I'm okay with being the villain in someone's story,
If I'm staying authentic and loving to myself.
I'm okay with being a catalyst for someone's growth,
But it is up to them to evolve or remain.
I'm okay with not being liked by everyone,
Because I came here to be myself unapologetically and I know it won't be everyone's cup of tea.
We can't change the way someone perceives us,
Only they can do that.
All we can do is act in alignment with our own heart and truth and hope that others will do the same.
Hope that one day they can turn their judgements and projections into curiosity about their inner world so that they can lovingly tend to the parts of themselves that need it.
But during this time together,
I want to make sure that you feel nourished,
Loved and empowered because sometimes we can feel this heaviness or guilt within us when we are villainised by another.
So it's important that we stay true to our hearts and care for our own wellbeing first and foremost.
Because as humans,
We have empathy,
We care about others,
We don't want them to be in pain and we also don't enjoy feeling misunderstood either.
And we can feel misunderstood when people do not seem to be able to see from our point of view or even be willing to listen to our perspective.
So let's take some time here to sit,
Breathe and be present with any discomfort we may feel right now.
Allowing it to be.
Acknowledging this message that our body is sending us of not feeling perhaps safe,
Understood or like we must fix the other person.
Remind yourself to draw your energy and focus back to you.
Away from any drama and back to you.
You feel so deeply and you care but please don't let it bring you down.
If someone or something is not in alignment with you,
That's okay,
Don't force it.
Do not betray yourself to keep someone happy or to keep the peace.
Stay true to you,
To your inner knowing and to where you are being called.
Not everyone lives intuitively,
Not everyone stops to check in with their heart and have discernment.
Some people live more logically,
Believing things must be a certain way and also believe that they are victims in every situation.
So let any pressure or need for resolution go.
Breathe and allow the breath to be slow and deep.
Visualizing it move through your heart center.
Offering you so much compassion and love.
Offering you the support and wisdom that you need right now.
What a brave and beautiful thing it is to know what feels right for you.
And being able to honor that,
Despite the disappointment or hate you might receive back from others.
Feel the love blossoming within your heart now.
Let your self love and empowerment grow.
Feel any tension or heaviness leave your body as you release what no longer serves.
This is true strength.
Staying authentic to you.
Honoring your heart.
Trusting your discernment.
It might feel much easier and more comfortable to betray yourself to keep the peace or to pretend everything is fine or to take the blame.
Know in your self worth and the courage and bravery it takes to live with an open heart and mind.
Staying grounded in your authenticity.
Feel your heart's power radiating from within you.
Feel the love and empowerment moving throughout your whole body now.
Sending this beautiful energy to all parts of your body,
Mind and spirit.
Feel the peace and alignment within.
And radiate this out into your environment and into the world.
Feel this love.
Be this love.
You are a unique spark of love.
It is up to you now to go forward in your day.
Holding on to this light.
Beaming this light.
Staying centered in who you are.
Regardless what others think,
Say,
Do.
Stay true to you.
Another can believe that you are a villain in their story and that's okay.
It really has nothing to do with you.
It's all to do with them and their perception,
Which is something that you cannot control.
So keep shining your light.
Being just who you are.
Unapologetically.
Much love.
