Tonya Phillips

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Hi, I’m Tonya Phillips — a certified meditation guide, midlife model, and style coach. I’m also the creator of Not So Darlin’, a space where I help women in midlife clear the clutter — in their minds, their closets, and their lives. My own healing journey includes recovery from anorexia, body dysmorphia, and years of disconnection. Now, I teach women to reconnect with themselves through breath, body awareness, and personal style — in a way that feels real, grounded, and doable. I believe in embracing both the darlin’ and the not so darlin’ parts of ourselves — because peace isn’t about being perfect, it’s about being present. I’m a proud boy mom (my only just started college!) and a new empty nester figuring it out with my husband here in Kentucky — one imperfect, beautiful day at a time.

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Reviews

John N.

Jun 9, 2026

Very good start.

Carol Adams

Jun 7, 2026

I loved this. What a gift to listen and learn. In rushing to get ahead and stay in schedule in this chaotic overly scheduled life, we lose so much. Thank you. ♥️

Barb

Jun 6, 2026

I liked when you quoted that the inner voice whispers; that it doesn’t shout. Thank you very much. Was so helpful to hear that.

Mary

Jun 6, 2026

Thank you dear heart ❤️ I love your gentle voice on this new day.

Beck

Jun 4, 2026

This is a beautiful, gentle, and supportive way to wake up and start your day. Wonderful for coaches and clients! Thank you!

Roberto Emery

Jun 4, 2026

Thank you for your sweet guidance and gentle voice. May we all have peace and gratitude throughout our days. Namaste 🙏🏽

Denise

Jun 3, 2026

Just beautiful, Tonya. Like a warm blanket surrounding me. 🩷

Sarah Baca

Jun 1, 2026

Exactly what I needed this heavy Monday. Thank you so much!

Clive Walters

May 31, 2026

Thank you Tonya, that was an excellent start to my day. Namaste 🙏🏾☀️

Michele Hall

May 30, 2026

Thank you Tonya! This is the first meditation I’ve listened to from you and I really enjoyed it! As an LMFT here in Laguna beach…I’m going to share this one with a few clients who suffer from anxiety. Have a wonderful day! Namaste! 🙏🏻 🦋🦋

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