This is a meditation for those moments when you find yourself feeling a little tender and in need of soothing comfort.
Take a moment to get comfortable.
You might like to wrap yourself in a blanket,
Perhaps holding something warm like a cup of tea or a hot water bottle.
Or even just placing your own hand someplace comforting like your belly or your chest and feeling the warmth of your own hand.
Anything that helps your body feel a little more held.
Let yourself settle slowly.
Slowly.
And when you're ready,
You can close your eyes or simply soften your gaze.
Whatever feels safest for you right now.
Begin by noticing the sound around you.
The soft crackling of the fire.
Let that sound anchor you.
Steady,
Warm,
Soothing.
Imagine sensing the warmth of the fire inviting your body to soften.
As if you are sitting somewhere safe,
Somewhere cozy.
Somewhere you can simply allow yourself to be.
And now,
Gently bring your awareness to your breath.
No need to change anything just yet.
Just noticing.
And when you're ready,
We'll take a slow breath in through the nose,
Inhaling softly.
Hold for just a moment and then exhale through the mouth,
Slowly,
Gently.
Again,
Inhale through the nose,
Hold,
Exhale through the mouth,
Letting something soften.
Continue at your own pace,
Breathing in through the nose,
Holding gently at the top,
And exhaling out through the mouth.
As you inhale,
You might silently say to yourself,
Right here.
And as you exhale,
Right now.
Inhale,
Right here.
Exhale,
Right now.
Right here.
Nothing to solve,
Nothing to figure out,
Just this moment,
Just this breath.
And if there is a tenderness present within you,
Some emotion,
Some sensation,
You don't need to name it,
You don't even need to understand it.
Just let it be here,
Held in your awareness,
Comforted by your own presence.
You are allowed to feel this.
You are allowed to be right where you are.
Let your breathing return to its natural rhythm now,
And let yourself rest here for a few more breaths.
And when you feel ready,
Begin to gently return to your surroundings.
Noticing your body again,
The space around you.
Maybe wiggling your fingers or your toes,
And if your eyes are closed,
You can slowly open them.
Thank you for taking the time to practice with me today.
For showing up and simply being with your tenderness.
Be well.