
Tender Self-Care (Short Version, No Muscle Tensing)
Give yourself some tender loving care. Take a break from the whole story of your life and drift into a deep and peaceful sleep. Shorter version without muscle tensing. Recorded live on the 1st of October 2020.
Transcript
And then let's take a lovely deep releasing breath together so that we're all dropping into the quietude of just being together so nice deep breath down into your belly,
Hunching your shoulders up and then letting your body go and then let's take a few more of those really slow,
Low releasing breaths now this is the part of your day where you don't need to make lots of effort,
You don't need to work hard but just let that breath go really deep,
Low down into your belly,
Let there be a softening in the abdomen and then just give that exhalation away with a lovely long and soft sigh deep breaths are like a doorway into the wide open,
Gentle space of just being,
So let the exhalation lead you,
Go right to the very end of that exhalation and melt into the pause,
The momentary gap before that new breath arises and with every exhalation let everything fall away,
It's the season for everything falling away and just like the tree gives up its leaves with no resistance,
Let yourself give it all away,
Handing everything over,
Slowing your breath right down and accepting the invitation that every exhalation offers to just let it all go and just for now really be with the experience,
Body,
Breathing and as we breathe and as the energies of your day settle down naturally and as you bring your willingness to give yourself some time and space from your thinking mind,
Just dropping into that space beneath,
Deeper than the story of your life,
Where it all falls away lift up the weight of your body,
Just let the weight of your whole body fall into the surface supporting it,
That support rising up to meet this body and body pouring like liquid into that support,
Bringing in a gentle intention to remain present and aware even as body drops into the sweetest,
Deepest,
Most healing rest and any time that you check out,
Just check back in,
No judgement,
Just body breathing right now,
See if you can stay with the natural feeling of your breath,
As body breathes without any interference,
Without any controlling,
Just noticing the movement of your body as breath comes in and as breath goes out and as we take our journey around the body,
Being mindful of each part,
Let's emphasise the space beneath that is aware,
Bringing each part of the body into focus,
As a doorway into presence,
Welcome the feeling of your whole body,
Whole body,
The aliveness,
The touch of air on the skin,
The movement of your breath,
The tactile sensation of the clothes and blankets touching your skin,
The whole body free,
Completely free to unwind,
To empty out,
And now welcome the feeling inside the mouth,
The space inside mouth,
Without imagining it,
Just the actual feeling,
The inner walls of your mouth,
The taste,
The natural taste,
The tongue,
The throat melting into a stillness that is right here,
That you don't need to find or create,
Everything falling into that stillness,
Hinges of the jaw softening,
To softening of the whole face,
The bones,
The ears,
Just resting here with no anticipation,
No controlling,
No managing,
Eyes softening right back,
Held in the soft space of each socket,
Eyes melting back,
Temples,
Eyebrows,
Right eyebrow,
Left eyebrow,
Space between eyebrows,
Softening open,
And none of this is a doing,
It's an allowing,
There is nothing to do,
Could you do even less?
The feeling behind eyes,
Softening and expanding,
Just welcome the sensation behind eyes,
Give it space,
See if you can stay,
Unhooking if you leave,
The sensation behind eyes,
Let it come to you and allow it to unfold,
You are aware as an unlocated presence,
You are aware of the mind,
The mind releasing its weight,
You don't need to control your mind right now,
Just let thought be free,
Let it come and let it go,
Like leaves falling from a tree one by one,
Brain sense the weight of brain,
There is nothing to understand,
Right now,
Trusting that all is well and just as it should be,
Nothing is out of place,
Not one thing is out of place,
Brain resting in the warm fluid that it bathes in,
Sensing the back of head,
Just the feeling,
Base of skull,
The whole back of body,
The whole front of body,
The space beneath,
The space above,
Behind and in front,
The whole body,
The whole body,
Just being is enough,
Nothing added,
Just being.
And now welcome the experience,
Right arm,
Right arm,
You don't need to imagine it,
Not the memory,
But right now the raw,
Direct,
Immediate feeling right arm,
Let the weight go,
Right hand,
Back of right hand,
Palm of right hand,
Can you feel the aliveness,
Let the sensation be free,
Right palm,
Thumb,
Second finger,
Third,
Fourth,
Fifth,
Sixth,
Fourth,
Little finger,
Wrist,
Forearm,
Elbow,
Upper arm,
Armpit,
Right side of chest,
Right side of back,
Waist,
Hip,
Thigh,
Knee,
Back of knee,
Shin,
Calf,
Ankle,
Heel,
Sole of right foot,
The arch,
Big toe,
Second,
Third,
Fourth,
Little toe,
Releasing and letting go,
You are aware,
You are awareness itself,
Effortless,
Dropping right into the heart of yourself,
Wide open to this whole moment,
Awake and aware to it all,
Without splitting off,
Just a oneness with all that is,
No separation,
And now welcoming the experience left arm,
Whole left arm,
Back of left arm,
The immediate sensation left hand,
Without imagining it or remembering it,
But the current sensation right now,
Left hand,
Palm of left hand,
Right hand,
Alive,
Tingling,
Waves of vibration,
Thumb,
Second finger,
Third,
Fourth,
Little finger,
Wrist,
Forearm,
Elbow,
Upper arm,
Thumb,
Shoulder,
Armpit,
Left side of back,
Left side of chest,
Calf,
Ankle,
Heel,
Sole of left foot,
The arch,
Big toe,
Second,
Third,
Fourth,
Little toe,
Releasing and letting go,
The whole body,
This whole body,
Alive,
Pulsating with life,
Free,
Free,
To expand in all directions,
Emptying out with a willingness to release whatever is being held,
Nothing to contain,
Don't need to contain anything,
Nothing,
No agenda,
Just being here,
Now,
Wide open,
Wide awake,
Even as body softens and sleeps,
You remain,
Not the person,
Not all the roles that you play,
Not the name or the form,
But you,
You,
An infinite,
Eternal being remains.
Now,
Give up all the objects of mind,
Body and world and be more interested in what lies beneath,
That which is knowing this whole moment by itself,
And let's rest together now as that undefended presence,
And any time that you check out,
Any time that you split off without any judgement,
And come right back to the being,
The being where you just are,
You just are.
Kevin You You You You You You You You You You You Falling out of your mind Again and again and again Just being You are aware You are present,
Conscious Even as body sleeps Just being You And now welcome the feeling of your whole body The feeling of the whole body arising in you This wide open awareness Body a mass of sensation Waves of vibration Body alive Every cell dancing with aliveness Nervous system deeply at rest All of your internal organs and glands at rest Left to their natural functioning Everything in you,
Nothing outside Everything appearing in you,
Every sound Every sight Every sensation Every moment Every thought This whole moment unfolding In you as you Feel the gentle movement of your breath as the breath functions all by itself providing a sense of the miracle,
The incredible intelligence unfolding moment by moment body functioning,
Heart beating,
Breath moving just checking in one last time for any areas of holding or resistance surrendering that last bit of trying and resting wide open to now to what this moment wants to reveal and let's invite the breath to deepen flowing a little deeper down into your abdomen and wide into your chest and just enjoying the feeling of a long slow and deep breath quenching this body's need for that nourishment feeling every drop of breath and then giving the exhalation away with a lovely long and soft sigh noticing any straining at the now just those energies that arise that want to get to the next moment they're just to be seen,
Seen by an undefended presence that is not trying to get anywhere and just breath moving through your body like your whole body is breathing,
Every cell drinking in that nourishment and then giving it away,
Giving it all back,
Nothing to hold and spending these very precious remaining moments listening listening to this whole moment and whatever it wants to reveal,
No agenda,
Just here now and now what do you really really want?
Saying a prayer for your life and allowing it to arise from the depths of your being and trusting,
Trusting the grace that is ever present that has never left you for one moment that we can come back to over and over again when we forget may you be well,
May you be at peace and may you be happy
4.8 (222)
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Tess
September 4, 2025
Thank you so very much. Iβve not rested this deeply in a very long time.
Leigh
July 12, 2024
Amanda, this meditation was almost hypnotic. The spaciousness of it along with the beautiful vocal background music, made for an amazing meditative experience. While I love all your more recent tracks, some of these older are also profound. Blessings to you beautiful friend β€. Had time for a longer meditation today and this track helped ease some of the tension and accumulated stress in the body. Your Amandagenic language, tone and overall 'flavour' really helped me settle behind or beyond the mind stories that have fed the tension. As always precious friend, I place my heartfelt gratitude at your feet. ππβ€
Tammy
June 26, 2022
Very nice
Shiela
April 19, 2022
I love β€οΈ this meditation π§ββοΈ!!!
Donna
April 10, 2022
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Terry
March 28, 2022
Wonderful time of voice Dropped me in no time
Julia
February 17, 2022
I really appreciate this sleep meditation. Nice pacing and voice. Very helpful. Thank you ππΌ
Katharina
March 23, 2021
Beautiful. Just the ending was a bit abrupt...
Anabel
October 13, 2020
So sweet, comforting and relaxing... Thank you Mandy. Be safe, be well sweet soul ππ
Catherine
October 5, 2020
Thank youππ»ππ»ππ»I used it several times during the night, each time fell asleep rather quickly, so I have no clue about the full contentππ»ππ»ππ»
Krista
October 4, 2020
Thanks very much for this very relaxing sleep meditation:)
HoneyTea
Perfect wind down, so calming.. Just amazing Mandy thank you π And the music is sublimely beautiful π₯°
