Tonya Phillips

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Hi, I’m Tonya Phillips — a certified meditation guide, midlife model, and style coach. I’m also the creator of Not So Darlin’, a space where I help women in midlife clear the clutter — in their minds, their closets, and their lives. My own healing journey includes recovery from anorexia, body dysmorphia, and years of disconnection. Now, I teach women to reconnect with themselves through breath, body awareness, and personal style — in a way that feels real, grounded, and doable. I believe in embracing both the darlin’ and the not so darlin’ parts of ourselves — because peace isn’t about being perfect, it’s about being present. I’m a proud boy mom (my only just started college!) and a new empty nester figuring it out with my husband here in Kentucky — one imperfect, beautiful day at a time.

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Reviews

Jane

May 9, 2026

Beautiful gentle prayer. Thank you just what was needed 🙏🏻❤️

Raymond Sun

May 7, 2026

Strong meditation! Great preparation for the day. Thanks!

Stephanie E

May 5, 2026

Trusting timing is challenging - but this meditation reminded me of something that was always true inside of me: it all belongs, it’s all beautiful, it’s all uniquely mine.

Darryl Bishop

May 3, 2026

Thank you for sharing such a wonderful prayer. Namaste.

Alexis

Apr 29, 2026

Perfect when I don’t have a lot of time to meditate in the morning this meditation is perfect! Feeling more relaxed and grounded! Thanks Tonya! 🫶🏼💜

Celia

Apr 28, 2026

Such a soft, gentle, easy guided start for the day. Thank you, Darlin 💗

Jeff

Apr 27, 2026

Thank you for this meditation. It hit home with me today straight to my heart. Nice voice and a nice delivery.

Juliet dSB

Apr 26, 2026

That was indeed cleansing. U helped me to visualize my loved ones; the ones here & the ones who've crossed over. Lightens my spirit. Thank you. Namasté 🍃

Jo

Apr 23, 2026

I love this prayer . I have listened to it the past few morning. It has reminded me of my spiritual side. Thank you.

Mike Hawkins

Apr 21, 2026

Thank you 🙏 for a peaceful start to my morning gratitude for this wonderful new day

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