonderous where it has taken me. I was a dancer in a music video. โœŒ๏ธ

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