We naturally attach to our creation because we put so much energy and so much power and so much life force and time from our lives in it.
So of course we attach to a certain degree.
It is normal.
And that attachment can also be a healthy attachment if we know how to manage it,
If you know how to cope with it and deal with it,
And if it doesn't shape our perspective about who we are.
Because if it does,
If the attachment goes so deep that it tells us who we are and we are identifying with that creation as who we are,
Then we are kind of starting a co-dependency relationship with our own creation.
You know what I mean?
That's a little bit prone to suffering.
And most people suffer in their creation process because of this.
Right?
Most artists,
Most creators are having this Mark Tear Syndrome or attachment.
Oh my God,
My creation,
My creation.
Amazing!
You did great!
Celebrate yourself.
Show up for yourself.
Feel that self-worth.
You accomplished something.
It doesn't matter how the people see it.
You feel that you want to do that and you did.
Amazing!
Celebrate yourself.
Honor yourself.
Love yourself for it.
And bam!
Move on.
Move on into what?
Into maybe another creation,
Into fine-tuning your creation.
But we will go to that later.
Okay,
So the second influence of this integrate and detach phase and principle is be nobody,
Become everything.
Right?
This is what my book is all about.
It's be nobody,
Become everything.
Because when you are nobody,
Then you can be everything.
Therefore,
When you manage to sit with yourself in silence and accept the fact that you are nobody,
As in like you're not identifying with things,
You're not identifying to your image,
To your perception,
To your stories,
You are nobody,
You accept that nothingness within yourself,
Then you can be everything effortlessly with no attachment.
So,
You can be a writer,
You can be a singer.
However,
This is why I have six projects at the moment that I'm carrying and creating and I'm involved with that are very different and I can do it because I'm not attached to any of them.
I can just hold them and energize each one of them as they need to be energized and I'm involved in it as I feel to.
Right?
So,
At this moment I'm finishing this course,
I'm about to publish my book,
I'm just fine-tuning my stuff around my book.
Right?
So,
That's done.
Then I'm starting my music,
I don't say career,
I'm saying passion.
I'm starting to produce music,
I'm also an ecstatic dance DJ,
So I'm making a lot of events around ecstatic dance for years now,
So I'm doing that as well.
I'm also having a community called Create A Community where I'm coaching and guiding and activating people to be in their power.
I also have private mentoring and coaching.
I also have another community only with men,
Exclusively with men,
Only men from Romania,
From where my roots are coming from.
Right?
So,
Yeah,
And I'm also supporting my partner's projects.
So I am having these projects around me and more to come,
More opportunities,
More projects are coming.
These are just the ones I'm currently involved in,
But there's so much coming in my field and I managed to hold this all together because I'm not attached.
As simple as that.
Okay?
I understand I'm a creator,
So I create.
Period.
