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Cultivating Equanimity (Upekkha)

by Larissa Hall Carlson

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Equanimity (Upekkha) is balance of mind, radiant calm, and evenness of mood. Equanimity is the ability to remain calm and centered, no matter how chaotic life gets. It’s an inner steadiness which can be cultivated through mindfulness practice.

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Transcript

Hello,

This is Larissa Hall Carlson with an equanimity meditation,

Upeka.

Equanimity is balance of mind.

It's radiant calm and evenness of mood.

Equanimity is the ability to remain calm and centered no matter how chaotic life gets.

It's an inner steadiness,

Much needed in present times.

Equanimity meditation can help cultivate courage to face life's constant change and adversity.

When times are getting tough,

I like to practice this technique both morning and evening as a way of bookending my days with steadiness.

It can be very helpful for establishing composure,

Balance,

And equilibrium.

Let's begin.

Establish a comfortable,

Steady seat with a nice long spine.

Rest the hands on the lap and if you like,

Close your eyes.

Take a few slow,

Relaxing breaths to bring you into the present moment.

To set your intention,

Consider your experience with equanimity,

What tends to throw you off.

How might you benefit from cultivating balance of mind and sustain calm?

Bring into the mind's eye the image of a neutral person,

The image of an acquaintance,

Someone you see regularly but don't know very well,

Someone for whom you have no strong emotions one way or the other.

I'll say a line of upaka and you repeat that line either silently or aloud,

Keeping that image of the acquaintance clear in the mind.

May you have calm presence during life's immense changes.

May you navigate life's extremes with balance of mind.

Take in a few deep breaths,

Directing those well-wishes to the mind.

May you navigate life's extremes with balance of mind.

Then allow that image to gently dissolve.

And now invite into the mind's eye the image of a friend or a loved one,

A friend or a loved one who is experiencing doubt or scatteredness of mind or confusion.

Let the image of this friend or loved one grow clear in the mind's eye as we send harmonizing words.

May you have calm presence during life's immense changes.

May you navigate life's extremes with balance of mind.

May you have calm presence during life's immense changes.

May you navigate life's extremes with balance of mind.

And as the breath deepens,

Allow those kind words to flow outward.

And let that image gently melt away.

And finally bring into the mind's eye the image of yourself.

Either the image of yourself in this present moment or from any moment in your life when you've been pulled by extremes,

Worn down or frazzled,

Tossed from your center.

Choose one moment,

Choose one image of self.

Let that image grow clear in the mind as we repeat.

May I have calm presence during life's immense changes.

May I navigate life's extremes with balance of mind.

May I have calm presence during life's immense changes.

May I navigate life's extremes with balance of mind.

And as the breath deepens,

Soak up those harmonizing words.

Bask in those well wishes.

Allow that image of self to gradually disappear.

Scan the whole body-mind,

Noticing the imprint of this equanimity practice.

In the afterglow of upekha.

Draw in a nice big breath,

Let that out with an easy sigh.

And gradually allow the eyes to flutter open.

In you evenness,

Balance and radiant calm.

Meet your Teacher

Larissa Hall CarlsonVermont, USA

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Recent Reviews

Babi

June 22, 2025

Beautiful and soothing. Thank you once again! 💚🙏✨️

Cheryl

March 18, 2025

I liked this meditation very much. I hope it works

Anita

July 18, 2023

I loved this. Very quieting and calming. Steadied my mind for the start of my day. Thank you.

Kim

June 21, 2023

I can't wait to use this meditation more often. It was a great grounding tool. Thank you.

Antonina

June 7, 2023

Wow. One of my favorite guided meditations I’ve enjoyed on here

Aisha

May 10, 2023

This was exactly what I needed today as I go through a health crisis with my mum. Thanks so much…🥰🙏

Lynn

March 19, 2023

Just what I needed to hear this morning, thank you.

Julie

March 3, 2023

This is an excellent meditation on cultivating equanimity and is an antidote for facing life’s changes with calm presence. Thank you. 💓

JY

August 25, 2022

A perfect reminder for may day ahead and how I want to show up in it. Very grateful. Namaste

Evelyn

March 2, 2022

This meditation would certainly be helpful to use in the morning and in the evening. Namaste. 🌺🌸

Lex

December 4, 2021

That was lovely. Exactly what I needed and in an efficient amount of time. Thank you 💖✨🙏🏽

Beth

October 10, 2021

Great way to start or end the day. Within just the first few mins, I felt calm, balanced & centered. Thank you!

Lisa

June 21, 2021

So peaceful and settling just what I needed to hear thank you Larissa 🙏💗

Sasha

June 3, 2021

That was Effective. Loved your choice of words. Great timing w/ pauses too. 👏🏻 Gratitude and Namaste ⚓️⚖️🕉

Jennifer

May 13, 2021

A short, sweet and effective meditation on equanimity. I will return to this one often. Thank you and namaste 🌛💜🌜

Edwin

April 22, 2021

Wonderful spiritual reinforcement. Thank you...🙏🏽

Lee

April 8, 2021

So lovely. Exactly what I needed today. Many thanks as always Larissa and many Blessings 🌻🐛🦋

Linda

April 7, 2021

Just what I needed this morning. Deepest gratitude for this beautiful practice.

Eric

April 7, 2021

I enjoyed this practice, thank you 🙏🏻 In addition to riding out chaotic conditions, equanimity means we avoid attachment to outcomes and instead accept and embrace whatever is. No anxiety about the future or ruminating about the past. Faith in the universe

MJ

April 7, 2021

Outstanding !!!! Thank you 🙏

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