How I Manifested My Dream Relationship

If you're wanting to manifest your dream relationship, I think you'll enjoy hearing my story! In this talk I share my story and how I personally manifested my dream partner. I talk about what I personally did to make this happen and the specific techniques I used. I talk about all the fun synchronicities I've experienced along the way that never ceases to amaze me.

Transcript

I spent a lot of time writing about how love would feel to me.

About how I'd feel in my dream relationship.

I wrote about how I wanted to feel so in awe of this person.

To feel the beauty and the strength and the softness of this human.

To feel like the most wonderful,

Beautiful man inside and out was seeing me as the most wonderful,

Beautiful human inside and out too.

I wanted to feel blown away by someone and to feel so grateful that they felt the same way about me.

I wanted a love to stand the test of time.

I wanted to build something real with someone.

I wanted to experience the whole gamut of emotion from the highest highs to the lowest lows.

I wanted to have a partner to do life with.

Everything that life entails.

The good stuff and the bad stuff.

And to really feel it all with someone.

To create this sacred partnership and love with another person.

With my best friend.

With someone who just understood.

Who was on my page.

Who had my back and I had theirs.

Someone I could laugh my ass off with.

That we would just crack each other up.

We would be each other's favorite people.

We would choose each other over anyone else.

And the chemistry and attraction we felt for each other would be transcendent.

That there would be this passion and desire and intimacy and vulnerability.

That he would be the most attractive man I'd ever seen.

And we would build a life together.

And we would put in the work every day to stay in love.

And people would look at us and wonder,

How do they do it?

How do two people stay in love like they do?

That's what I wanted.

And I journaled about this whenever I felt called to,

Which was pretty often.

Because it was how I connected with this person until he came into my life.

This human lived in my heart and in my soul.

He was real.

I created him.

I carried him with me always.

And I knew one day I'd meet him in this reality.

And what I realize now is that I already knew him.

Some version of myself already experienced what I was describing.

Because how else could I describe something so specifically and so vividly and with such a passion and desire if I'd never experienced it before?

It was like I was putting out a call,

A signal to my soulmate.

To someone I'd already known in another life.

Recalling an experience of love I'd already had.

And I wanted to experience it again.

I wanted to find him again in this life.

And I did.

He arrived several years after I started writing about him,

Which was a bit over a year now.

A year ago now.

I could feel that when I first started writing about him,

Which was about six years ago,

I wasn't quite ready for this love I was describing.

I still had a lot of growing and experiencing and evolving to do on my own.

And I could feel that as the truth.

As much as I wanted to be with him,

I tried to stay patient with it.

Because I knew I just wasn't quite there yet.

I could feel that intuitively.

And knowing him now,

He can also see how it took him some time to be ready for me as well.

I'm 37 and he's 44.

I had no idea how long it would take,

But I was dedicated to growing myself and staying the course so that I could eventually experience this love I designed.

I just had to keep growing myself into the version of me that was ready for it.

That could really show up for it.

And now that it's here,

It is a little bit harder than I thought it would be.

When we want something,

I think we really tend to focus on how great it's going to be and we forget about the challenges that will come with it.

We forget how the things we want most are actually teachers in disguise,

Encouraging us to keep growing and evolving and healing.

And even though it's harder than I thought,

I'm doing it.

It has been the best teacher and mirror and opportunity for growth I've ever experienced.

And it also feels exactly like what I described in my journals.

It's pretty mind-blowing to read my old entries because what I'm feeling in this relationship is exactly what I described.

And it makes me feel so capable and empowered to manifest whatever I want in this life.

If I can create this,

What else can I create?

And that feels pretty exciting to me.

I've also learned that so much of what we love in life comes down to choice and perspective.

I'm choosing to be in love.

I'm choosing to focus on the good.

I'm choosing to focus on love.

I stay in love because I choose it,

Because that's what I want.

And I've experienced so many synchronicities in this manifesting experience.

That has been so fun to see.

It feels so magical,

From him having the same guitar as the one in the photo of Justin Timberlake that I used in my Mind movie,

From him leaving me love notes just like I asked to experience,

To him calling me and my dog Effie his girls,

Which is what I always imagined he would do.

And I didn't even have to ask him to do that.

He just did it.

It was just a part of him.

To him asking me to learn sign language,

To him already speaking another language,

To him calling me his best friend and lover,

To us growing up listening to the same songs,

To our senses of humor being so aligned.

These are all the things that I wrote down and asked the universe for before I met him.

He didn't know any of this.

These things happening were completely unprompted.

It just unfolded.

And it's so fun to experience.

And this is why I love this version of manifesting.

There are many methods of creation,

But I like this one because I think it's so fun to see the things we write down come to life.

Even the most specific random things that I asked for.

And those are the best ones because they blow me away the most.

He even has a man bun,

Which honestly,

I didn't even realize I was attracted to that.

It wasn't like a conscious thought of mine.

But I realized that in my mind movie,

Which if you're not familiar with a mind movie,

It's a Dr.

Joe Dispenza technique.

It's kind of like a vision board,

But it's creating a slideshow of images that represent what you want and kind of help you drum up the feeling of what you want.

So I realized that I used photos of men with beards and man buns that were very physically fit,

Kind of what I describe as like a muscle yoga body.

So even though I didn't really focus consciously too much on his physical form,

I think my subconscious chose those photos and the universe took the direction quite literally.

So that was really fun to see too.

So keep in mind if you choose photos of what you want to put into a mind movie,

The universe will take what's in the photo very literally.

So just be aware of that.

I believe that whatever we want to experience already exists in the field of possibilities.

And maybe you've experienced in a past life,

Like how I feel like I've experienced this love in a past life,

And that's why I was able to describe it so well.

But maybe you haven't.

Maybe it's a whole new experience that you're creating in this life.

But I believe every version of us,

Every experience,

Every dream,

Every scenario already exists.

We just have to match up to it.

We have to tune into it.

And we do this by using our energy to become the feeling of what we want to experience.

You turn yourself into a magnet for it with your feeling.

You use your energy to become the feeling.

Your whole body,

Your whole being just becomes taken over by a feeling.

You turn yourself into the feeling of what you want to experience.

Think about how you can feel the feelings of fear.

If something is making you feel anxious,

You feel anxiety throughout your whole being.

It's like you're becoming a lightning bolt of your feeling.

So if we can do that so easily when we're afraid or when we're anxious or when we're worried,

You can also do it for a positive feeling as well.

You can turn yourself into feelings of love.

You can turn yourself into feelings of gratitude.

So through this process,

You become a magnet for what you want.

And when there is a match between the feeling you become and the experience that already exists in the field,

The experience will find you.

It is so clear to me that the universe responds to feeling.

Our feeling is the language of the universe.

It's what it understands.

When you want to call something into your life,

Focus on the feeling.

For me,

It was most helpful to write about it.

But maybe for you,

It's something else.

Maybe you see very powerful imagery when you close your eyes and that allows you to feel deeply or maybe seeing pictures of what you want will help you connect to the feeling.

So consider making a mind movie.

I believe we are all so capable of doing this.

We just haven't had a lot of information or education on it.

But it's a natural part of who we are.

We are energetic,

Emotional,

Feeling humans.

We just haven't been taught or shown the way.

This used to be very natural for us way back in the day,

Before all the distractions of TV and media and marketing and all these things that distract us.

This used to be more natural for us.

So we have to tune back into it.

We have to tune back into these parts of ourselves.

And we can do this by meditation,

Reading books about the topic,

Connecting with others on a similar journey.

It's truly amazing what we are capable of as humans.

I've been fascinated by learning about this and how our bodies and energy really work for a really long time,

Since I was a kid.

And I love tapping into my innate power and abilities.

And I get really excited and curious when I think about living in a world where every human knows how to do these things.

What a different world it would be.

Reviews

Such a wonderful string here, thank you so much for being so open, sharing, posting and preserving these "highs and lows" of life and relationships.

I love this meditation! Such a wonderful story. Thank you so much for sharing it. You are Blessed. Namaste 🙏
Jim

Absolutely brilliant! Thank you! I use a lot of mind movies and imagery of how it will be with this new life partner. I think I’ve met him because he looked so familiar - working through it, very early days but I’ve had a huge shift, on all levels, that I’ve never experienced in my 68 years. I feel amazing.
Thank you for confirming what I am already doing and hopefully, already the manifestation is becoming real. 😌🙏🏼🩷