Today I want to share with you the basis to attract what we desire.
We all wish to live the best lives,
Having what we want,
And feeling fulfilled with joy,
Happiness,
Prosperity,
Abundance at all levels,
Right?
But why do we want all of that?
Most of the times we want something because we feel that we don't have it,
And we think that by having it we will feel good and happy.
This means that we somehow feel bad for not having something in our lives.
So basically we want something from a place of lack,
Because we only attract what we vibrate with.
If we are wishing from a lack mentality,
We will probably attract more of the same,
Which means more lack,
More insufficiency.
So how do we turn this around,
Practically speaking?
If we are the magnet that attracts,
We then have to focus on improving it in order to attract better things.
In terms of how reality works in this planet,
If we want something,
We have to have it already within us,
And we say,
But why would we want something that we already have?
Exactly!
Because we already have it within,
We won't feel the lack of it,
Although we don't have it manifested in reality yet.
By saying this,
I don't mean it literally.
What I mean is that if we want something,
We have to match the vibration of having it by feeling the exact feeling of having it already in our lives.
Let me give you an example.
If we want a partner who loves us unconditionally,
And we feel the lack of it,
This means that we don't love ourselves enough.
Yes,
We may not have a partner,
But the reason we feel bad about it is because we feel some sort of lack.
We have to give it first to ourselves.
We have to love ourselves first.
I mean really love ourselves fully.
Then we give it to others.
In order to attract unconditional love,
We have to know how it is to be loved unconditionally,
And how it is to love unconditionally as well.
Otherwise,
How would we even recognizing it if it appeared in front of us?
And how would we sustain it if we wouldn't know how to reciprocate?
We may not have a partner in our lives,
But we have it within us,
Symbolically speaking,
Of course.
Do you see what I mean?
We feel it inside,
And this means that we are not only nurturing ourselves with it,
But we are also spreading it towards others,
And therefore attracting the same.
In this case,
And at this point,
We know how it is to love and to be loved.
This represents a complete sense of being in which giving and receiving is essential.
We incorporate what it takes to attract what we want.
We integrate exactly what we want before we manifest it into our reality.
And how do we know if it's working?
Because we can feel it.
We feel an obvious energy shift,
And others feel it too,
And they actually may verbalizing it by saying something like,
Your energy is so uplifting,
Or I feel at peace when I'm with you,
Or there is something different about you.
So going back to our example in this case,
How do we manage to go from one place to another?
We stop putting ourselves down and start loving ourselves more.
For example,
We stop criticizing,
Blaming,
Punishing,
Excluding ourselves for whatever reason,
And we start treating ourselves well,
Kindly,
As if we are these precious,
Unique,
And beautiful beings who deserve the very best,
Because in fact we are.
And yes,
We may treat ourselves so well that we literally spoil ourselves abundantly.
For example,
We give ourselves lots of gifts,
And this doesn't have to be in a material way.
It can be in any form.
Every thought we have that goes against this,
We switch it to a thought that goes according to this wonderful self-idea.
By doing this,
And of course everything else that we find that matches this frequency of unconditional love,
We will start noticing that we are attracting more and more of the same level of energy,
And this will eventually lead us to the divine partner of our dreams.
And the best part of this example is that it works for anything.
Because loving ourselves more won't hurt us for sure,
It will only makes us feel better,
And therefore having more and more of what we desire.
So we attract what we are and have inside of us.
If it's love,
Crystal clear love,
Then we attract the pure love that we are.
But we have to give it,
To feel it,
To be it,
And then we attract the same from others and the general environment.
If on the contrary we are always complaining,
Not liking,
Not wanting,
Focused on what we don't like about ourselves and others,
Then we project into ourselves and others our dislikes and critics and we attract the same towards us.
We focus on what we don't want,
We attract more of that.
If we want something,
First we have to give it,
To ourselves and to others.
It doesn't work if we only give love to others and not to ourselves,
Or vice versa,
Because that is not balanced.
We will then feel depleted or disconnected from the world.
The energy has to flow,
We are not supposed to control it by avoiding it or keeping it to ourselves.
So whatever we want to experience in this lifetime,
Let's fully embrace it from a place of abundance,
Before it appears in our reality,
Being so ready for it that it feels as if it's already here.
Then,
One of these days,
We open our eyes and we see for ourselves the incredible creators and powerful beings that we all are.
