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You and Your Mind

by Stephen Schettini

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A practice to help keep you and your mind on the same track.

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Transcript

When you meditate,

You're using your mind differently.

It's the same mind,

Or at least it feels like it.

But you start with the decision to keep it restrained,

Within limits.

And it's all about you and your mind.

So start with the body part of you,

The physical.

And keep your attention on the breath.

Watch it come and go.

If you're calm,

It will slowly grow longer.

So watch that while you let it happen.

The whole point here is to let the mind be,

But keep an eye on it.

It's like looking after a little child.

Let the breath come and go,

And keep your attention on it.

In and out.

And between each in and out,

A still point.

Lasts just for a moment.

But just take notice of it.

Helps to focus your attention.

It's interesting too.

This is you breathing.

What's new about that?

Well when you look,

When you're watching it,

Everything is new.

Every breath is different.

So here you are,

You and your mind.

Watching something very familiar,

And yet quite new.

That's what it means to be in the present moment.

The present moment is always new.

And when you focus on the newness,

Then the old patterns,

The reactive patterns,

The habits,

They have less chance of kicking in.

Your mind is open.

You are open.

And in that openness now ask yourself how you feel.

Don't get complicated.

You feel good or bad.

Relaxed or tense.

Grateful or poor me.

You and your mind are on a journey together.

But only when you pay attention.

The rest of the time you and your mind seem to be separate.

And yet when they're together,

They're so much stronger.

And that strength comes from the effort that you put into meditation.

And the effort is not strenuous.

It's simply making a decision to sit for 10 minutes and sticking to it,

No matter what.

How do you feel?

Do you feel bad?

Does that make you want to quit your meditation?

Maybe it does,

But you don't quit.

Do you feel good?

Maybe this is going so well that you don't need to meditate anymore.

It doesn't matter how you feel.

What matters is whether you're paying attention.

How do you feel?

Now what about your thoughts?

Your mind is a constant source of thoughts.

Sometimes racing so fast you can hardly keep up.

Here you are now,

Just you and your mind.

It's manageable and you can see the thoughts coming and going.

And you're careful not to get caught up in them.

But to watch,

To see,

To pay attention,

To be aware,

To be in the present moment,

Just you and your mind.

It's really not complicated.

And yet you may think that your mind is complicating things all the time and making life much more stressful than it needs to be.

And if that's true,

Well that's good news because that means the stress is within your reach.

You have a say.

And you do that by meditating,

By taking ten minutes to watch the breath,

To know how you're feeling and to watch the thoughts without getting caught up in them.

And after those ten minutes you are more mindful and you can carry that extra mindfulness into the next thing you do and maybe even further.

And you can reinforce it during the day by taking another ten minutes or less by taking one minute or less by taking one breath.

If you breathe like this attentively every morning for ten minutes,

Then you can call on any single breath during the day to bring you back to this state of clarity.

It's a gift.

If you've done this ten minutes,

Be grateful to you and your mind.

That's what makes it possible.

And remember,

The breath is very simple,

But keeping your attention on it isn't so easy.

So give yourself a pat on the back for sticking with it for ten minutes and resolving to keep doing it,

Not just every morning,

But during the day.

A breath here,

A breath there leads gradually to greater attention,

Greater clarity and a much happier you and your mind.

Meet your Teacher

Stephen SchettiniMontreal, Canada

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Recent Reviews

James

November 1, 2025

Beautiful thank you 🙏🏼

Margaret

May 20, 2025

Thank you for this timely reminder to pause and consider life as it goes by. A small step off the merry go round of life is a valuable action. Namaste

Jason

September 4, 2024

Simple and clear. Liked him saying to do it for 10 minutes, 1 minute, or one breath throughout the day.

Brenda

June 9, 2024

Calming.. Thsnk you.

Luis

August 28, 2023

Great technique Thanks Check my editar ions. Regards

JulieAnne

August 6, 2022

Very insightful for a short meditation. Just what is needed sometimes. A little clarity with the help of a coach.

Carlos

August 3, 2020

Thanks. I enjoyed your short talk

Clare

March 7, 2020

Such a good explanation of what meditation is, and is about, while guiding us to experience it. Thank you.

Maria

March 31, 2019

Thank you! I listening to this I know I can be kind to myself and watch where my mind goes. I do create my own stress.

Kim

February 9, 2019

Simply put...our mind is our friend and co pilot...be acquainted and connected to each other.

Castletown,

March 3, 2018

Really nice start to my day

Lisa

February 27, 2018

Reminds and helps me with the simple practice of focusing on each new breath, even if a only have a minute or so, and how that can keep my mind fresh and stop old habits from taking over. 🙏❤️

Abhishek

December 15, 2017

Really informational and soothing.

Ceci

June 9, 2017

Thank you for bringing clarity to my day! 🌺

Ali

March 9, 2017

Thank you. I keep returning to this one 🙏

Patrice

February 14, 2017

Just what I needed today--thank you for helping me keep focussing and breathing.

Nora

February 4, 2017

Brings a smile to my face!

Deb

January 19, 2017

I like his clarity and style, easy to listen to

Ana

January 18, 2017

Thank you again ! Encora🎶

Tatiana

January 18, 2017

Thank you...! Namasté.

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