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Facing Your Beloved

by Aaran Solh

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4.5
Type
guided
Activity
Meditation
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Everyone
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This guided meditation allows you to experience yourself and/or your partner in a deeper way than you may have been able to before. It guides you in opening to the non-verbal experience of your partner’s love, appreciation, and gratitude. It allows you to see them for who they really are and receive them with greater understanding and respect. If you are practicing solo, this practice allows you to receive and integrate your Anima or Animus. That is – your inner self of opposite gender. You simply imagine that part of you sitting across from you and acting as ‘partner number 2’. I’ve done this myself and it had quite a profound effect on me and on my ability to self-love. This new upload has a corrected audio file (some reviews mentioned the voice audio was too soft compared to the music, this has been corrected).

MeditationAwarenessHeart CenterGratitudeMovementSelf LoveLoveAppreciationUnderstandingRespectAnimaAnimusSensory AwarenessEmotional ConnectionMovement And DanceEmotionsRelationshipsRelationship Meditations

Transcript

Sit facing each other,

Close enough so that your knees are almost touching,

But not quite.

Decide between the two of you who will be number one and who will be number two.

Take a deep breath together and close your eyes.

Tune in to your auditory sense and notice the sounds around you.

Notice the ones that are distant and the ones that are close.

Those that are consistent and those that come and go.

Squeeze your own hand into a ball or fist.

Now open your hand and touch different parts of your body,

Becoming aware of the different sensations that you have throughout your own body.

The temperature,

The texture of the skin and feel the motion that is happening beneath the skin.

Release your hands and breathe in through your nose.

Notice any smells in your environment,

Even if it is just the smell of air.

Maybe you smell something subtle,

Maybe something strong,

Or maybe nothing at all.

Simply be aware.

Place any hand on top of your heart center,

At the center of your chest.

Feel your breath moving in and out of your body.

Marvel at the whole system of your body,

Functioning in its miraculous state,

Harmoniously and perfectly.

Feel your breath moving in and out of your body.

Feel your breath moving in and out of your body.

The person who is going first.

Very slowly begin moving your hand away from the center of your chest.

Become aware of any sensations in your hand and stop moving your hand when those sensations change.

Take a moment and then continue moving and stop again as those sensations change yet again.

Continue until you are almost at arm's length.

When you are almost at arm's length,

Turn your hand around to face the palm of your hand in front of your partner's chest,

Their heart center.

Become aware of the sensations you experience in the palm of your hand.

Partner number two.

Send a feeling of warmth,

Love and compassion from your heart center to the hand of your partner.

For a few seconds,

Remain present to the experience.

Take a deep breath together.

Let go of the connection.

Partner number one.

Begin moving your hand back towards yourself and notice again any changes in sensation and experience.

Stop when you feel a change and then after a moment,

Keep going.

Stop again when you feel a change until you are back at your own heart center.

Partner number two.

Begin moving your hand.

Place your hand back at the center of your chest with your palm down.

Partner number two.

Very slowly begin moving your hand away from the center of your chest.

Become aware of any sensations in your hand and stop moving your hand when those sensations change.

Take a moment and then continue moving and stop again as those sensations change yet again.

Continue until you are almost at arm's length.

When you are almost at arm's length,

Turn your hand around to face the palm of your hand in front of your partner's chest,

Their heart center.

Become aware of the sensations you experience in the palm of your hand.

And partner number one.

Send a feeling of warmth,

Love and compassion from your heart center to the hand of your partner.

For a few seconds,

Remain present to the experience.

Take a deep breath together.

Let go of the connection.

Partner number two.

Begin moving your hand back towards yourself and notice again any changes in sensation and experience.

Stop when you feel a change and then after a moment,

Keep going.

Stop again when you feel a change until you are back at your own heart center.

Partner number three.

Begin moving your hand back towards yourself and notice again any changes in sensation and experience.

Place your hand back at the center of your chest with your palm down.

And now,

Both partners,

Relax your hands down to your lap,

Allowing your entire body to become receptive.

As if your entire body was the palm of your hand.

In the same way that you felt your partner through the palm of your hand,

Feel them through your entire body.

Send each other warmth,

Love,

Compassion and sweetness.

Be open to receive from your partner in the way that they are offering to you,

Not in the same way that you are offering to them.

Be aware that their love for you feels different than your love for them.

Receive their love as it is being offered without expectations,

Recognizing that we all have an imprint of what love is supposed to be.

Release your expectations and receive the love exactly as it is being offered to you.

Be open to receive from your partner in the way that they are offering to you.

Be open to receive from your partner in the way that they are offering to you.

Bring your hands to the center of your chest together.

In prayer position,

Then open your eyes.

Look into each other's eyes with deep reverence,

Love and forgiveness.

Bow your heads in gratitude to each other.

Close your eyes again.

Allow your consciousness to release your partner with deep gratitude.

And start moving your body and stretching it as it feels good to you.

Take your time.

If you feel inspired,

Move towards each other,

Dance together,

Continuing to acknowledge each other's deep and unique love.

Offer each other respect through the movement,

Listening deeply while dancing together.

Thank you.

Meet your Teacher

Aaran SolhSan Cristobal de las Casas, Chis., Mexico

4.5 (113)

Recent Reviews

Tee

March 10, 2020

TY TY This was an interesting experience. It was quite meditative experience w/ myself. Namaste. Peace Shalom 💃Tee🐒

Rachel

January 28, 2020

Beautiful. Thank you.

Kylie

August 30, 2019

This is a beautiful way to help me accept my own love a little more. Thank you💕

Fabacon

February 18, 2019

Good concept, but the music is too loud.

Jyoti

December 20, 2018

I used this solo, it was helpful and stirred up deeper things for me to contemplate.

Laura

December 10, 2018

Beautiful, deep and loving. Thank you. ❤️

Damiön

July 10, 2017

Will have to try again actually facing my partner instead of laying down next to. Really great experience and exercise to try again

Cathy

July 10, 2017

Beautiful, I found the music level appropriate. Connected with my twin within. Thank you❣🙏

Deborah

July 9, 2017

Simply beautiful! Thank you! 💜

Steve

July 9, 2017

Great couples meditation 🌹

Elle

July 9, 2017

Beautiful but the music is a little too loud. Thank you 🙏🏻

👩🏼‍🌾Lori🙏🏽💗

July 9, 2017

Kudos to any couples who actually did this exercise together :) The world needs more of this kind of loving connection. Kudos to the creator of this meditation!

Danae

July 9, 2017

This made me cry. While I do not have a physical spiritual partner, something I long for, I enjoyed this moving experience and sent that love to whomever that is on a soul level. The beautiful part was feeling that receiving aspect. Knowing that who was sending me love back was my higher self. 💗 Thank you for creating this beautiful experience.

Jen

July 9, 2017

Very beautiful. I do not have a physical partner but I did this in spirit with my perfect match. Awesome!

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