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The Butterfly Hug: Soothe Stress & Anxiety

by Samantha Linden, DBA, M.ED.

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The Butterfly Hug is a simple yet powerful mindfulness technique designed to promote relaxation, emotional regulation, and grounding. By crossing your arms over your chest and gently tapping your upper arms in a rhythmic motion, you activate bilateral stimulation, which helps calm the nervous system and reduce stress, anxiety, and overwhelming emotions. This practice encourages presence, deep breathing, and self-compassion, making it a valuable tool for daily mindfulness or moments of emotional distress. Music from Munari at Uppbeat Image by Arina Krasnikova on Pexels

Transcript

Hi friends,

This is Samantha,

The Blissful Soul.

In our busy and stressful lives,

It's crucial to have accessible and effective tools to manage our emotions and find moments of calm.

One such tool is the Butterfly Hug,

A mindfulness technique that can help us soothe ourselves and relieve stress,

Anxiety,

And overwhelming emotions.

In this practice,

I will guide you through the Butterfly Hug.

This is a mindfulness tool you can incorporate it into your daily routine.

The Butterfly Hug is a simple yet powerful technique that involves gentle tapping and bilateral stimulation to create a calming effect on the mind and body.

It is commonly used as a self-soothing method in situations where we feel overwhelmed,

Anxious,

Or distressed.

So let's go ahead and get started.

To practice the technique,

You will cross your arms over your chest and gently tap your hands on your upper arms alternately,

Creating a rhythmic and repetitive motion.

I will talk you through each step.

So begin by finding a comfortable position.

You can do this either sitting or standing,

But place your feet flat on the ground.

As you do this,

Take a moment to relax and bring your awareness to your body and breath.

Just breathe for a few moments,

Sitting or standing comfortably,

Feeling your feet grounded.

Now cross your arms.

Place your right hand on your left upper arm,

Your left hand on your right upper arm.

Your hands should lightly touch your arms,

Allowing for a comfortable and relaxed posture.

After you have crossed your arms in this position,

You will begin tapping.

You will gently tap your hands on your upper arms,

Starting with your right hand tapping your left arm,

And then your left hand tapping your right arm.

Maintain a gentle and rhythmic tapping motion.

Continue to do this as you breathe and focus.

As you tap,

Bring your attention to your breath.

Take slow,

Deep breaths,

Inhaling through your nose and exhaling through your mouth.

Allow yourself to focus on the sensation of the tapping and the rhythm of your breath.

Continue to do this for a few deep breaths.

As you continue tapping,

Bring your awareness to any sensations,

Thoughts,

Or motions that arise.

Notice any areas of tension or discomfort in your body and allow them to soften and release with each tap.

You will continue the butterfly hug for a few minutes,

Allowing yourself to fully immerse in the experience.

You can adjust the speed and intensity of the tapping to whatever feels right to you.

Allow the technique to work for you.

As you do this,

The butterfly hug can assist in emotional regulation by involving both sides of the body in a rhythmic motion.

This can help balance emotions,

Especially in times of intense feelings like anxiety,

Sadness,

Or anger.

It can also help reduce stress and promote a sense of calm by activating the body's relaxation response.

The gentle tapping and bilateral stimulation can regulate the nervous system and induce relaxation for you.

This repetitive motion of the butterfly hug can ground us in the present moment and reconnect us with our bodies.

It serves as a useful tool for grounding and centering ourselves when we feel disconnected or scattered.

It's important to be patient with yourself as you try out this practice and have faith in its ability to help improve your well-being.

It can be used every day for grounding for a few minutes or during times of stress.

If you feel it's good enough for today and you have gone long enough,

Feel free to finish this mindfulness technique or go a little longer on your own.

Let me know how this technique worked for you.

Take care,

My friend,

And I will see you again soon.

Meet your Teacher

Samantha Linden, DBA, M.ED.Boston, MA, USA

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Recent Reviews

Lindsey

June 20, 2025

I’ve never done this technique. I thoroughly enjoyed it and will be adding it to my toolbox :) Thank you!

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