How Do I Get Codependent In Relationships

Here I describe how and why we can become codependent in relationships, through a practical example, and how important it is to be conscious about what we allow to enter our lives. Even if we lose ourselves in fear, we can always get our power back.

Reviews

This was very accurate to my situation. I wish there was a little bit more time spent on the solution.

A brief but insightful talk on co-dependency traits. I recognise all what was said and am a work as always in progress. Thank you for sharing. 😄❤️🙏🏻

This was very educational and beneficial. For many years I was ignorantly being codependent.
Then about a year ago I wondered why am continually doing things for her when she was perfectly capable of doing these things for herself. When I mentioned this I was met with denial and anger and how unjustified my thoughts and feelings were. There was no romance in our relationship anymore and arguments became frequent because I stopped being codependent. So I moved away just to be away from that environment. We are on friendly terms occasionally and sometimes do things together. Sometimes even that becomes a tragedy. Not certain what can be done to repair this relationship. Though it feels wonderful to not feel like a servant tethered to a post with a two foot leash.
My intuition tells me to just sever all contact with this relationship so I can be who I really am. So I search for a graceful means of doing this without causing sadness or anger. I’m sorry for such a long review. I don’t think of you as a marriage counselor for answers.
There is no need for you to reply to my share here.
Thank you so much Sangeet
Your topics are always wonderful. Blessings and many beautiful hearts to you.