How Healthy Can My Relationships Be

Here I speak about how toxic and unhealthy relationships can be. By giving a simple and practical example, I describe how we can shift the energy and change our reality, in order to attract better connections.

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Thank you so much Sangeet.
This topic truly smacked the center of home base for me.
A perfect comparison using mold as the toxicity of a toxic relationship. Black mold is the most toxic of molds of which I’m enduring now. Unfortunately I was deceived and that deception shut and locked every door of escape to feel that magic of love ever again. Why ?
Because I am trapped in a black widow spiders web confined to be under her control at all times.
When I was in my earlier 20’s I structured my future to be self employed. I didn’t want to be employed making money for others and being paid a paltry sum. So I learned everything I needed to know to have my own business which was construction. Being self employed was what I wanted and that is what I achieved from following my plan to be self employed. Took about 10 years to learn what I needed to know working at different crafts. But eventually I received an unrestricted building license to build any structure up to 35 thousand cubic feet in dimensions. That was when we relocated to cape cod. I built a house for us in 2002. A Traditional Cape Cod house.
Everything was wonderful until about 1-1/2 years ago until I mentioned that we should have a will drawn up in case a tragedy should happen to us like a car accident etc. to leave everything to our daughter. The house, all possessions and monies, etc. Shortly afterwards she contacted an attorney and had a will drawn up without my knowledge or discussion. She told me everything was taken care of and all I had to do was sign the papers and don’t ask questions!( A huge red flag! ). But I trusted her and signed each paper without questions.
Now she owns the deed to the house I built for us and everything else. Everything!
When we left the attorney he handed to her a folder of the will and told her to hide this will and never show to anyone ! That meant not to show it to me. I’ve asked many times to read what I signed but she will not show me that will. So now I don’t own my house, I have no access to money and I’m at her mercy as she is in control of all bank accounts. My life now is about doing housework, cooking meals and doing anything that she needs done that I can do for her. There is no love, compassion or anything pleasant in my life anymore. I don’t understand why. I have no outlet to say goodbye to this toxic marriage. I am trapped to view and feel only darkness. Why !
I am sorry Sangeet for expressing so much here. But I have no friends or anyone to express my thoughts to other than to you.
Happiness to you always 💚
Thank you Sangeet for your uplifting words,
I appreciate you very much. I will follow your words. I pray someday I will see another rainbow in all its glory.