This is a three-day course for people who find stillness difficult, suspicious, or both. Each session is around ten minutes and works with a different flavour of restlessness that most of us spend our lives quietly avoiding. You won't be asked to clear your mind, achieve a state, or feel anything in particular. You'll just be asked to stay. On Day 1, we begin by looking at mental restlessness. The background noise, the thought loops, the ticker tape of things you should be doing instead of this. Rather than trying to quiet it, you'll get genuinely curious about what it's actually made of. Day 2 is one that lives in the physical body. The tension you didn't know you were holding, the energy that has nowhere to go. You'll work with physical sensation directly, tracking where restlessness lives and what happens when you actually pay attention to it instead of willing it away. On day 3, we look at the low-grade, unnamed feeling that something is off, the one that doesn't have a clear cause or an easy fix. You'll practice sitting near it without solving it, which turns out to be harder and more useful than it sounds. No meditation experience required. No particular beliefs needed. Just ten minutes and a willingness to be a little uncomfortable on purpose.
Bianca Lorage is a wellness practitioner, massage therapist, and meditation teacher based on Hornby Island, British Columbia. With a background in craniosacral therapy, yoga instruction, somatic bodywork, and wilderness guiding, she has spent years working with people navigating exhaustion, stress, and the particular kind of depletion that comes from living at full speed.
Bianca has developed and led wellness programming in remote and residential settings, working closely with individuals who are new to contemplative practice and skeptical of anything that feels too polished or prescriptive. Her approach is grounded, direct, and shaped by a deep familiarity with the body and what it needs to actually rest.
The Uncomfortable Pause draws on everything she has learned about what gets in the way of stillness, and what happens when you stop trying to fix it....
Lição 1
The Itch
We start with mental restlessness. The background noise, the thought loops, the ticker tape of things you should be doing instead of this. Rather than trying to quiet it, you'll get genuinely curious about what it's actually made of.
Lição 2
The Fidget
This one lives in the body. The tension you didn't know you were holding, the energy that has nowhere to go. You'll work with physical sensation directly, tracking where restlessness lives and what happens when you actually pay attention to it instead of willing it away.
Lição 3
The Ache
The last session goes a little deeper. That low grade unnamed feeling that something is off, the one that doesn't have a clear cause or an easy fix. You'll practice sitting near it without solving it, which turns out to be harder and more useful than it sounds.