I am a multi-passionate healer,
Priestess,
And seer and I guide you change makers,
Lightworkers who are trying to force your life to work.
You're hiding your gifts,
You're hiding your power,
You're hiding your authentic expression.
I help you learn to love yourself and transmute your shadows,
Your pain,
Connect to the divine within you,
Your intuition,
And learn to live in harmony with natural forces so that you can anchor in spirit,
You can anchor in flow,
You can anchor in truth,
And you can anchor in power to fulfill your soul purpose.
So if that sounds like you,
I'm glad that you found your way here.
Welcome,
Welcome,
Welcome.
So today,
Just pulling up my notes,
Today what we're going to talk about here is how do we find the solution?
There's an epidemic right now,
There's an epidemic with people altering the way that they look to feel better about themselves.
Now,
I don't have a problem with that,
But I'm going to go deeper with what I do have a problem with,
Okay?
And if this is you,
I'm going to try to catch you before you go into this,
Okay?
Or wake that part of you up that's like,
Oh,
I didn't realize there was another way.
So the epidemic I'm speaking of is the alteration of our body and of our face from a place of fear to get the attention and approval from others.
What's the solution?
I'm going to share that with you up front,
And then I'm going to go into it so that we can anchor this into our bodies.
The solution is making decisions about our appearance from a place of love.
I can't remember his exact quote,
But I was just watching the show on Netflix,
Queer Eye,
And Jonathan,
Who's incredible,
Teaches a lot about self-care and looks.
He was saying on this episode something along the lines of,
We put makeup on or we do things to our body and our face for ourselves,
For our own artistry,
For our own joy.
I did this really cool eye shadow and lipstick today,
And I'm wearing these two necklaces and this t-shirt because it tickled me,
And everything's energy.
Anybody who is in that frequency,
Who is experiencing some sort of feeling tickled in my presence or,
Oh,
Look,
She looks cute today,
Or whatever it may be,
If that comes across your mind at all,
It's because you're picking up on the frequency I'm putting out of how I feel about myself,
Which is why self-love is so imperative and important.
Now,
That has nothing to do with makeup.
I'm doing this thing now where I don't like wearing eye shadow.
No,
I have blonde eyelashes.
I'm not eye shadow.
Mascara.
I have blonde eyelashes.
They're very long.
I put mascara on.
You can see them more,
But without it,
They're blonde,
And it's,
I don't know,
It's like a look.
It's like a model look.
I'll put this lip,
Cheek,
And eye shadow color that's like a three-in-one low-maintenance thing,
And it's pink,
And it's fun,
And I got the blonde thing,
And it's very model-y or whatever,
And it tickles me.
This isn't about the external thing.
This is about the energy behind the external thing,
And my two cents is I don't think people are pausing enough to go,
Am I trying to fill a wound by getting my lips done,
Getting a tuck,
Doing the thing,
Or is my wisdom guiding me to do it?
I guess what I'm saying,
I don't have a problem with it if love is guiding it,
If wisdom is guiding it.
If you are whole and complete within yourself,
And from that place,
From that place,
It's like,
You know what,
It would make me feel a little bit more confident,
And I'm intuitively and lovingly guided to this doctor,
Or this thing,
Or this makeup.
It has a very distinct,
Different feeling to it,
So that's my invitation for you is before you go,
And you do what everybody else is doing with the trend of altering your face,
Altering your body,
Pause,
Child.
Where is this decision coming from?
Is it peer pressure?
Is it low self-esteem?
Do I feel ashamed?
Do I feel not enough?
Am I judging myself?
Because there is a solution for that.
When we apply the medicine of self-love,
When we've got that,
We're like,
Oh,
Shoot,
I'm making a decision from a wounded place,
And we're like,
What does that part of me need to hear right now that I want everyone else to tell me by getting this thing done to my face or doing this thing to my body?
You're beautiful.
You're enough.
You're amazing.
What do I want them to say to me from getting this thing done to myself?
Can I begin to implement that on my own to myself?
You're beautiful.
You're cool.
You're enough.
Can I really feel it in the body or pray and say,
I'm realizing I feel ugly,
I'm realizing I don't feel enough,
I'm realizing I carry a lot of shame?
Okay,
Source that created me,
Send me the healing path or the book or the teacher or the therapist or the whatever,
The TV show,
Right?
That will heal that wound.
It is so important for us to start to master,
Am I choosing from love or am I choosing from fear?
Am I perfect at this?
No.
I'm not perfect,
But I'm choosing it.
I'm choosing to get better and say,
Where are my decisions coming from?
Does it feel light?
Does it feel expansive?
Does it feel joyful?
Does it feel life-giving?
Does it feel easy?
Does it feel guided?
Does it feel yes?
Does it feel like a knowing,
Okay,
I'm going to put that eye shadow on.
I'm going to do the thing.
I'm going to go talk to that doctor or if I really notice this isn't coming from that place Jamie just described.
This is coming from heaviness.
This is coming from sped up or shame or fear or sadness.
Okay,
Glad that I noticed it with compassion.
Let me pray.
What is my solution to shift this?
And then let me see once I've shifted the internal energy,
Do I still want to do the thing?
Then I know it's coming from a place of wholeness because altering your body and doing those things is an extreme thing to do to try to take back.
So this is going to serve you in the long run and make decisions that you don't have to try to undo and unwind,
Okay?
These are the things that will help you make the decisions about your beauty externalized from a place of love,
Okay?
I'm sending you guys all my love.
