Tonya Phillips

1.1k Followers

Hi, I’m Tonya Phillips — a certified meditation guide, midlife model, and style coach. I’m also the creator of Not So Darlin’, a space where I help women in midlife clear the clutter — in their minds, their closets, and their lives. My own healing journey includes recovery from anorexia, body dysmorphia, and years of disconnection. Now, I teach women to reconnect with themselves through breath, body awareness, and personal style — in a way that feels real, grounded, and doable. I believe in embracing both the darlin’ and the not so darlin’ parts of ourselves — because peace isn’t about being perfect, it’s about being present. I’m a proud boy mom (my only just started college!) and a new empty nester figuring it out with my husband here in Kentucky — one imperfect, beautiful day at a time.

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Reviews

Joseph Mario

Feb 17, 2026

Beautiful and uplifting and helps me focus on the light within me

Nicole "Nikki" Ocean

Feb 17, 2026

Powerful, Brave and oh so wise! Thank you for making this Tonya 🦋✨

Jessi Lewis

Feb 14, 2026

This is an absolutely stunning morning meditation. I loved it so much.!

Iris V Fernandez

Feb 14, 2026

This is a perfect morning prayer to begin my day! Thank you.

Michelle

Feb 11, 2026

Thank You Tonya.. I felt light as a feather lifting me up into the breeze - it was deeply nourishing 🪶🪶🪶

Lisa Trichel-Beavers

Feb 10, 2026

Amazing! Tanya, I could feel the Earths subtle movement- love that connection with a greater power. (Thank you for incorporating the thoughts of various higher beings-appreciate inclusiveness)🙏❤️

Michelle

Feb 9, 2026

Your guidance throughout the meditation was beautiful in every way.. thank you Tonya ✨✨🙏🏼

Kat

Feb 9, 2026

Thank you for this beautiful and grounding start to the week!🌞🌺💚

Kat

Feb 8, 2026

Thank you for this beautiful meditation, this is definitely one of my new favourites and I will be coming back to it when I need a moment of stillness and intention.🌞🌺💚

Thierry

Feb 6, 2026

Thanks 🙏🏼 for the beautiful and soft gentle awakening…. I wish you a lovely day 🥰😘🌅🌅🌅🌅🌅

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