How Are You Feeling In Your Relationship

How are you feeling in your love relationship? I am sharing a few things you could miss in your relationship today. Do you trust your partner completely to convey everything within your heart about your connection? It is time to maximize the significance of your love life.

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This week,

I want to bring you an opportunity to reflect,

But not about karma or how many places of existence are.

After working with hundreds,

If not thousands of couples learning in different ways,

I have realized several things,

Specific things that are constantly overlooked.

And let me ask you a question if you have a partner,

How do you feel in your love relationship?

The purpose of this talk is not to question whether the person next to you is the right one or not,

But to question that everything you are lacking in the relationship and how to bring it back.

And when I say you,

I mean both parties of the couple.

So I want to get started by sharing that there are three main foundations in our relationship,

Communication,

Love and sex.

If one of these pillars fails,

The relationship will suffer.

And even the relationship could be in danger if its failures are very severe.

However,

It is essential to understand that everything can be delved deeper.

For example,

Although the law of attraction,

We increase our understanding of this mechanic,

We can also understand the principles of the universe.

And I want to aim towards these three pillars.

So first I could check up for your relationship.

We live in a society that demands a lot from us and demands more and more from us.

This is something that I have mentioned in other talks and I have always connected with the development of spirituality.

However,

This is true for anything in life and this week we will focus on your relationship.

And I want to focus primarily on stable couples.

Those who have been living together for years have been loyal and have faced many challenges in life together.

And I want to say that it is very important that these couples in principle are the most stable and desirable moment in our relationship.

A connection can potentially keep this couple together for the rest of their lives.

However,

This doesn't mean that you have to sit idly in the comfort of living together.

During a stable relationship,

Stability must continue to exist altogether.

We have already a good part of the day and possibly we spent a very good coexistence,

But this is not everything.

Although love and affection exists,

Perhaps there are other aspects in our relationship lost,

But for more things besides monotony.

So you can change many things between the both of you,

But you can communicate and have to communicate and you have to cope and cooperate.

And I am not referring to any of these three pillars in specific,

But two small things that are perhaps overlooked even by the personal self and left with withered real wishes in the heart and broken desires.

The correct way to start bringing those small significant changes to your relationship is for both people to look together for what they need and want to share.

So to begin with,

It is essential to know yourself or at least to know what needs you might have.

And when there is an understanding of the needs that one has,

You have to start working with a couple so that both of you can present your needs.

It is possible that either of you or the both of you may have easy to grant the desires,

But maybe you are not granting these desires because of the lack of communication and trust.

And perhaps this is the first step to take when you are willing to take your relationship to the next level.

It is time to open your heart to your partner entirely and for your partner to open their heart in the same way.

A little boy asks anaclaus for anything without fear or consideration.

In principle,

The other person in your relationship should be the one that you trust the most,

But sadly this is not true in most cases and this is a necessary thing that the couple should work on.

Are you able to explain to your partner everything you would like to have in the relationship?

Is your partner capable of explaining to you everything they want and need?

In a relationship you are supposed to express all of your desires safely.

So you must reflect on the last two questions because you probably won't answer yes to both of them.

And if you think about it coldly,

A couple is supposed to support each other and to tell each other everything they need.

So a talk like this doesn't solve a complex issue but will determine if you are starting to work on it or not.

Your partner may often be unaware of your needs and I am sure that you are the same thing and it happens the other way around.

On this it is all because there is no clear communication in the couples.

Some couples have more taboos than others and these are never good,

Especially if they touch on any of the main pillars in the relationship.

But as I said in the beginning,

Other taboos can be different aspects of life,

Perhaps problems or differences than the couple has.

As there are these taboos,

There are things that the couple avoids talking about so not to argue.

It is very typical in a stable couple with love to each other and not wanting problems.

And generally you will find the need to repress these desires and so will your partner.

But that's not a good thing.

We need to talk about our relationship and perhaps listening to these words has given you some chills.

Indeed,

At some point in your life you have heard of these words and in another you have said them possibly.

Usually nothing good follows these words.

Among other things,

Especially in a stable couple,

These words come when it is too late or when things are too late that could have been avoided.

The time for we need to talk about our relationship is when everything is going well,

Or decently well at least.

And this is so because we are different people and it is straightforward to take dozens of things for granted in a connection that they shouldn't.

So I want to invite you to do something,

Something difficult but necessary.

You have to meet your partner for a snack dinner where no one will bother you for a couple or three hours.

You have to say yes this to your partner in a joyous moment when you're relaxed,

Watching TV for example.

Never recommend this,

Do an argument,

Never.

So you have to meet your partner for a snack or dinner where no one will bother you for a couple or three hours.

You have to say yes this again in a very significant moment,

Okay?

And it is essential to present to your partner the goal of this date to prepare it well.

Share a moment without discomfort to bring your desires for the relationship to the table.

What do you most want from the relationship?

It is a moment of love,

No discussion,

So you can make it an extraordinary moment.

This date will bring you the opportunity to explain how do you feel openly and even to talk about your taboos without any reprisals.

This date is likely like a sanctuary where there is no arguing,

Pointing or speaking accusatory and perhaps this can be not the most easy thing.

So it must be corrected immediately if it happens,

If there is an argument or a pointing or a saying that it shouldn't be.

So make sure this leads to a transformation,

Not to more frustration.

Here you can talk about your day-to-day desires if you would like them.

Be in a day-to-day bed or something sporadic.

It is essential to be honest with yourself at all times and to understand that the person who is by your side is the one who will listen and understand you the most.

Of course you must have the same attitude.

So it's time to upgrade.

It is essential to take advantage of these moments to bring everything you need into the relationship.

You have to share all of your emotional,

Sexual or earthly desires.

It does not matter but if you notice that you are missing something in the relationship or all of its aspects,

It is essential to bring it up.

There will be some things that may not be possible but you will find the most optimal way for the both of you to be happy.

Many others will be since many of these shortcomings come from the inability to talk about it or in many cases unfortunately leading to further discussion and disliking issues.

So although it shouldn't be challenging to take this step and complete it successfully,

In most cases it will be.

Even in the past these couples.

Some issues are more sensitive than others but again I repeat,

In a relationship it is vital to have complete trust in the other person when sharing these things.

So I hope this has helped.

I wish you a great day.

Namaste.