03:34

You Are Okay

by Betsy Johnson

Rated
4.7
Type
guided
Activity
Meditation
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Everyone
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It’s okay. It’s okay to be sad. To be angry. To be afraid. To be weary. It’s okay to leave the dishes. It’s okay to let the grass grow. It’s okay to fall down. It’s okay to screw up. It’s okay to say, “I don’t know.” “I can’t do this alone.” You do not have to be perfect. You cannot be perfect. You are not perfect. What a blessing, what a relief it is to just be okay. To be okay with your fears, your mistakes, and your scars. To be okay for this. You are okay.

AcceptanceEmotionsCompassionPerfectionismBreathingSelf AcceptanceEmotional ValidationSelf CompassionOvercoming PerfectionismMindful Breathing

Transcript

Welcome to a hit of hope.

Settle your sits bones.

Close your eyes.

Take a deep breath in and exhale.

It's okay.

It's okay to be sad.

It's okay to be angry,

To be afraid,

To be weary.

It's okay to leave the dishes in the sink.

It's okay to let the grass grow.

It's okay to fall down.

And it's okay to screw up.

It's okay to say,

I don't know.

Or I can't do this alone.

Or I've done some bad shit.

Or I've hurt the ones I love.

It's okay to cry.

To stare at the wall.

To do too much.

To do nothing at all.

It's okay to say,

Not today.

It's okay to say,

I'll try again tomorrow.

It's okay to feel awkward and strange.

Weird and broken.

What is not okay?

To let the voices inside have their way.

The ones that want to hurt your tender and bruised self.

You do not have to be perfect.

You cannot be perfect.

You are not perfect.

And trying to be perfect is a kind of hell.

It will burn you again and again.

What a blessing.

What a relief.

To just be okay.

To be okay with your fears.

Your mistakes.

And your scars.

To be okay for this breath in and this breath out.

You are okay.

You are okay.

You are okay.

Namaste.

Meet your Teacher

Betsy JohnsonCastle Danger, MN, USA

4.7 (4 577)

Recent Reviews

Kelli

January 23, 2026

You save me. Give this a listen. You really are okay. 👌🏻

Pamela

January 14, 2026

This is so on point and timely. Thank you so much for sharing! 🙏🏽

Donna

November 17, 2025

Thank you, Betsy! Wonderful to hear! Thanks for recording that and making it accessible on Insight Timer. I really needed to hear that today! Donna

Lisa

October 22, 2025

Soothing balm to heal my troubled soul. Thank you.

Tammy

September 11, 2025

I love this one. It totally rests my perfectionist self.

Tonia

September 6, 2025

That was amazing. It was exactly what I needed. All of it resonated with me and this morning I was totally struggling and this was a huge help! Thank you’

Lisa

July 31, 2025

This was really what I needed to hear tonight. Thank you!!!!

Sabrina

June 13, 2025

This was so good short and sweet and so relatable in many ways with basic vocabulary thank you so much for this

Jaye

May 9, 2025

Best one yet! This one really hit home for me today. I needed to every word of this. Thank you!

Esther

April 25, 2025

Good reminder that we always do the best we can and that things don't always go smoothly. And that's ok.

Susan

April 8, 2025

Short yet fabulous meditation. Thank you SO much. 😊

Maryann

March 4, 2025

Great affirmation meditation. Also good for those of us who wrestle with perfectionism’

Cindy

February 21, 2025

I LOVED this! It resonated perfectly with me! Thank you for sharing. I will come back to this meditation again. Namaste

CyndyM

February 17, 2025

I need to hear these words as a life-long perfectionist. It is hell.

Marci

February 5, 2025

Short and very sweet. Just want I needed as I felt rushed and stressed with my new morning routine.

Anya

February 1, 2025

Hard day after very hard week. This helps. Thank you. 🙏🏽

Sarah

December 17, 2024

Love this, was exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you!

James

September 30, 2024

This was exactly what I needed to get through an emotionally challenging day. Listening to this affirmation at lunch provided me with the clarity to relax and put things in perspective. Thank you!

Emma

September 9, 2024

I'll return here often. Epic reality permission slip. So grateful for this 🙏🏼🤍

Smaranda

August 11, 2024

This meditation was medicine in its purest form. It came at the right time for me. Thank you.

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