Lição 1
Is There A Right Moment To Forgive?
Is there such as thing as the right moment to forgive? Before you begin to forgive, do you feel the need for restitution? Should you wait for them to recognize and acknowledge what they have done wrong? In this session, you will understand when to begin the forgiveness process. You will be guided through a powerful hands-on exercise to start experiencing the freedom of forgiveness.
Lição 2
Articulate What Is Not Okay
In this session, as you are processing forgiveness, you will be guided to help articulate what is not okay about how you were treated. You will learn that the key is clarity and keeping your focus on your feelings and needs. You will learn the importance of setting healthy boundaries. You will also learn how to communicate these boundaries.
Lição 3
Forgiveness Is For You
In this lesson, you will learn the psychological, energetic, and spiritual benefits of forgiveness. Through a powerful true life story, you will hear how even the most traumatic situation can be traversed toward positivity and light. You will experience an ancient forgiveness traditional practice that has helped generations of people deal with hurt and suffering.
Lição 4
Forgiveness Does Not Mean Reconciling
Is forgiveness the same as reconciliation? Does forgiving someone mean allowing them to play the same role in your life as before? What does the other need to do so forgiveness can be effective? What are the implications of forgiveness as opposed to reconciliation? You will learn the answers to all these questions in this lesson.
Lição 5
Get The Right Perspective
Do you have the right perspective on what is causing the hurt that you are feeling? Is the primary source of distress that event which happened in the past or something else? And, how can you stop that tape from playing over and over again in your head? Learn a 5-step process on how to stop beating yourself up for old mistakes and thwart the cycle of rumination.
Lição 6
Developing A Coping Practice
At the moment you feel upset, it helps to practice stress management to soothe your body’s fight or flight response. It is important to have identified coping practices that are most effective for you and have them available when you need them most. In this session, you will learn about my five go-to practices for coping with stress that comes from the past events of hurt.
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Lição 7
Expect From The Self, Not Others
Are you waiting for someone to give you what you need in order to forgive and move on? Do you realize what those expectations can result in? Through a classic Indian folktale, you will learn the best way to find the help that you are seeking. You will experience a powerful guided meditation practice that support you in forgiving and healing at many levels.
Lição 8
Put Your Energy Into Positive Goals
What is a 'problem'? How do you find the real cause of it? Who is to blame? And, can there be any silver linings for the 'problem'? In this session, you will find answers to these questions. You will also learn how healing can be effective when you put your energy into looking for another way to get your positive goals met than through the experience that has hurt you.
Lição 9
A Life Well-lived Is Your Best Revenge
In this session, you will learn that instead of focusing on your wounded feelings - and thereby giving power over you to the person who caused you pain - when you look at what's truly valuable around you, you will embark on a great, new beginning. You will learn to put more energy into appreciating what you have rather than attending to what you do not have. Through poignant poetry, you will know the importance of living a life that matters.
Lição 10
Your Heroic Choice to Forgive
Is forgiveness an act of courage or weakness? What does the ego want and how does it interfere with the process? Find out the answers to these questions in this lesson, including three reasons why it makes perfect sense that only strong individuals are able to forgive. The final practice will help you bring closure to process of attaining freedom from forgiving and moving on.