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Stop People Pleasing (Guided Meditation For Over Givers)

by Darius Bashar

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4.9
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guided
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Meditation
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This guided meditation for SELF LOVE is for all the people pleasers and over-givers out there. It is dedicated to those who have chosen to live with hope in their hearts, who care so much -- about their family + friends, about the world, even about strangers they meet. I see you with your gigantic heart. I feel how much you care. It matters. Thank you -- sincerely and truly -- for ALL that you do. Take this 15 minutes to fill your cup... You are worthy of it. Big love, D

Self LovePeople PleasingGiversHopeCareFamilyFriendsWorldStrangersLoveSelf CompassionGratitudeSelf ReflectionJournalingSelf ForgivenessEmotional AwarenessSelf WorthGuided MeditationsWorthiness

Transcript

Good morning and welcome to the artist morning.

My name is Darius and this meditation is dedicated to those of you out there who have chosen to live with hope in your hearts.

This meditation is dedicated to those of you out there who care so much.

You care about your family and friends.

You care about the world.

You care even about strangers you meet.

I see you.

I see you with your gigantic heart.

I feel you.

I feel how much you care.

And I know that you truly do so much for the people around you.

My intention with this meditation is simply to thank you.

Even if I've never met you before,

What you do for the world,

What you do for your world,

No matter how big your world is,

It matters.

Now there's a chance you might be very resistant to receiving praise and gratitude and that might be because you have become accustomed to placing the attention and the consideration on others and that's okay.

But this intention and this meditation is for you.

Let's begin our meditation this morning.

Your eyes are open.

I invite you to close them now.

As we begin to go inwards together.

As we begin to carve out some space just for you.

Feeling your body.

Feeling your heart.

Feeling everything down.

Thank you,

Dear friend.

Thank you for choosing to live with your heart wide open.

Thank you for caring so deeply about those around you.

Thank you for all the many things you do that maybe possibly you never receive praise for or acknowledgement for.

Thank you for all the times you have lifted other people up.

All the times you have sacrificed for someone else.

Thank you for being the type of person who jumps in when someone is in need.

Thank you,

Dear friend.

I see you.

Sincerely,

Thank you.

What does it feel like to hear the words thank you?

Are you able to take it in?

Are you able to receive praise,

Gratitude,

And celebration for the person you have become,

The person you are,

The person you are becoming every day?

Let's take a deep breath together now.

Just feeling the love that exists inside you.

Just reflecting on the person you have become with your life,

A person who has chosen kindness,

A person who has chosen consideration,

A person who stands up for justice,

A person that is not perfect because nobody is,

A person that has made mistakes,

Perhaps a person who can forgive themselves,

That can forgive others.

Taking a moment in the silence here.

Taking a moment to remember that you don't need to say anything or do anything to be worthy of love.

What would your life be like if you were able to appreciate yourself just a little bit more a little bit more?

I ask myself this question all the time.

Sometimes it's really easy for me to support and celebrate and lift up other people.

For whatever reason,

It's more difficult for me to do that for myself.

I don't think this is because I'm broken.

I think maybe there's something about the human experience that takes us down that path of self-criticism.

Maybe you can relate.

Maybe like me,

It can be easier sometimes to be kind to others.

I'll ask you again,

What would your life be like if you were able to be just as kind to yourself?

Just as supportive to yourself?

There's anything you'd like to say to yourself,

To your heart,

To your human.

I'm going to stay quiet for the remainder of the meditation and just let you guys have some time together.

No one else?

You Bravo dear artist,

Bravo dear creator Our meditation has come to an end.

Thank you for meditating with me this morning and Thank you for all that you do Sincerely truly from the bottom of my heart From the top of my heart from the sides of my heart.

Thank you For those of us doing the meditation live at artist morning I'm gonna put 15 minutes on the clock and allow you to do some private personal journaling For those of you catching us on a replay,

Of course,

Feel free to do the same Until the next meditation until the next time we meet again My name's Darius and we'll see you next time

Meet your Teacher

Darius BasharToronto, ON, Canada

4.8 (225)

Recent Reviews

Georgina

July 8, 2025

Lovely meditation I have to remember to be kind and appreciate myself

Stanislava

May 7, 2025

I needed this cry. After a very long time I realised that my heart didn't get smaller, but it got wounded. So many times now I chose not to help because of fear, so many times now I chose to withdraw because of pain. But I always regret it after. I wished to be again that innocent, naive girl that loved and enjoyed helping so much, she did not care for the outcome or acknowledgment. Thank you. I felt so much compassion for this hurt part of mine. If you happen to know of meditation that can help me to heal this pain in heart so that I can open to the goodness in the world and in the people, I'd be very grateful to know β™₯οΈπŸ™

Carrie

April 21, 2024

Darius always zeros in on what is in my heart, what needs to be healed and what my soul needs to hear. His words remind me that I am whole, I am worthy and I am wonderful just as I am.

Rachel

January 17, 2023

Beautiful music, message and guidance! Thank you for sharing your gift, Darius!! πŸ™πŸΌ

Dawn

January 8, 2023

It was so nice to feel seen and appreciated for this meditation. Thank you so much, Darius. I see and appreciate you. πŸ™πŸ»πŸ’š

Stacey

December 17, 2022

Simply beautiful and I appreciate your vulnerability at the end Darius πŸ’›

Deanna

October 8, 2022

Thank you for this meditation!! I needed to hear this. I’m one who tries to keep the peace, to make everyone around me happy and try to help others. I feel bad if I must say no, especially in certain situations. I work hard each day to honor myself and set boundaries but some days are harder than others. I appreciate this meditation so very much. Thank you Darius! πŸ’œβœŒπŸ»

Jennifer

August 30, 2022

So amazing, brought tears to my eyes. Thank you!

Marilyn

July 6, 2022

It’s not selfish to take a break

Corinne

May 19, 2022

Incredibly powerful. Thank you for your words πŸ™πŸ»πŸ’—

Manie

May 15, 2022

Ouch!!! I became very teary ... you've touched a soft spot. Thanks Darius for your living kindness

Sam

April 1, 2022

Loved it. Another really powerful meditation with great intention for the day. Thanks Darius!

Marion

March 7, 2022

Thank you so much Darius, tears came so hard... I am a caretaking relative, taking care of both of my parents.. Finding myself in difficult, challenging relationships.. Sometimes it s just to much... Thank for that releasing 15min - warm greetings from Munich/Germany - Marion

Paula

February 28, 2022

And I thank you for all that you do. I thank you and appreciate all that you share with us through these meditations. πŸ™πŸ½ Thank you!

Jade

November 5, 2021

Wow, such a gorgeous meditation. I didn't want it to end. Thanks so much for sharing, will definitely repeat this one x

Tania

October 28, 2021

THKYOU namaste πŸ™

Miki

October 28, 2021

Thank You Darius. What a beautiful meditation you have created again. Really touched my heart. πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™

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