Couples Are More Than A Relationship.

A couple is made of two people that love each other and want to live a life together, or they are already doing so. Is this your case? If so, how are you both managing the three foundations in a couple (love, communication, and sex)? If one of these doesn't bring fulfillment to either of you, the relationship needs some repairing. I share more about these in this audio.

Transcript

We are going to talk about couples.

And I want to say,

I am not a couples expert or anything like that.

I only base myself on what I have been observing,

Both in readings with many sources of information from the astral and in the physical plane,

As well as observing my surroundings and connecting with many people.

And I want to say,

A couple is much more than going for a romantic dinner or having a good time in bed.

A correct life as a couple can bring you a lot of abundance in your life.

However,

It is essential,

And you have to work for it,

To have a good connection,

Communication and synchronicity.

Do not neglect any aspects of the couple,

Whether it is communication,

Sex,

Mutual respect,

The trust and the empowerment in the connection to the other person,

Etc.

So if any of these pillars fail,

The couple is damaged.

It doesn't mean that if something small doesn't work,

The couple will break up.

However,

If that little doesn't continue to grow,

It can become a significant problem,

Especially relating to the three main foundations in a couple.

I am going to share a little bit about them.

First of all,

A couple is made up of two people,

And they face or plan life together.

That would be the dictionary definition that I would give to the topic of couples.

I want to focus on what a stable couple is.

Today,

When you don't have a partner,

It is normal to go out,

And some people seek to end up in bed with someone and with whoever.

And definitely,

You know,

It is something significant and it is something important for some people that they enjoy.

But for others,

It is not something good.

It is not something good for their core energy,

And it is not something good for their heart chakra.

But that's irrelevant in the end,

And it matters very much that it is important for the potential for that connection to be something else.

Sometimes unwrapping the gift first takes things away,

Takes all the magic and all the mystery.

And sometimes,

You know,

It is good to wait for that,

That helps something beautiful to grow.

Therefore,

If you are looking for a stable partner,

This is something good to keep in mind.

And this is a small subject that I wanted to mention,

Because in a way humanity is giving more to that animal side,

Maybe you can call it,

And sometimes we deny other things.

So anyway,

Couples,

Two people who find a mutual connection and discover that they can have a life together,

Or at least try.

And this is where they want to go.

A couple who already lives together,

That can be carried away by the constant hustle and bustle of life,

Such as work,

Friends,

Things to do,

And for the vast majority,

Children.

All this is great,

And if you decide to have kids and you have them,

The connection,

Which is supposed to and not always,

Could be invaluable.

For most people it is something they give to each other and have in common,

Even if it's for adoption,

Doesn't matter.

With routine on the back,

The tight couple talks about work,

About the day,

And about your mood.

Some weekends these couples in JAMovie together are a nice walk,

And here we can add some couples with a weekend-scarce intimacy to an excessive one that even annoys the neifros.

Okay,

There is everything in that polarity,

Both edges.

So,

A bubble is not only from soap or a dangerous financial thing.

The concept bubble may apply for everything.

It includes couples.

We all,

More or less,

Know what it is a financial bubble.

A couple that lacks some connections could be in a bubble state.

It can trigger love affairs or one-night stand-ins outside of the couple.

Hence,

Discussions,

Toxicity,

And excessive independence.

Obviously,

A certain degree of that independence is excellent and actually recommended.

But when a bigger problem explodes,

Such as the financial market,

Bubbles burst,

And everything is ruined.

Here,

The same applies.

Apart from living together and enjoying a series of Netflix as a couple,

There is much more.

It is vital to have a good base of communication in a couple.

It is widespread for one person or both in the couple to share their emotions more with a friend or a family member than with their partner.

Absolutely not right,

Because sometimes these emotional problems are a thing of the couple and they have to be repaired or empowered without any third parties getting involved.

And as I shared before,

A couple is two independent people,

Two souls,

Who share a life,

Or that will do it in the future.

Therefore,

It is essential to understand that both people in the couple are different.

It is sometimes difficult to accept that,

Especially when you see that it doesn't go with you or whatever it is.

It will even harm your partner.

In the second case,

You can advise,

And sometimes also,

Without noticing,

Have a little toxicity to avoid about experience for your partner.

For this second reason,

Especially,

You should try to let your partner do what he,

She,

Or they seem fit and allow they to have that life experience if they desire.

Within the normal,

Of course.

Here is the basis of communication in the couple.

Explain your points of view and listen to your partner's points of view.

There will be a point that you will not like some aspects,

And you will have to accept that if so.

It can take years to get here,

And I think that it is something that,

As life progresses,

The couple will face from different points of view.

And you might think,

How about the needle ground?

And here is one of the couple's magic weapons.

Sometimes,

If there is a conflict and it is very annoying for one of the two people,

You can always agree.

An easy example is that the first person is free to think or act that way,

But with a little consideration for the other person.

This is called coexistence,

And it is essential.

You can always reach a midpoint and come to the terms where there is a difference.

Sometimes,

Your partner sacrifices things for you.

It will be best for you to also sacrifice stuff for your banner.

In this way,

You will reach a state of balance.

And when there is a disagreement,

Which there will be,

You have to face them as a couple to continue to have a beautiful relationship.

And this is something that gradually matures if love truly exists.

And do not hide from your partner at home behind your phone,

For crying out loud.

This will damage the core of the couple a lot,

And little by little,

It will inflate that bubble that we want to precisely avoid.

Spend a little less time on the internet and more on your partner.

I know I say this a lot of times,

But this topic is really doing a lot of damage,

And most don't seem to notice.

Most will go ahead and find much more damage than any bug that has wings and humps.

Or even if it's microscopic,

You know,

This is much worse.

So it is difficult to prioritize three essential foundations in a couple,

But perhaps they are the most problems in communication.

However,

There is also the foundation of love.

A couple has to love each other.

We must take into account the honeymoon stage effect.

After a while,

And this depends on many things and persons,

That passion is lost.

But loving the person doesn't cease to exist.

You can even go into fights with the other person because you love them.

Maybe you are seeing your partner is getting lost in something,

A TV series,

For example,

Or something else.

Your fear for your partner's mental,

Spiritual,

Or physical health,

And you keep on this focus,

It can make you annoying,

Sometimes without realizing it,

Even if you have the best intentions.

Some couples do not care about what the other person does,

And sometimes it seems like a more viable option for living together.

But with that lack of love,

You are going to inflate that bubble even more.

If a couple has little or no love,

It is fragile.

It is a work problem that you guys have to address.

Having to live with a third person,

A mother for example,

May be enough to destroy a couple,

Especially if there is no communication,

So pay attention to this also.

And then a little colossal problem.

When it doesn't work,

It can explode very hard.

And the third essential foundation of the couples is sex.

It does not matter if the couple is heterosexual or not,

Today there are enough tools to help all the couples to connect at the most intimate level.

Even if you are embarrassed,

Which you shouldn't,

You can buy it anonymously.

But all the movies,

Narrations,

And social teachings make us think that sex is supposed to be in a specific way,

And that is doing a lot of harm.

Both who think sex is this and only this way,

As well as others,

Are negating intimacy because it is only nice in the movies.

Communication when sex doesn't work always gets out of pressure.

It is an intuitive,

Instinctive animal,

Mental and spiritual aspect of the human consciousness.

It is much more critical than it appears.

Sex may be failing many more couples than we imagine.

For starters,

Both parties must be happy.

Not communicating out is fast if dissatisfaction or something now means severe damage in the long term.

It may be very complicated to repair that if there is not a breakup.

It is crucial that at least your partner knows what you want to do and maybe what you don't have and that you also know what your partner wants to do and what your partner doesn't have.

And you know,

I want to mention about connecting both naval chakras and do you remember what I told you that usually a night standing might not be ideal at an energetic point of view?

Because when you make love,

The energies mix and you take the energy from the other person and the other person takes it as yours.

As I said,

They are gadgets that will allow a missionary position in a non-straight couple having sex.

The soul is the one that chooses to be either gender.

So if a male human is a woman at a soul level,

Her chakras will move like a woman's.

If this is true,

Regardless of what is between her legs,

You will address this person as a woman.

So for this reason,

It is essential that couple also study their own sexual connection.

Are both people happy?

Is there a genuine connection unifying both the naval chakras?

Or are there only games and kisses?

It is vital to have both.

Although the couple can continue to be happy without connecting at that more profound level,

It is an energetic matter that the couple definitely loses.

They never become a unit because the chakra's circuit doesn't become one,

Sort of forming an energy oval.

It could harm the couple in some people while others put love ahead and ignore it.

However,

That energy connection will not exist.

So you need to seek what is possible and to what the physical allows and to the agreements that the couple reaches.

It is vital from time to time to make love.

Maybe you are thinking,

And who has that problem?

More than you think.

As I said before,

I have worked with many people and for almost 12 years or more.

Maybe months,

Even years,

Will go by it.

There can also be only games and kisses as perhaps the couple doesn't want to seek a further connection.

And you should question,

Maybe there is something to check here.

This creates and symbolizes substantial lack of the energetic and subconscious connection in that relationship.

The more positive energy,

The better,

Right?

Otherwise,

It gets colder and colder and may take weeks or even months for an encounter.

Not all couples can bear this.

If there is a problem in bed now,

Or if there is a reason or a different problem,

It is advisable to treat it as soon as possible,

So that it is a positive experience for the both of you.

Otherwise,

Negative experiences can also be generated that teach you that either making love is unpleasant or your partner is unpleasant altogether.

And it will be very complicated for the other half,

Generating fears,

Doubts,

Esteem problems,

Suspicion,

Etc.

It depends on the person.

Some may think more than others,

But they are negative emotions that should not be presented.

In fact,

This will also lengthen the time between the couple's moments of intimacy,

The term being longer and longer,

Even losing the magic even more.

So you need to take care of this aspect also.

And well,

This wraps up for the three foundations in the couple.

All three are super important,

Communication,

Love and sex.

So make sure that is keeping a great state of balance,

And that there is a beautiful flow.

If you have any questions,

Please let me know.

Otherwise,

Until next time,

Namaste.