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Intimate Private One-On-One Retreat in Scottsdale: A Full Day of Healing, Self-Attunement, Nurturing, and Self-Care with Alessandrina

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Intimate Private One-On-One Retreat in Scottsdale: A Full Day of Healing, Self-Attunement, Nurturing, and Self-Care with Alessandrina

July 24, 2026

Scottsdale, AZ, United States

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Dexter and Alessandrina

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1 day

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2 person retreat

Highlights

  • Immerse in deep nervous system healing where nature, rest, and somatic practices guide you back to inner peace and wholeness

Details

This full-day retreat offers a gentle immersion into nervous system healing in beautiful and conveniently located Scottsdale, Arizona. Over seven hours, you'll be held in a safe, attuned space designed to help your body remember what rest and internal safety feels like. Your nervous system holds the story of how you've survived, and this intensive creates space to understand those protective patterns while building new pathways for safety, regulation, and resilience. You'll have seven hours to drop in deeply, work with somatic and emotional patterns, and leave with a clear map for continued healing. The experience in a peaceful setting, creating space for connection and presence before we move into somatic practices that calm the stress response and close anxiety-producing loops. Through gentle breathwork, polyvagal mapping, neuroception training, and body-based awareness, you'll learn where you tend to be on the nervous system ladder and how to retrain your body's unconscious threat detection toward safety through accessible self-regulation tools. We'll work with trapped activation using Somatic Experiencing principles, explore protective parts through Internal Family System (IFS) work, and practice emotional attunement that supports regulation in your daily life. We'll share a delicious lunch at a location of your choice and spend time in nature with sensory grounding and barefoot connection, or choose a restorative practice instead if that feels better for you. This retreat is grounded in polyvagal theory and somatic psychology, offering an evidence-based approach that honors your body's wisdom and pace. You'll receive a personalized nervous system map that helps you understand your unique triggers, patterns, and capacity for rest and homeostasis, along with inner child integration work and somatic support tailored specifically to you. You'll leave with a written integration plan designed specifically for you, offering practices that will continue supporting your regulation long after the retreat ends. This experience is particularly supportive for people navigating stress, burnout, heartbreak, anxiety, or life transitions, and for anyone seeking to rebuild their relationship with rest, safety, and their own body, mind, and spirit. The approach is trauma and polyvagal informed and emphasizes choice, meaning you're invited to participate at your own level and can adjust any practice to honor what feels right for your body. My training: Polyvagal Institute Certification (Dr. Stephen Porges), Somatic Attachment Therapy, Somatic Anxiety Therapy, IFS Intensive Trauma Treatment (Dr. Frank Anderson), Integrative Somatic Trauma Therapy, and training with Dr. Peter Levine and Dr. Bessel van der Kolk. I've been working in this field for 25 years. My own healing journey through severe childhood trauma, disordered eating, dysregulation, and chronic illness taught me that nervous system regulation isn't theoretical, it's the difference between surviving and thriving. Includes: Lunch, nature immersion or guided practice, all teaching and somatic work, personalized nervous system map, detailed integration plan, and post-retreat check-in and integration.

Location

Scottsdale, AZ, United States

Scottsdale, Arizona, is a vibrant desert destination renowned for its breathtaking Sonoran Desert landscapes, year-round sunshine, and exceptional wellness offerings. Nestled beside the McDowell Mountains, Scottsdale combines luxury accommodations, world-class spas, scenic hiking trails, and championship golf courses with a thriving arts and culinary scene. Visitors can explore picturesque desert parks, experience stunning sunsets, discover local galleries and boutiques in Old Town Scottsdale, or simply relax in a peaceful setting surrounded by the natural beauty of the American Southwest. Its tranquil atmosphere and inspiring landscapes make Scottsdale an ideal destination for rest, personal growth, and transformative retreat experiences.

Venue

Hideaway North Scottsdale

4.2 387 Reviews

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Welcome to Hideaway North Scottsdale, where luxury living feels like a true lifestyle destination. Located within the prestigious Scottsdale Fairmont Princess Resort community, you’ll find newly renovated 1, 2, and 3-bedroom apartments for rent in Scottsdale that offer a rare blend of serenity and connection. Enjoy beautifully updated amenity spaces, renovated interiors with high-end finishes, and select apartments with private yards. Surrounded by lush landscaping in a quiet, sought-after North Scottsdale neighborhood, you can walk to The Princess for morning coffee or an evening dinner, enjoy close proximity to TPC Scottsdale Champions Course, and stay effortlessly connected to Paradise Valley, Phoenix, and beyond. With expansive community amenities including a state-of-the-art fitness center, private co-working spaces, and resort-style pools, you experience refined comfort in one of Scottsdale’s most desirable areas.

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A/C in Rooms

Free Wifi

Free Wifi

Fitness Center

Fitness Center

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Pool

Hot Tub

Hot Tub

Coffee / Tea

Coffee / Tea

Free Parking

Free Parking

Fire Pit

Fire Pit

BBQ Grill

BBQ Grill

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Balcony

Meals

Meals provided

Lunch

Diets catered

Vegan · Vegetarian · Kosher · Gluten-free · Dairy-free · Raw · Organic · Nut Allergy Friendly · Diabetic Friendly · Keto Friendly · Paleo Friendly · Halal

Lunch will be provided at a location of the participants' choice in Scottsdale.

Schedule

Full-Day Private Intimate One-on-One Retreat — General Schedule (7 Hours) A comprehensive polyvagal-informed retreat where evidence-based somatic practices, nature immersion, and trauma-informed support guide you toward regulation, flexibility, resilience, and embodied safety. This schedule is not set in stone and we will go with the flow of what you want most and what supports your next steps forward toward the life and experiences you desire. 9:30 AM – 10:30 AM: Arrival, Assessment & Neuroception Exploration We begin with a gentle welcome, grounding practices, and a comprehensive nervous system assessment. This time allows you to arrive fully, settle into the space, and connect with what brought you here. We'll explore how neuroception - your body's unconscious surveillance system - scans for threat and safety, establishing the container for deep work by helping your system recognize this space as safe enough for healing. Together we'll set a body-based intention that honors where you are right now. 10:30 AM – 11:30 AM: Polyvagal Theory & Nervous System Mapping An in-depth exploration of how your unique nervous system organizes around safety, threat, and connection. We'll map your autonomic patterns in real time: where do you spend most of your time on the polyvagal ladder? What are your defensive strategies? How do you recognize dysregulation? This is experiential learning grounded in polyvagal theory and stress physiology and tracking your nervous system states in real time. 11:30 AM – 12:30 PM: Somatic Practices, Gentle Breathwork, and Movement for Self-Regulation Guided somatic awareness, slow breathwork, and gentle movemen designed to support downregulation, increase internal safety, and build capacity, matched to your current state. Practices may include pendulation, titration, orienting, bilateral stimulation, breathwork specific to your nervous system, and gentle movement. All practices are trauma-informed, choice-based, and paced to honor your body's signals and window of tolerance. 12:30 PM – 1:30 PM: Restorative Lunch and Integration Break A nourishing lunch with unstructured time for rest, reflection, and integration. You may choose quiet time, journaling, nature immersion, or gentle conversation, allowing your nervous system to absorb the morning deep work. Healing happens in the time between doing. 1:30 PM – 2:30 PM: Nature-Based Regulation or Personalized Somatic Support Individualized support tailored to your nervous system’s needs. Choose what your body needs in the moment: nature connection with sensory grounding practices, gentle walking with orienting exercises, or personalized somatic support tailored to your nervous system. All options focus on building capacity for safety and regulation, flexibility, and resilience. 2:30 PM – 3:30 PM: Emotional Attunement & Inner Child Integration A deeper emotional session exploring relational patterns, stored emotional responses, and unmet needs held in the body. We'll work with Internal Family Systems to understand protective parts and begin developing Self-energy, the compassionate observer. This session addresses relational patterns, stored emotional responses, and unmet developmental needs held in the body. The approach is boundaried, consent-based, and focused on self-attunement rather than catharsis and supports loving reconnection with younger parts of yourself in a boundaried, consent-based way. 3:30 PM – 4:00 PM: Nervous System Mapping and Integration Planning Together we'll create your detailed polyvagal map, understanding your specific triggers and glimmers, defensive patterns, stress responses, window of tolerance boundaries, and regulation pathways that work for you. You'll leave with a clear, practical integration plan with personalized practices designed for your daily life, not generic wellness advice. 4:00 PM – 4:30 PM: Closing Reflections & Insights We close with guided reflections, meaning-making, and grounding supporting the consolidation of insights through somatic anchoring. We'll deepen the integration through self-appreciation for the courage it takes to do this work, honor your body's capacity to heal, and prepare for the transition back to daily life with realistic and supportive expectations. Post-Retreat Support You'll receive your personalized integration plan along with curated resources before you leave, and a complimentary 15-minute integration session to support your continued practice and integration.

Testimonials

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Our nervous systems are always communicating with one another. Regulating them is essential to experience coherence in the world. It is a special experience to be in Alessandrina’s presence and receive her unique gifts. You can look forward to allowing her to guide you to better well being and more fulfillment. Buddy Biancalana  Founder, Zone Motion 1985 World Series Champion

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Host

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Dexter and Alessandrina

Sedona, AZ 86336, USA

Dexter and Alessandrina are life coaches and somatic nervous system practitioners based in Sedona, Arizona, serving clients worldwide. With decades of combined experience, they support clients in buil...

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English, Français, Español, and Português

Teaching for 7 years

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What's Included

Facilitation Session

Lunch

Optional hike/walk in nature

Complimentary Post-Retreat Integration Session with Alessandrina

Not Included

Lodging

Transportation

Travel insurance

Travel

FAQs

Guest requirements

  • Come just as you are. All of you is welcome here!

Cancellation policy

The remaining balance for the retreat is due 7 days prior to the start date. If this balance is paid earlier than these 7 days, you are eligible to cancel and receive a full refund of this remaining balance, provided you do so at least 7 days before the retreat begins.