Making Your Visualization Normal | LOA Technique

This talk goes over the importance of making your visualization scene seem normal and natural to your subconscious mind. Oftentimes, we mistakenly put our ideal visualization scene on a pedestal by envisioning "peak experiences", which ironically pushes the reality away from us, due to the assumed lack-based thinking. I go over how to make your visualizations (and other Law of Attraction techniques) come true by normalizing your end-reality.

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Hey this is Ish and today I want to talk to you about a visualization tip which is visualizing your end goal as if it were completely normal. So by the way if you want to learn a little bit more about the law of attraction feel free to check out my book titled Understanding the Law of Attraction which is now on Audible and Amazon Kindle as well. So when we think of visualization a lot of people think of a highlight reel version of their ideal reality. So what I mean by this is I'm going to give you two scenarios. So one is a person who wants to become a manager and another example is a person who wants to be married. So in these examples a highlight reel versions of this would be the person wants to be a manager they'll envision or visualize a scene where they're getting high fives and they're getting a promotion and their boss is now promoting them to become a manager. So that's a particular example and that's a very highlighted version of what an actual day to day reality of being a manager would be like. And the second example is a person who wants to become married so they obviously visualize the wedding scene where they're putting rings on exchanging rings and kiss and all that and that's actually a highlighted version of the actual reality of being married. So in both these examples I mean it's better than doing nothing in a sense because you are visualizing an ideal scenario and you're training your mind to focus on a specific reality so get some momentum going. The problem with this type of approach is that it puts your reality on a pedestal. So there's a certain level of neediness that's attached to your reality because you're only looking at the highlights and not the actual day to day existence of having the thing that you want. And going further with this relationship example a lot of people will visualize their dream partner and then they'll actually meet someone who meets all those qualities and they end up pushing them away because of their neediness. They'll have the subconscious vibe of oh my god I visualize meeting you so often and I keep picturing like these ideal scenarios with you and they're just like creeped out. So this is why oftentimes a lot of visualizations don't work because it pushes the thing that you want away because you're attaching this excess importance behind it and rather you want to still imagine those scenes but rather just make it something that's completely natural and don't make it such a thing that you're trying to grasp for if that makes sense. And as you might already know you can only attract what you already have so things naturally come to people who already think that their reality is normal. So it's very normal for you to attract a lot of riches you'll obviously get a lot more and that kind of thing can be applied to anything. So you don't want to make the object of your desire far away but rather make it very normal. So a revision to these visualizations in these two examples are if you want to become a manager actually visualize a day to day of what being a manager would be like. So not the actual promotion where you're just feeling great and just having a big party because that puts it on a pedestal rather what would you be doing and make it normal. So that could involve checking your emails or having a meeting where you're talking to all your employees and giving them different instructions and make it very believable and normal. So this way you'll subconsciously convey that. And then for the marriage example you would envision just going out and shopping with your partner just doing mundane things or maybe just sitting up on the couch cuddling up and watching a movie. That's another example rather than that big wedding scene. And the magic behind this is that you're still actually visualizing your ideal reality because when you're sitting on a couch with your partner that actually assumes that you already have that partner in place because if you have a partner with you right so it makes sense. And if you're visualizing a scene where you're giving instructions and giving orders to your employees in a normal fashion that already assumes or implies that you already are a manager so you don't have to conduct this ideal crazy scenario where you're just up on cloud nine and doing all that although it's very inspirational you want to make your reality as normal as possible and immerse yourself completely in those senses. So what I mean by this is when you're visualizing you'll see your ideal reality through your own eyes and actually see it as if it's happening in front of you right now and use as many senses as you possibly can. So it might be a little bit harder if you're just starting out to visualize and are new to this practice but it builds up over time and visualize that completely normal reality and the more you can do it the more it impresses your subconscious and then what will happen naturally is that your body will just move in the right in the right times or you'll speak in the right moment and you'll naturally align yourself to that ideal reality. But like I mentioned I just want to reiterate this is that you don't want to put your ideal reality on a pedestal where you're just imagining this crazy big scene which is a highlight version of the actual day to day existence. So hope this clarifies and if you have any other questions or any other talks on law of attraction that you'd like to see feel free to send me a message. Thanks.